posted June 17, 2018 05:48 AM            

I know that most of the sites say an aggressive partner does the trick. But is this the case with all of you?

posted June 18, 2018 06:33 AM            

Thing is that I have Mars conjunct the 7th and Juno conjunct the 1st house in Aries.

According to a lot of descriptions, I am attracted to Aries-like guys.

Yes I am drawn to athletic guys(physically well built) I mean who is not. But seldom do they possess the staying power to sustain my interest beyond lust. I want more

But I am not drawn to aggressive types at all. I tend to avoid those a lot.So I am trying to understand why this placement so close to the 7th, doesn't fit.

I am mostly drawn to people with a sharp, dry intellect/humour. If you have seen House the series (whom I suspect is Cap Asc/ Aqua/Pisc cusp Sun and Virgo Moon). That would be the type of guy I am drawn to.

posted June 18, 2018 07:27 AM            

I do have a thing for martian types - so with a fairly strong aries/scorpio vibe.

I am really into the idea of military/services guys, and ones who are very physically active - the mars-jupiter thing is really powerful for me. Physical activity of all varieties (ahem) is very important to me, and being able to do them with a partner is essential.

The military appreciation thing is very mars in leo, I feel. My jupiter is at 0deg virgo, so that adds a big dose of practicality and sensibleness to the mix.

As for aggressive partners? No thanks. Assertive and confident, though, yes please. My worst nightmare would be going to a gathering with someone who's not willing to be confident enough to mingle and mix by themselves.

I need them to support my independence by cheerleading, and offering advice when asked (without butting in and solving my problems).

Basically, the kind of guy who would be perfect for me would be one who is physically active; have ties to the military/some kind of courageous service/voluntary ethic; someone who respects my intelligence and independence; someone to have physical adventures with (ie scuba diving, mountain climbing etc).

A strong scorpio, leo or virgo (and/or jupiter) signature would be perfect, too.

posted June 18, 2018 09:36 AM            

Do you often feel that your relationships are initiated because of lust than like? I am trying to steady this as it ends up being so disappointing.

The guys I date are physically hot. But I don't want to do that anymore. Its not fulfilling long-term.

posted June 20, 2018 08:26 AM            

I am starting to believe that there is a difference between Mars conjunct DSC applying from the 6th, Mars conjunct DSC separating in the 7th and Mars conjunct 8th from the 7th.

posted June 21, 2018 03:21 AM            

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Originally posted by Lethargic-:
I have Mars Conjunct Jupiter in Aquarius 7th house. I think my attraction to people starts with lust/physical attraction. However, I do not pay attention to the person unless I get attention from them first. Doesn't necessarily mean I like being single tho. I like it if they seem kind of dominant (not a pushover in relationships) but also gentle. A bit mysterious ( I think because my Scorpio moon is square the Mars/Jupiter.) intelligence is extremely attractive!

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posted June 21, 2018 10:14 AM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Thank you for that perspective

I am starting to believe that there is a difference between Mars conjunct DSC applying from the 6th, Mars conjunct DSC separating in the 7th and Mars conjunct 8th from the 7th.

What you said there resonates with me. People who stand up for the rights of others. That is what I like. That is me

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posted June 21, 2018 12:59 PM            

In my case, the ruler of my 1st house(Mars) opposes it.

What you said there is true for me. I don't find "machoness" attractive. But I do like people who are expressive and vivacious.

Part of the reason I ask this is because my Mars conjuncts the 7th from the 6th. And I also read that anytime the 7th and 6th mix, it could suggest having relations with a colleague or co-worker.

This áspect is very dynamic in my chart and I see it now.

posted June 21, 2018 02:25 PM            

PLEASE DO NOT QUOTE.

posted June 25, 2018 09:42 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Moon in Aries often attracts childlike folks. I see this often. Lol

I can see how this can come through.

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I can see why you would say that because of moon in the 7th house of relationships /relationship persona but i wouldn't entirely base off that what your saying just on the moon in aries alone, i also blame whole heartily on my 5th ruler uranus/neptune/NN. Neptune falls often in love with the unobtainable or doesn't quite see the person for who they are, in the square things can be quite much more difficult then the other hard aspects along with the opp/quincunx/semi-square and such. I'v meet plenty of aries mooners like myself and do not attract childlike people. However i have met quite of few people with moon in the 7th house/7th ruler mooners who date or often attract childlike personalities or tend to attract someone they end up always taking care of as if they were there own CHILD! (very motherly) I would say immaturity/childlike personalities can also be much tied with leo, the sun, the 5th ruler and the moon/4th house as well. Plus my Uranus square my moon in 7th does not like conventional relationships.

posted June 30, 2018 03:45 PM            

I suspect my mother has Asc in late Libra which would put her DSC in late Aries. Her Moon firmly in the 7th.

My Mom "babies" my Dad a lot. But this is not the "childish" nature I speak of.

When I say "childish", I meant that Aries Moon tends to have a " results now" approach to things. They tend to throw tantrums when results are slow in coming

My father is very much like this. And add to that, he expects her to "wait" on him. She must make his life comfortable(Moon in 7th).

I agree that Moon (especially in Cancer) can also be "childish". Here the nature takes a more subjective, sensitive and defensive tone.

This is the "baby" that is melodramatic & cries at the slightest discomfort.

Leos "childish" nature shows in the child who says "Daddy look at me" whilst you are trying to watch a show by standing in front of the TV.

posted July 01, 2018 12:04 AM            

Also, Aries Moon here, on the 5/6 cusp, so the 5th plays into that because adventure is decidedly fun, imo anyway.

Keeping things fresh is a very attractive thing, being physical is more attractive that being physically attractive, (though I appreciate a balanced looking partner), and honestly, I appreciate a good argument. I think of that like the fire that cleans the brush away. Without it, stuff gets tangly and weird.

posted July 01, 2018 09:27 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Hmmm Moon in Aries on the 5th/6th house cusp. Do you date at work?

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posted July 02, 2018 09:37 AM            

5th house is enjoyment. 6th house is work. And with the Moon there "enjoyment of the work you do brings nourishment"

But how is this nourishment stimulated? That is where Moon in Aries comes in- when you meet someone who shares your enthusiasm and passion.

The thing is that with Moon in Aries, there is little time to pause when their heart is snatched. Its full speed ahead(barring contrary aspects)!

I think of Moon in Aries in 5th as a heady mix of infatuation. And when interacting with the 6th house, there is a tendency for colleagues to be the object of the infatuated state or for the native to be someone's object of desire.

Aries tends to arouse our primal sexual urges too to "come out and play" in 5th. So that is why I asked if you date at work. Since its in the middle of the 5th and 6th.

I have Mars in Libra conjunct the DSC from the 6th. So I also am prone to making good relations at work.

I think the Libra energy on Mars prevents too much drama at work- although I do complain when conditions are unfair (Lib).

Will I marry(DSC) a colleague (6th)? I think not. Libra is not as impulsive as Aries and so platonic friendship is more likely.

posted July 03, 2018 05:49 AM            

I have planets in 7th which means I think I know "better" than my partner.

Mars in 6th conjunct the 7th. I work hard at work and have had some standoffs with authority. And this spills over to the 7th.

Add to that Venus/Pluto/Saturn and I am king of "how to relate". I don't get dominated here. I dominate

I think that Sun,Mars,Jupiter and Pluto struggle in the 6th. They are too egotistical and clash with authority (if they are not the authority).

They also can clash with subordinates-because they think they know better and can be overbearing.

If Venus was there, maybe I would enjoy being subordinate or dominated?

posted July 03, 2018 08:56 AM            

I'm emotionally attached to my work, it's not a stretch from there to be emotionally attached to the people I work with. That's not to say I encourage it - workplace dating is a nightmare.

As for physical attraction - I like to look at guys who look good, but in reality, they're more trouble than they're worth. My last ex (an aries, also with mars in leo) was easily an 8 or 9 out of 10. But. He knew it. Arrogance is not an attractive feature. Especially for someone with loads of leo like myself.

The guy I like the most right now has a similar look to my ex (embarrassingly), but is less obviously handsome. To me, that makes him even better looking.

posted April 24, 2020 09:37 PM            

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Originally posted by AnastasiyaEnchanted:
I have an aries 7th house. Mars in sagittarius conjunct jupiter and venus in the 3rd house. Not at all attracted to aries or fire men. Despite me having a heavy fire influence in my chart i dont get a long with other fire signs well. I know one man who has mars in scorpio in the 7th house. I noticed he was always into "tough" girls. Like ones that are heavily tattooed or that act like rebels. He was also into girls that were vulgar or overly sexual.

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