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Topic: What makes someone lovable?
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mercmercy99
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posted May 29, 2018 06:22 PM
  
The most lovable person I know is my dad. I cannot imagine ANYONE having any ill will towards him because he's just so congenial and funny. There's also a certain calm and coolness to his personality. Strangely enough, I think it's his Mercury square Uranus that does this for him. Doing my own research, I've decided that Mercury square Uranus is a true wonder aspect if y'all didn't already know. Yes, you get rapid-fire thoughts and the ability to make weird connections easily, but I've also discovered that A LOT of people with this aspect are just so lovable. A friend of mine recently told me that his coworkers love how he puts everyone at ease with his jokester type of humor. I looked at his chart, and his tightest aspect is Mercury square Uranus. Another friend of mine has Mercury square Uranus and Neptune and Mars and also has Venus trine Mars and Mars sextile Jupiter. He's one of the most talented people I've ever met. He's adept at music, writing, cracking jokes, programming, being a salesman, and so many other things. He's another person that I just can't see anyone hating on. His personality is just so inviting and friendly, even when he's being a bit irreverent which is quintessential Mercury square Uranus and Mars. But another person who has Mercury square Uranus is Ted Cruz, who, if you're not from the U.S., is a pretty much reviled politician. There are numerous stories about him rubbing other politicians the wrong way, even those in his own party. A study was even done to see why his face is so off-putting. So, I'm wondering if I'm just confused or if there is actually something to this. Maybe it's something with synastry?? Do you know people with Mercury square Uranus who are enviably likable? Or rather, do you know some who aren't like Ted Cruz? Also, according to you, what other aspects/placements other than this one indicate this quality in someone? IP: Logged |
pocketrocket
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posted May 29, 2018 06:52 PM
I love that kind of mind. I have couple of friends with that aspect and they are hilarious!
Recently, I've got a natal chart of another friend..and I was always curious what's his thing. Everybody likes him, really nice guy and I've found out he has SUN conjunct with Amor - 1orb dgree.I think that's the clue 
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Lerena
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posted May 29, 2018 07:18 PM
Honestly, I know at least a couple people with Mercury square Uranus in their chart and I have not noticed the tendency to make weird connections in them. They don't seem to have rapid-fire thoughts either. These people aren't easy to hate though, but other than them being really likable, I'm not sure how else the aspect manifests for them.Finally, I have Mercury square Uranus (and Mercury square Neptune too actually) in my chart. At times, I get rapid-fire thoughts and the connections I make can be pretty weird. I'm not able to give an accurate response to how likable I am. This isn't usually something I think about and no one has really commented on my likable-ness. IP: Logged |
capricorncheriscty
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posted May 29, 2018 09:11 PM
I don't see how Mercury aspecting Uranus would make one lovable. There is no love involved in those planets combining. That aspect is more of being a creative or an intellect or perhaps a society builder and perhaps some people find that attractive/admirable/lovable. Most generally, being amiable would be someone who has nice aspects to their Moon and/or Venus or has a lot of Neptune/Jupiter influences. But of course, being loved is something specific. What I love someone for will be different than what someone else loves that same person for. You can't really define love like that. IP: Logged |
Astra
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posted May 29, 2018 09:22 PM
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But another person who has Mercury square Uranus is Ted Cruz, who, if you're not from the U.S., is a pretty much reviled politician. There are numerous stories about him rubbing other politicians the wrong way, even those in his own party. A study was even done to see why his face is so off-putting.
Ted Cruz is a politician. That alone will make people have strong reactions to you. Politicians tend to be dishonest regardless of their political leanings, but Ted Cruz in particular has a face that looks like a witch. That hooked nose he has just makes him appear sneaky. Mercury Square Uranus can definitely make someone loveable. I have the opposition and making friends has never been a challenge for me. I think a strong Jupiter or Venus influence can help ease social interactions. In contrast, a strongly placed Pluto (Pluto in the first) can make people love or hate you. There is no in between. IP: Logged |
Belage
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posted May 29, 2018 11:45 PM
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Originally posted by capricorncheriscty:
I don't see how Mercury aspecting Uranus would make one lovable. There is no love involved in those planets combining. That aspect is more of being a creative or an intellect or perhaps a society builder and perhaps some people find that attractive/admirable/lovable. Most generally, being amiable would be someone who has nice aspects to their Moon and/or Venus or has a lot of Neptune/Jupiter influences. But of course, being loved is something specific. What I love someone for will be different than what someone else loves that same person for. You can't really define love like that.
I agree. In general, I think easy aspect of Venus, Neptune and Jupiter to the sun or moon would make someone lovable. That being said, our own individual chart ultimately determines who is lovable to us. IP: Logged |
margym0o
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posted May 30, 2018 12:20 PM
It also depends on if you're male or female approaching the same or opposite sex. In my experience I find men who have harmonious Moon/Venus aspects VERY likable to women. They seem harmless and approachable as opposed to intimidating or aggressive. The same can be said for female-female relationships too I suppose. My one girlfriend who has MANY female friends has Moon/Venus trine. Mercury/Uranus might make you the funny/witty/outrageous person who always has something to say but I think the WARMTH someone feels in your presence comes from the inner planets. IP: Logged |
Melinn
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posted May 30, 2018 12:37 PM
One aspect does not make a person likeable. There is always other aspects, planets and houses that supports one charecter trait.So no I don't believe it is due to his mercury-uranus alone. Also, mercury is how we communicate, our expressions, how we process information, how we talk etc. Mecury is the planet of communication, mind etc, and uranus is the higher octave of mercury. Both planets are a bit neutral, meaning they are not warm planets, nor cold, just neutral, maybe uranus can be seen as cold sometimes as its about detachment.
I dare say you are a bit wrong in your asssesment about this
I hope I don't sound rude!
We have to see his whole chart to be able to read whats what. Also the birth date must be very correct, which maybe not the case with older generations^^ IP: Logged |
mercmercy99
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posted June 01, 2018 04:27 PM
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Originally posted by Melinn:
One aspect does not make a person likeable. There is always other aspects, planets and houses that supports one charecter trait.So no I don't believe it is due to his mercury-uranus alone. Also, mercury is how we communicate, our expressions, how we process information, how we talk etc. Mecury is the planet of communication, mind etc, and uranus is the higher octave of mercury. Both planets are a bit neutral, meaning they are not warm planets, nor cold, just neutral, maybe uranus can be seen as cold sometimes as its about detachment.
I dare say you are a bit wrong in your asssesment about this
I hope I don't sound rude!
We have to see his whole chart to be able to read whats what. Also the birth date must be very correct, which maybe not the case with older generations^^
I want to be wrong because I know it's silly to assume that one aspect holds that much significance. But damn if I don't see all the similarities in so many people with that aspect. It could also be that I envy that Mercury/Uranus energy. Mercury in my chart aspects every planet except for the Sun and Uranus, so I have this feeling of just barely getting bingo or something haha. Just two numbers off. Anyway, thanks for all your responses. I didn't really want this to be mostly about Mercury square Uranus. It was just something I was theorizing. IP: Logged |
Kannon McAfee
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posted June 01, 2018 04:49 PM
"Lovable" is very wide open and subjective, defined by personal preference. There is no single astrological factor common to this, certainly not Mercury square Uranus. It would be better to look at their Venus and Neptune interactions aspects with Sun or Moon to find a person's broader appeal, or to your synastry interaspects with them (Venus, Moon, etc).I think Amy Lee is very lovable, but I have never met her. She has Sun/Mercury conjunct Neptune in Sag, plus Venus/Aqua square Jupiter/Scorpio making a t-square to my Sun/Taurus. If you are bewildered by the pattern with the person's charts you studied so far, make sure you look at the declinations for the parallel and contra-parallel aspects. That may reveal something that clarifies things. ------------------
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Aries23Degrees
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posted June 01, 2018 04:51 PM
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Originally posted by Belage:
I agree. In general, I think easy aspect of Venus, Neptune and Jupiter to the sun or moon would make someone lovable. That being said, our own individual chart ultimately determines who is lovable to us.
Moon trine Venus. Moon in Taurus or Moon in 2nd or Moon ruling the empty 2nd house. IP: Logged |
girlwiththerainysoul
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posted June 02, 2018 01:49 AM
Lovable, a term my aquarius fiance frequently uses to describe me Yes, mercury/uranus square here IP: Logged |
Somna7H
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posted June 02, 2018 01:59 AM
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Originally posted by margym0o:
In my experience I find men who have harmonious Moon/Venus aspects VERY likable to women. They seem harmless and approachable as opposed to intimidating or aggressive.
My case is almost similar.
Have Venus and Moon conjunction.
Though I don't have female friend but in general relationship with females are harmonious in 99% of time except few.
Where most men seen me as a threat or intimidating so no harmonious relationship except few exceptions.
http://imgur.com/Tgw6POI
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Sulkyarcher
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posted June 02, 2018 02:23 AM
Moon trine Venus makes a person very popular, I see that, in general.IP: Logged |
mercmercy99
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posted June 04, 2018 01:22 PM
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Originally posted by girlwiththerainysoul:
Lovable, a term my aquarius fiance frequently uses to describe me Yes, mercury/uranus square here
Haha that's sweet
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kani
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posted March 12, 2019 06:01 PM
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Originally posted by girlwiththerainysoul:
Lovable, a term my aquarius fiance frequently uses to describe me Yes, mercury/uranus square here
hi
how are you?
So you count a 9 degree square between mercury and Uranus? I know you and my bf have the same bday and I just checked his chart for that aspect.
I think that's a bit too wide.
your mercury is at 23 degrees Aries and Uranus at 13 degrees Cap isn't it ? IP: Logged |
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