posted July 05, 2018 10:50 PM            

He won't break up with me. Instead he tries to push me away by being mean. He doesn't want to initiate the break up because he wants to tell everyone that I caused it.

I'm a Capricorn so I don't give up easily and I have Venus in Pisces so I make a lot of excuses for his behavior.

The thing with Libra is they love to blame the other person so they can appear fair and just. I know that is the Leo in him as well.

posted July 05, 2018 11:25 PM            

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Originally posted by goatcat:
Yeah. He's an artist too. He'll probably write some songs about it

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posted July 06, 2018 12:18 AM            

Besides, I see you don't want to break up with him, which is puzzling to me. So what if he's an artist? Hardly anyone takes them serious, or their sour grapes in their songs (even Taylor Swift gets made fun of for that), and even if he does, he'll be sabotaging himself (as he makes some people fearful to get close to him, and bad people who think all attention is good attention and hook up with him with the intention of making him write songs about her).

Just break up with him and tell people he was an ******* . I bet many will commiserate with you. The only 2 scenarios I could see this being problematic is if he's big enough that the gossip mags actually cover him (and they'll find something juicier later on, and in the meantime you could sell interviews and make it work for you instead of him) or if you want him to break up with you so that it doesn't look so bad when you then immediately hook up with one of his friends in the band (in which case that's just not going to turn out well no matter who breaks up with whom).

If it were me, I'd just get my stuff and find somewhere else to go (unless the lease is in my name), and document anything I felt in need of documenting for small claims court (don't document what a jerk he is as the courts don't care about that and will just annoy the judge rather than making him or her sympathetic, but will be impressed by how you don't waste the court's time with your personal drama and bring all the required documents like bills, contracts, copies of the lease, etc). (Hmm...I bet most musicians would be in a hurry to break up if you tried to make him sign a contract promising payment of some kind...) And just do it. I'd be more worried about his fiery Leo sun more than his Libra Venus.

posted July 06, 2018 12:23 AM            

"What do you call a drummer who broke up with his girlfriend? Homeless."

"What does a stripper do with her butthole right before she goes to work? Drop him off at rehearsal."

"What's the difference between a guitarist and a puppy? The puppy will stop whining after a couple of months."

Just 3 of many...and having gotten to know some musicians, these jokes are so much funnier to me now!

posted July 06, 2018 12:30 AM            

It takes two to tango!

I believe everyone would think the artist/singer might be partly responsible for those same 'bad' relationships.

posted July 06, 2018 12:35 AM            

I just wanna say that you totally get it and you're the bomb thanks for the advice