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Primarose220
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posted June 17, 2018 06:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Primarose220     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi,

I just had a thought about the conjunction of Venus and Mars in the natal chart. I have my Venus conjunct Mars in Aries, both in the 2nd house at 1.15 degrees. Is this a close conjunct? Is it positive and does it make for a great long love life if your Venus and Mars are in conjunct closely together.

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nordicsoul
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posted June 18, 2018 04:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for nordicsoul     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
this aspect produces sex-appeal in people having the aspect.

the problem with the aspect is that people are turn between be too assertive, or being to people accommodating. venus want to consider others when acting, mars could not care less about other. mars want what he wants.. that tension produces the sex-appeal but also the switching between these two contradictory energies.

as you have the conjunction in aries, I assume it is easy to side with mars and venus may be projected. although with the conjunction there is more the switching from too assertive to too accommodating.. the opposition is more subject to projection.

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posted June 18, 2018 05:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Plut0nian2     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Primarose220:
Hi,

I just had a thought about the conjunction of Venus and Mars in the natal chart. I have my Venus conjunct Mars in Aries, both in the 2nd house at 1.15 degrees. Is this a close conjunct? Is it positive and does it make for a great long love life if your Venus and Mars are in conjunct closely together.


I have Venus in Leo conjuct Mars in Leo by 1orb in 2nd H like you! Mine ate afflicted by Pluto in scorpio thouugh.
It makes you attractive not physically, but people are drawn to you. I don't if it like that because I have it in Leo.

The native has to be careful because others are mostly sexually attracted to him/her.
I personally dislike it because I think it is the reason that the attention goes to me in a room (let's say a bar/club/etc) while I try to stay as hidden as possible. I have many placement/aspects that want me to stay hidden even invisible if it was possible and I think it's this conjuction's fault.

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Plut0nian2
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posted June 18, 2018 05:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Plut0nian2     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Edit: Sorry for the double post

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posted June 18, 2018 05:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aries23Degrees     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Primarose220:
Hi,

I just had a thought about the conjunction of Venus and Mars in the natal chart. I have my Venus conjunct Mars in Aries, both in the 2nd house at 1.15 degrees. Is this a close conjunct? Is it positive and does it make for a great long love life if your Venus and Mars are in conjunct closely together.


Every aspect with Mars IMO is like a knife.

You can cut with a knife. But you can also kill with one.

Venus/Mars conj is a contradiction.Love and aggression. Its about balance. But with Aries, the emphasis is more on aggression (Mars in Aries rules Venus).

Your energy could in one breath be a great motivator(a knife that cuts). But it can also be a source of irritation( a knife that kills).

The conjunction in the 2nd suggests a love of making a living being competitive(Mars) and then using that same money to buy stuff(Venus).

The impulse to work and spend is heightened with Aries.

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posted June 18, 2018 06:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for polkadotstars     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have Venus conjunct mars by 1í in Aries in the 9th. I never really found that Iím aggressive in pursuing relationships like supposedly the Aries Venus is supposed to. Nor do I find myself getting a lot of attention. Itís not like I have a huge amount of guys coming up to me when I go out. Iíd say itís average amount? But Iíve been told that I am blind to peopleís advances, so I donít know lol

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posted June 18, 2018 06:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SunAscendant     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Venus conjunct Mars in Aries is definitely no shrinking violet when it comes to love and asserting herself. I have an Aries Venus and I'm definitely the type of woman who approaches men. I don't like them to approach me first, I love to lead. It's interesting you don't feel you're this way. Perhaps your other placements are in water signs and make you less aggressive. The 2nd house is about possessions and self esteem so would you say you have high self esteem, especially in relationships?

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posted June 18, 2018 07:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for polkadotstars     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think for me, it's more like I don't like to wait for guys to come to me. I'm not aggressive in the way of pursuing guys right away. Back when I was dating, if I found a guy I liked I wanted to be in a relationship quickly with them. I never saw the point in dating around and keeping my options open. I usually wasn't single for long. I wouldn't mind initiating to meet up and to spend time together. I had to realize that I had to curb those instincts, because guys don't want women to do the chasing- they like a bit of mystery. But I wasn't doing it because of being desperate lol. I was just like hurry up already, what's taking so long! We have fun together, let's date!! Ahhh!!

So I think that's how my Aries Mars/Venus plays out, rather than being attractive to men. Although, like I stated earlier, I wasn't ever single for long. So maybe I'm more attractive to men than I believe I am lol.

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posted June 18, 2018 10:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Davina98     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have this conjunction in Cancer in my progressed theme. I would like more information on how it plays out. It is located in the 10th House.

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posted June 19, 2018 01:22 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Somna7H     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:

You can cut with a knife. But you can also kill with one.

For easy aspetc ?
What if you have a knife and you never used it. Knife 🔪 become rusted and it's no use anymore.

Venus Trine Mars.
Venus Trine Pluto. http://imgur.com/m7OYq0x

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posted June 19, 2018 05:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for nordicsoul     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Plut0nian2:

The native has to be careful because others are mostly sexually attracted to him/her.
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posted June 19, 2018 06:02 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for nordicsoul     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
venus-mars conjunction also produce a talent or at least an appreciation for movements and dancing...

for instance, the people are aware how others walk or move and these observations are appealing and can even determine if they are attracted to someone.

there is grasciouness in movement. for instance a person with this aspect in dancing have a charming way of moving, maybe they are not more flexible than someone else, but their movement would have more grace.

that is part of what makes them sexually attractive. the way the physical attractiveness is conveyes (not to be confounded with physical beauty) is coloured by the sign of the conjunction. pisceans with that conjunction can be very attractive and the elements of mars are soft shades.. instead the opposite with aries where mars person wish have some venusian shades.. in anycase that combination it attractive

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posted June 19, 2018 07:58 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Plut0nian2     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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venus-mars conjunction also produce a talent or at least an appreciation for movements and dancing...

for instance, the people are aware how others walk or move and these observations are appealing and can even determine if they are attracted to someo

there is grasciouness in movement. for instance a person with this aspect in dancing have a charming way of moving, maybe they are not more flexible than someone else, but their movement would have more grace.

that is part of what makes them sexually attractive. the way the physical attractiveness is conveyes (not to be confounded with physical beauty) is coloured by the sign of the conjunction. pisceans with that conjunction can be very attractive and the elements of mars are soft shades.. instead the opposite with aries where mars person wish have some venusian shades.. in anycase that combination it attractive


This is sooo accurate for me! Everybody says I am so good at dancing naturally and I don't do anything crazy or pro moves, I am not even compared to a pro by any means but I've even had people asking me to dance for their bar/club/etc! Also random people would come and ask me if I am a pro dancer!
Well I have much Neptune in my chart so music is anyway pure magic for me and dancing is the perfect way to express myself through music.. it happens automatically, my body moves by itself.

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posted June 19, 2018 08:32 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for nordicsoul     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
ya, the neptunian quality would make it more magical.. I suspect the same with mars-Neptune conjunction

mars-pluto more for marcial arts such as karate (IMO)

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posted June 19, 2018 11:10 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Venus conjunct Mars in Leo in the 8th: I go after what I want! Period

I met my ex at a club and I literally walked towards him from across the room and started to make out with him for a few hours and then we exchanged names and I gave him my number.

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posted June 20, 2018 11:10 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aries23Degrees     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Somna7H:
For easy aspetc ?
What if you have a knife and you never used it. Knife 🔪 become rusted and it's no use anymore.

Venus Trine Mars.
Venus Trine Pluto.


Lol.

I don't think yours is not being used at all. It could be that it is used at awkward times.

Sat-Mars conj in Vir is square Sun-Merc conj in Gem. Your weapon of choice is the mind.

Saturn and Mars in Virgo has perfectionist tendencies. Its not an impulsive "go getter" position. But one that is quite careful, prudent and exacting.

You are not much of a gambler. You can be very careful in asserting yourself and put much pressure on yourself to get things right the 1st time.

So this can make you easily irritable,self critical and self doubting.

In social situations, your flirtatious nature may be inhibited. But at work or when you are productive, it may come out.

Mars in Virgo IMO feels sexy when busy. I know a few Mars in Virgo people who get sexually aroused by construction workers, plumbers or people who work sweaty, dirty jobs that are strongly physical and/or skills inclined.

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posted June 20, 2018 11:10 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aries23Degrees     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Somna7H:
For easy aspetc ?
What if you have a knife and you never used it. Knife 🔪 become rusted and it's no use anymore.

Venus Trine Mars.
Venus Trine Pluto.


Lol.

I don't think yours is not being used at all. It could be that it is used at awkward times i.e where you are supposed to be relaxed, you tense up. When you are supposed to be more focused on work, you find more relaxation.

Sat-Mars conj in Vir is square Sun-Merc conj in Gem. Your weapon of choice is the mind.

Saturn and Mars in Virgo has perfectionist tendencies. Its not an impulsive "go getter" position. But one that is quite careful, prudent and exacting.

You are not much of a gambler. You can be very careful in asserting yourself and put much pressure on yourself to get things right the 1st time.

So this can make you easily irritable,self critical and self doubting. And this inclination is also projected on to others which can give you the image of being "hard to please" or difficult.

In social situations,your flirtatious nature may be inhibited. You may feel a little awkward. But your more playful nature comes out with coworkers or when you are productive, it may come out.

Mars in Virgo IMO feels sexy when busy. I know a few Mars in Virgo people who get sexually aroused by construction workers, plumbers or people who work sweaty, dirty jobs that are strongly physical and/or skills inclined.

Virgo Sun/Mars/Venus or Moon are also more likely to form romantic attachment with coworkers or work with their husband/wife girlfriend or boyfriend.

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posted June 20, 2018 11:41 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Somna7H     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you.
So I'm using my knife but on wrong things on or wrong place or at wrong time ?


Yes, you are absolutely correct.
My Girlfriend is my Job.
At least for now you can say.
My Job is sweaty, little dirty and physical too.
I will have to use my mind very consciously then.
I will try to be more easy instead critical so that other feel easy with me too.
But never knew that sweaty,dirty makes some one Sexy. 😍

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posted June 20, 2018 12:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aries23Degrees     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Not necessarily "sweaty" in only the physical sense. Some Virgos are really germaphobes.

But what I also mean is that someone who applies themselves is sexy to you.

Say for instance you have a crisis of a tyre puncture in the middle of nowhere. Someone who is able to know what to do or handles that situation with cool,calm effectiveness is very appealing.

Virgo is the sign of skill, preparation or "know how". Virgo loves to be prepared and stay ready for everyday challenges - this especially when Merc,Moon,Sun or Mars is there.

So these "workers" to Virgo represent the soul of Virgo energy i.e commitment to craft. And from a spiritual point of view, a commitment to societal well-being which translates to self- fulfillment.

Sex appeal to Virgo is discipline, skill, developing your craft and patience with the process. Virgo loves commitment to purpose.

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posted June 20, 2018 04:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for llewsacm     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I've found that natives with a Mars/Venus conjunction tend to play the feminine and masculine role quite well. They take on masculine qualities and also display a more feminine nature..both very easily. It's not forced but ingrained in their personalities.

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posted June 26, 2018 05:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Not necessarily "sweaty" in only the physical sense. Some Virgos are really germaphobes.

But what I also mean is that someone who applies themselves is sexy to you.

Say for instance you have a crisis of a tyre puncture in the middle of nowhere. Someone who is able to know what to do or handles that situation with cool,calm effectiveness is very appealing.

Virgo is the sign of skill, preparation or "know how". Virgo loves to be prepared and stay ready for everyday challenges - this especially when Merc,Moon,Sun or Mars is there.

So these "workers" to Virgo represent the soul of Virgo energy i.e commitment to craft. And from a spiritual point of view, a commitment to societal well-being which translates to self- fulfillment.

Sex appeal to Virgo is discipline, skill, developing your craft and patience with the process. Virgo loves commitment to purpose.


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posted July 08, 2018 02:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for TensionEmpire     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Plut0nian2:
This is sooo accurate for me! Everybody says I am so good at dancing naturally and I don't do anything crazy or pro moves, I am not even compared to a pro by any means but I've even had people asking me to dance for their bar/club/etc! Also random people would come and ask me if I am a pro dancer!
Well I have much Neptune in my chart so music is anyway pure magic for me and dancing is the perfect way to express myself through music.. it happens automatically, my body moves by itself.

know you like this aspect better!

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posted July 11, 2018 12:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Melinn     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My friend (male) has Mars in Capricorn (with neptune) Square Venus in Libra (with uranus aspect). Thats imo a very weird combonation. When we have company his Venus will be out playing, I call it Ēfull on Libra modeĒ. He will be super charming, light and breezy and bubbly. For the unexperienced reciever it would look like he is flirting with everyone haha. But I knew 5min after medting him fir the first time ĒVenus in Libra!Ē and yes I was right indeed haha.

When we are alone one on one, I think his Mars comes out. He will be serious, almost cold, and have a wary expression on his face.

He has aquarius asc and his Uranus is his strongest planet. I read that, uranian people is better at interacting with people in groups, and awkward at interacting one on one. So it may be his cold Mars or his uranian energies not sure.

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posted July 11, 2018 04:52 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Melinn     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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