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Topic: Friendship wise -- when your Saturn conjuncts their personal planets
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SimplyLuna
Knowflake Posts: 171
From: California
Registered: Jul 2017
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posted June 07, 2018 08:11 PM
  
How does that one goes for you? Did you feel serious around them? What was the energy/vibe like?
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Aries23Degrees
Knowflake Posts: 5540
From: South Africa
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted June 08, 2018 05:35 AM
My Saturn is square my friends Sun. It makes me expect too much of him. Then I get disappointed or disapprove when he "fails" to live up to those expectations.Another friend has his Saturn on my Asc. As much as I like being with him. I know I can't go "buck wild" whilst with him in social functions. Something about Saturn that expects or asserts conformity. Not easy IP: Logged |
SimplyLuna
Knowflake Posts: 171
From: California
Registered: Jul 2017
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posted June 08, 2018 12:46 PM
Thanks Aries. This is exactly my concern!I became friends with someone recently. I can feel she becomes uncomfortable being her crazy self around me(she has a sag moon) so I had to check the synastry. There it is, my SATURN right on her moon. I just wanna make friends.  I am usually quiet and can be goofy too but somehow she just feel the vibe. I feel like a serious person around her -- shes goofy too btw. Is there any aspect that would help balance the Saturn aspect to make friendship more fun? Maybe dominant Jupiter aspects? IP: Logged |
capricorncheriscty
Knowflake Posts: 498
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Registered: Nov 2017
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posted June 08, 2018 12:54 PM
My friend has a stellium in Taurus, including Saturn in Taurus. All of us from her year are also Saturn in Taurus and so all of our Saturn in Taurus conjuncts her Saturn in Taurus and also Moon, Mars, and Jupiter in Taurus. Growing up, she was the weird horse girl and people had a hars time taking to her. I was one of her only friends but as we got older I don’t really like her that much because I’ve come to realize she is really lazy and mean spirited just for the hell of it. She had very few friends from our school, most were online or from other districts. Shes a loner and seems to like it. Shes more confident these days, has that typical IDGAF from earth people.IP: Logged |
nordicsoul
Knowflake Posts: 1765
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Registered: Oct 2010
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posted June 08, 2018 01:07 PM
i had a colleague whose saturn oppose my cancer sun-mars-venus... at the beginning he was so friendly. just starting working togethers he got annoyed about every single things i said, do or think. i do not know how to go around that, but the best that happened to be was he resigning. lol... he was not a bad person and he did not hate me or anything, but i seemed to get on his nerve for no reason.my best friends has no saturn aspect to my personal planet. i do not think i need those friends IP: Logged |
Melinn
Knowflake Posts: 511
From: Sweden
Registered: Jul 2017
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posted June 08, 2018 03:19 PM
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Originally posted by nordicsoul:
i had a colleague whose saturn oppose my cancer sun-mars-venus... at the beginning he was so friendly. just starting working togethers he got annoyed about every single things i said, do or think. i do not know how to go around that, but the best that happened to be was he resigning. lol... he was not a bad person and he did not hate me or anything, but i seemed to get on his nerve for no reason.my best friends has no saturn aspect to my personal planet. i do not think i need those friends
I can really relate to that! I worked with 2 guy friends with a project at uni for 5 months. 2 guys, and I the only female. We were good friends from the get go when we met 1 year ago, and we had 2 smaller projects where we got on really well. Everyone was so polite, funny etc. But thise last 5 months, constant bickering. At first it was just between I and one of the guys. But soon the groups most polite guy also started to let out his irritation and stess on me. They both would always smooth things over with me, make it up to me, show care and attention etc. But them taking out their stress on me, made me feel unrespected, since they are respectfuller to each other. Maybe its a man vs female thing. They can never work with you and respect you the way they respect males. Thise guys have lots of saturn contacts with each other in their synastry, but they never snap at each other. Always calm and polite to one other. With me one of them I have a Venus-saturn trine-sextile double whammy.
And the other one is touching my Mars-moon-chiron with an opposition. Don't mix friendship and work they say, for me it turned out true. But I'm sure saturn is not the only problem in matters like this :/
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