posted May 29, 2018 01:52 PM            

Cancerians (like most water signs) are FLUID/LIQUID and will absorb influences from other aspects. Look to Moon/Venus/Mars as well!!

posted May 29, 2018 02:23 PM            

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Originally posted by Nine:
Interesting. So basically he was spending lots of alone time with you.

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Yes. A lot of alone time. I think he was able to get confident when seeing me in a more relaxed environment.

posted May 30, 2018 08:06 PM            

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Originally posted by charlie:
I’m not sure what any of you are talking about :-/ Or I’m not a Cancer Sun..

Cancerians (like most water signs) are FLUID/LIQUID and will absorb influences from other aspects. Look to Moon/Venus/Mars as well!!

I have a Cancer Venus, yes, but that Venus is FAR inferior to my Virgo Mars conj Asc! Heck, my Mars outshines my Sun. I’m a go-getter and straight forward. You’ll know real quick if I like you or not. If I am talking to you and haven’t made it clear that I want to take to next level, I don’t want to.

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That's totally your Mars ASC conjunction which gives you the Aries vibe.

posted June 05, 2018 11:46 AM            

Well I met a guy with sun in pisces and moon in virgo and venus in aquarius and mars in pisces.

He is like the male version of me, we are sooo similar, its weird, like he is ME! I have never met someone that I feel is basically ME in a male body. He is not doing that pisces blending in thing, he is extremely authentic and quite himself with venus in aquarius, not afraid to be different at all. He is quite the character, I love his personality. hahahaha

He feels like a soulmate but in a way that I have not experienced before. This is different, I feel we will remain friends no matter what happens.

I am a virgo with moon in pisces and venus and mars in Leo. His sun does not conjunct my moon or oppose my sun, our moons do oppose. His Sun is at early degrees Pisces. His sun, mercury and venus all oppose my venus and mars.

I guess we have that opposite attracts thing going but we are actually the same, so its interesting.

We have an Eros/Psyche double whammy. Eros Septile Psyche and Eros Quintile Psyche. His Isis conjunct Osiris exact sextile my Isis and conjunct my Priapus, his Isis conjunct Osiris trine my Cupido.

posted June 10, 2018 04:57 AM            

if I am attracted to someone, I do not show that overtly. i want to know first he is interested. if i notice he is interested, i show a litle, then he shows more and i do accordingly. But i am not the one who will take the initiative. never!!!

i once behave differently and look intensively into the eyes of a man i found attractive. i end up dancing with him that entire nicht, but then after some email exchange, he confessed that he found me attractive, but he moved toward me because i showed interest and i was attractive. but i do not think he would have made it on his own. from that day i realized that i would never let someone know i am interested until i find out he is. why, i do not want someone to approach me because he thinks "this woman is attractive, not may type, but nobody says not to an attractive woman" that ist! i do not want someone to show interest because he knows i am interested. i want someone who is impressed by me. then, he can win me over. of course, i need to like him in first place, but agree with what others have said. it someone is too social, i lose interest. if i see someone is a flirt, they have no chance with me. i want someone that is surrounded by 100 attractive women in a room and out of these 100 women he picks me. if not, his lost, I am not even bothering to compete.

that is something about venus cancer. I do not want to fight to get someone to like me. i leave that to venus aries. I want a man who just by seing me falls for me. i do not want the feeling of being at the right time at the right moment. i want the feeling of someone yearning to find someone like me and when they see me, they say.. this is the woman!!!

i dont know if neptune in 7th plays a role...

posted June 10, 2018 05:03 AM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Yes. A lot of alone time. I think he was able to get confident when seeing me in a more relaxed environment.

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posted June 10, 2018 07:45 AM            

So the men you like you're quieter around, but the ones you aren't attracted to you're more relaxed around?

How would either guage your interest in them?

posted June 15, 2018 05:18 PM            

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Originally posted by nordicsoul:
i can be friendlier to people i am not interested romantically because i do not get nervous. if i like the man really, i am not so friendly. i can smile when i see him, but that is all. with other people i can start a conversation with no problem. so, if he is toooooo relaxed, hum

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posted June 19, 2018 10:19 PM            

I had no idea he was interested in me in the beginning because he was so "normal" lol. No outright advances or complements. Just plain Jane.

Then finally one day I got it out of him that he was interested and we began dating.

Moved in 6 months later.

Totally possessive and controlling. But I was head over heels for him with my cancer rising and own Scorpio moon.

We became very competitive with one another. It wasn't outright but under the radar type competition. He was jealous of any attention I received that was not coming from him. Constant checking in..trust issues you name it!

We dated for 3 years until he started seeing someone else behind my back. We broke it off. Hard stuff.

posted June 20, 2018 12:55 AM            

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Originally posted by llewsacm:
My first love was cancer sun with Scorpio moon.

I had no idea he was interested in me in the beginning because he was so "normal" lol. No outright advances or complements. Just plain Jane.

Then finally one day I got it out of him that he was interested and we began dating.

Moved in 6 months later.

Totally possessive and controlling. But I was head over heels for him with my cancer rising and own Scorpio moon.

We became very competitive with one another. It wasn't outright but under the radar type competition. He was jealous of any attention I received that was not coming from him. Constant checking in..trust issues you name it!

We dated for 3 years until he started seeing someone else behind my back. We broke it off. Hard stuff.

6 months later, he calls me and wants to get back together for good. I couldn't do it. I cut someone off hard when they do me wrong....and he is still with that same girl years later. Strange relationship with him for sure. Glad I moved on.

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posted June 20, 2018 07:42 AM            

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Originally posted by Nine:
Thanks for your imput guys. This one has moon in Scorpio...ultimately I found too emotionally demanding. Moving on!

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posted June 20, 2018 07:46 AM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Online they can be huge flirts and very playful.

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online is totally different. i can approach a man online. something i will never do face to face. this considering i have venus-sun-mars conjunction in cancer.

posted June 21, 2018 05:48 PM            

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Originally posted by nordicsoul:
I remember telling my ex-husband the first day we went for a date that i thought he was the one.

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