posted June 19, 2018 11:15 PM            

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Would it be accurate to say that a man with this Venus/Mars combo might like a smart woman who is driven and forward in her advances toward him?

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is correct. Also, with my bf, there was no question as to whether or not he wanted to make it work with me. He wasn't obsessive in the grandiose sense but he always followed through on plans, and our 'friendly' hang outs naturally progressed into more than friendly, and eventually to sleepovers every day for like 6 months straight. He's a Taurus Sun so that plays into it.

posted June 20, 2018 01:27 AM            

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Originally posted by Selenite:
Hey! My boyfriend has this combo. Gem Venus in 6th, Cap Mars in 1st. I think this:

is correct. Also, with my bf, there was no question as to whether or not he wanted to make it work with me. He wasn't obsessive in the grandiose sense but he always followed through on plans, and our 'friendly' hang outs naturally progressed into more than friendly, and eventually to sleepovers every day for like 6 months straight. He's a Taurus Sun so that plays into it.

Additionally, you are correct in that he likes smaller women, but he certainly doesn't have a problem with curvier ones. With Cap Mars, practically everything turns them on, but they have the highest level of self control / self denial that I've ever seen. I guess that's what they mean by exalted.

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posted June 20, 2018 08:16 AM            

Venus is contra parallel Mars in his case which is like Venus opp Mars. And he loved drama!

Venus conjunct house 1 and Mars in 7th on the cusp of the 8th. His ex before me beat him up and perhaps I was too "soft"?

posted June 20, 2018 08:35 AM            

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Originally posted by SunAscendant:
I've never met a guy with this combo before so it's quite difficult how to interpret it. Venus in Gemini men like smart and talkative women I'm guessing, and I've had lots of experience with Mars in Cap men lol. Would it be accurate to say that a man with this Venus/Mars combo might like a smart woman who is driven and forward in her advances toward him? I am an Aries Venus and Aries Mercury (he also has Aries Mercury and it's exactly conjunct my Venus) so I don't have trouble approaching men I find attractive and he apparently doesn't mind that, but sometimes my Mars in Pisces can make me a little shy and come off as not so driven.

I've also heard that certain Venus positions in men incline them to prefer a thinner or curvier body type on a woman. I have a thinner body type with sharp features and have noticed that Gemini and Sag Venus men like this while Taurus and Cancer Venus men like shapelier bodies.

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I wouldnt not try to combine mars-venus to define they likes. likes is about venus. you know what you like by your venus. mars define how you go after what you like and what you want.

so here, what matter is his gemini venus. i think that having both of you aries mercury makes a good point of attraction for a gemini venus as you will find funny similar things and would have similar styles of communication. given that for gemini venus communication and being on the same wavelength is key, i think that this is particular important

posted June 20, 2018 08:40 AM            

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Originally posted by Selenite:
Hey! My boyfriend has this combo. Gem Venus in 6th, Cap Mars in 1st. I think this:

is correct. Also, with my bf, there was no question as to whether or not he wanted to make it work with me. He wasn't obsessive in the grandiose sense but he always followed through on plans, and our 'friendly' hang outs naturally progressed into more than friendly, and eventually to sleepovers every day for like 6 months straight. He's a Taurus Sun so that plays into it.

Additionally, you are correct in that he likes smaller women, but he certainly doesn't have a problem with curvier ones. With Cap Mars, practically everything turns them on, but they have the highest level of self control / self denial that I've ever seen. I guess that's what they mean by exalted.

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posted June 21, 2018 01:01 AM            

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Originally posted by nordicsoul:
i do not know how they would show interest, but i know that they like slim women (not too curvy) who are intelligent. you dont need to have academic degree, but you need to be able to keep conversation and be curious about things and have lively conversations.

i remember my ex-husband (gemini venus) told me that he couldnt date a woman with whom your conversation is not fluid, that you need to work hard to find conversation topics..

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