posted July 18, 2018 07:17 PM            

He is Libra Sun, Scorpio Moon, has lots of Libra (Venus, Mercury,) Mars (Virgo).

Me :

Leo Sun, Scorpio Moon, Libra Asc,
Venus : Virgo

Been dating for 5 months. Attraction is off the charts. We test each other. We only reveal when the other does a bit. Lots of mirroring. We can't stay away from each other.

A bit scared of the mutual attraction. Never happened before.

posted July 19, 2018 12:48 PM            

When with another Scorpio Moon,either you both resort to "testing" each other in an often painful game of emotions. Keep all cards hidden; outlive, outlast and outplay. To the benefit of none.

Or you could learn to chase the intimacy that you both crave by speaking openly with your heart and learn to be more vulnerable. Share secrets, share fears and nurture peace and true understanding of each others motives.

The former may come so easy that it will take little to no effort. Its "knee jerk" reaction.

The latter may take longer as it requires a more "open" approach. And its a lot more scary to you both. But the benefits long term are amazing.

I briefly knew a Sag/Sco and Sco/Sco couple who were married for 25 years. She(the Sag) was a colleague and was into astrology and her hubby was the company contractor.

I was surprised that she and her man both have a Scorpio Moon because they were incredibly gentle with each other.

He would pick her up EVERY day for lunch. And would send her flowers at work on her birthday.

posted July 19, 2018 12:58 PM            

It's a bit weird, depending on the day or phase. We'll be very in tune and similar. and others, we won't at all. I guess that's true for any couple. With him, I feel a massive pull and intensity.

And yes, there is an underlying gentleness with each other. We instinctively understand where we come from.

I am still assessing

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Scorpio Moon needs to learn to trust. And nowhere is that brought to the fore,then when they are in a relationship.

When with another Scorpio Moon,either you both resort to "testing" each other in an often painful game of emotions. Keep all cards hidden; outlive, outlast and outplay. To the benefit of none.

Or you could learn to chase the intimacy that you both crave by speaking openly with your heart and learn to be more vulnerable. Share secrets, share fears and nurture peace and true understanding of each others motives.

The former may come so easy that it will take little to no effort. Its "knee jerk" reaction.

The latter may take longer as it requires a more "open" approach. And its a lot more scary to you both. But the benefits long term are amazing.

I briefly knew a Sag/Sco and Sco/Sco couple who were married for 25 years. She(the Sag) was a colleague and was into astrology and her hubby was the company contractor.

I was surprised that she and her man both have a Scorpio Moon because they were incredibly gentle with each other.

He would pick her up EVERY day for lunch. And would send her flowers at work on her birthday.

I don't know the working of the relationship internally, but they were at ease with each other. And we felt it whenever they both were present.

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posted July 19, 2018 01:33 PM            

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Originally posted by KaycieBen:
Thank you for responding.

It's a bit weird, depending on the day or phase. We'll be very in tune and similar. and others, we won't at all. I guess that's true for any couple. With him, I feel a massive pull and intensity.

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This is even more true for same Moon sign couples. It could feel like anger is doubled, happiness is doubled and moodiness is doubled. As you both influence each other for better or worse.

posted July 19, 2018 01:43 PM            

I can understand, Cancer is very emotional. Dated one for a long time.

It's the first time I am meeting someone with the same moon as mine. It's magnetic, weird, disturbing, irresistible and I think, for both.

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
This is even more true for same Moon sign couples. It could feel like anger is doubled, happiness is doubled and moodiness is doubled. As you both influence each other for better or worse.

I don't date Cancer Moon guys. Its just too intense. Emotional objectivity is near to impossible.

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posted July 19, 2018 01:45 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
This is even more true for same Moon sign couples. It could feel like anger is doubled, happiness is doubled and moodiness is doubled. As you both influence each other for better or worse.

I don't date Cancer Moon guys. Its just too intense. Emotional objectivity is near to impossible.

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posted July 19, 2018 02:30 PM            

I always believe we attract the love that is best for us relative to how we feel about ourselves.

So for it to feel so intense and "magnetic". You could be ready for something extraordinary that ups the stakes.

I dated a Scorpio Moon myself a long time ago. It was exhausting for me because I could never tell what I did/didn't do to make him distant and callous with words.

And the fact that I tried to establish intellectual distance(my moon is in 3rd), may have made matters worse for us.

I would want to cuddle, they would want sex. I would want to talk openly about how I feel, they would interrogate that and ask " why I feel that way?" Without opening up about their feelings.

And I would watch my words and stay calm with my moodiness. Avoid them if not feeling stable but they would get tense and prickly around me when put off by work/something of the other.

I couldn't handle the tension and the fact that an argument would linger for days on end without him saying a word. The silent treatment was torture.

And then there was the " testing fidelity" interrogations I would get because some friend called or I smiled at someone at a party.

I joked a lot about it. But to him it was no joke. Everything was hectically serious. And I cracked. No more

posted July 19, 2018 02:47 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Just don't be like me and become too afraid. Like you will "lose yourself" in it. Lol.

I always believe we attract the love that is best for us relative to how we feel about ourselves.

So for it to feel so intense and "magnetic". You could be ready for something extraordinary that ups the stakes.

I dated a Scorpio Moon myself a long time ago. It was exhausting for me because I could never tell what I did/didn't do to make him distant and callous with words.

And the fact that I tried to establish intellectual distance(my moon is in 3rd), may have made matters worse for us.

I would want to cuddle, they would want sex. I would want to talk openly about how I feel, they would interrogate that and ask " why I feel that way?" Without opening up about their feelings.

And I would watch my words and stay calm with my moodiness. Avoid them if not feeling stable but they would get tense and prickly around me when put off by work/something of the other.

I couldn't handle the tension and the fact that an argument would linger for days on end without him saying a word. The silent treatment was torture.

And then there was the " testing fidelity" interrogations I would get because some friend called or I smiled at someone at a party.

I joked a lot about it. But to him it was no joke. Everything was hectically serious. And I cracked. No more

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