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Ami Anne
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posted August 04, 2018 07:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
BPD and the disorder of the sociopath are similar. They have an "unformed" sense of self. This is not a judgement of any sort. It is very hard for the person and others. It is very sad. I think one can see it in the chart. It is not the fault of the native.

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Odette
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posted August 06, 2018 08:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Odette     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Ami! It's nice to see you around
You haven't said 'welcome back' or anything since I started posting again last week. Is everything ok?

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Ami Anne
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posted August 06, 2018 08:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Odette:
Hi Ami! It's nice to see you around
You haven't said 'welcome back' or anything since I started posting again last week. Is everything ok?


I am so sorry, Odette. WELCOME BACK


I have been pretty well. You?

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happyaskings
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posted August 06, 2018 10:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for happyaskings     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Aries sun, capricorn moon...nough said.

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charlie
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posted August 07, 2018 01:13 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for charlie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Gracha:
hm your case is interesting in particular. if you don't mind my asking when did the behavior change happen?

He was textbook “nice”, doting and loving for about 1 year. He sold me a concept and I took the bait. Then he changed. Suddenly things he had said, he hadn’t said. He started making up things or causing drama for no apparent reason. When confronted, I was told how bad of a person I was for treating him that way and that I needed help with my psychological issues. He humiliated me in front of his daughter or publically.
He, indirectly, managed to make me sell my company I had had with my father for 20 years because “you’re father doesn’t seem like a nice person and he will ruin US”.
Every time he feels that I’ve had enough, he puts on his nice face to lure me back. I haven’t physically left yet but the Cap Moon in me shut down a LONG time ago and he’ll never touch that.
I feel most sorry for his 11 yr daughter who is already seeing a shrink. Not only because of him, but also because her mother (his ex wife) is a complete, deranged lunatic! I’ve never met two people like these who should never have been allowed to reproduce :-/

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Odette
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posted August 07, 2018 04:50 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Odette     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:

I am so sorry, Odette. WELCOME BACK


I have been pretty well. You?


Lol No. It's completely ok. I just thought maybe you were upset or something was up. But I'm happy you're not.

I'm doing good and I'm excited to be posting here again
I really missed it!

That was a good point about Bpd. I just think in terms of -ability to empathise- they are different.

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posted September 09, 2018 01:08 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Morrigan     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by charlie:
He was textbook “nice”, doting and loving for about 1 year. He sold me a concept and I took the bait. Then he changed. Suddenly things he had said, he hadn’t said. He started making up things or causing drama for no apparent reason. When confronted, I was told how bad of a person I was for treating him that way and that I needed help with my psychological issues. He humiliated me in front of his daughter or publically.
He, indirectly, managed to make me sell my company I had had with my father for 20 years because “you’re father doesn’t seem like a nice person and he will ruin US”.
Every time he feels that I’ve had enough, he puts on his nice face to lure me back. I haven’t physically left yet but the Cap Moon in me shut down a LONG time ago and he’ll never touch that.

So sorry you have to live with this. You know, it sounds like NPD to me, not BPD. The classic "love-bombing" phase, and the devaluation. And the manipulation, gosh! Making you sell your company like that, is messed up. How does he take criticism, btw?

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posted September 09, 2018 03:49 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Huldra     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
needed to delete, to personal <3

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posted September 09, 2018 02:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mirage29     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
There are trendy "trash can" type of diagnoses that come and go. They morph in their meanings, over the decades.

In my opinion, a good plain basic-knowledge of astrology (like Jung had) is VITAL to training tools given for understanding the psychology of a person.

Some people are just 'unique' …

They need to Honor that about themselves. They need to be taught, and to be affirmed and supported-- not labeled.

I loved the TV Series "Psychic Kids" with Chip Coffey, working on a team of psychologists and gifted mentors.
- http://www.chipcoffey.com/
There is a higher "spiritual" component to some individuals, who have paranormal experiences. (Not talking flaky~~ but actual).

Some *ahem* erudite psychological individuals (at one point) had labelled the Dalai Llama as having a {negative} character-personality disorder because he chose a life of treating others with Love and Compassion.

In the "normal world" of today, I would hope that people will learn those spiritual principles. And otherwise speaking? Absolutely... that just ain't normal?
Dare To Be Different!!!

Some saints, mystics, and present-day naturally born and wired psychics of various talent-types (who have not yet discovered that about themselves yet), can get caught in a vortex.

If you have talents in the spiritual realms, you'd better hope that you find yourself attracting and being surrounded by like-minded Consciously evolved and awakened friends.

If you can see auras-- best to be selective about what you say. If you engage-in practices of a Believing in a Higher Power, then atheists are not a right-match for you.

But there is NOTHING more wholesome, healing, and therapeutic like having REAL Relationships with TRUE (evolved?) friends, who know you, accept you, have your back (protect), and that you can trust to give you straight and excellent feedback.

FIND yourself some GOOD friends-- common-sense and experienced folks, with sound advice and wisdoms.

Counseling, therapy, is a "false" relationship-- designed to get you to lower your boundaries and lure you into an artificial 'trust' relationship. The life-blood of this relationship, will be the amount of CASH-support resources (insurance) that you have.
*It's ALL based 'on money'.


I ran a mutual-support group for people who had been abused, for just over a year.

Sorry if I seem like too much of a "realist" with all this? I have had a little training. Some masters-level courses that didn't count (because I wasn't able to finish my bachelor degree). I had a best-friend who high level managed a psych-ward. I got the low-down on a lot of information.

She told me that whenever they would come in for treatment, with a 'Borderline' diagnosis on their medical records, it was "code" for a doctor saying/warning, "I didn't like this patient. YOU won't (or shouldn't) either." It was the 'good old boys' peer-pressure agreement NOT to cross another doctor's opinion, or face consequences. *sad*

She told me how they would code some records with derogatory medical slang--
for example, when the letters SPOSH appeared by the client's name-- it meant this person is a subhuman piece of scheat.

There is a tsunami wall of 'abuse' for already-hurt and abused people. They come for help "because" of the emotional harm they received-- then leave treatment MUCH worse-off, sadly, in a majority of cases.

There is so much Reform, and accountability to be mandated in the corrupted system. It's "too easy" to get a certificate and degree, and then sign up as a business-- with none or little talent?!

Not enough true 'healing vocations' in a world that sorely needs it.

Maybe 'some' day, reformers will clean it up? But as long as there is "a LOT of easy-money to be made" for very little-effort put in, a push to fix that broken healing-system will be repressed or quashed.

BDP ..
Reminds me of the story of mythological Lilith, and how she was disrespected she was by the patriarchy, because she was a strong woman who would not be 'had'. She demanded Worth and R-E-S-P-E-C-T!!

Famed astrologer Robert Hand, with fantastic wit, and dry sense of humor, once wrote an article called,

(article) What NOT to say to your Psychiatrist!!

I haven't been able to find that article yet.

- http://www.astro.com/astro-databank/Jung,_Carl
- http://www.astro.com/astro-databank/Hand,_Robert


(music) Reach Out of The Darkness (Friend & Lover, 1968) [3:07] http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dqLRd4neGGE

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