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Topic: Is it common for Scorpio Venus people to enjoy that you get jealous?
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SleepyDiary
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posted July 29, 2018 03:41 PM
  
And do they like to make you jealous too? IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees
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posted July 29, 2018 04:34 PM
Yeah. Immature but yes IP: Logged |
SleepyDiary
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posted July 29, 2018 05:02 PM
Why do they do this Aries? And do they do this towards people they only consider as friends too, or only towards romantic interests?IP: Logged |
Melinn
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posted July 29, 2018 05:35 PM
I have venus (inconj pluto) stellium in 8th and strong pluto energies. I do this towards romantic interests. Its in short about control. Controlling someones feelings. Also if someone gets jeleous he/she likes you and have feelings for you. Its that simple. If someone is indiffrenet, you have your answer.Or not that simple, its a bit complex. For me, I would try to make someone jelous only if I had feels for that person, to gauge their interest, or to punish them if I felt the person was playing that game with me.
I use this only on love interests. I would never use this on for ex my friends etc! I can not stand jelousy between female friends for exm but thats a different kind of **** and we are talking about love and jelousy right? Now when I'm older I keep it very subtle and just add tiny bits maybe, to show that I'm not desperat or something, its very different from person to person how they handle this energy. Enjoyment, well we thrive on intense energies and feelings. Passion etc. It may be a bit sadistical but yeah we enjoy the emotional roller coaster, simply bc, love=pain for us. It makes us feel alive! IP: Logged |
Plut0nian2
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posted July 29, 2018 09:21 PM
I have Pluto in scorpio square Venus in Leo.
I enjoy jealousy when it comes from someone does not generally express his feelings (all the ones I've ever liked are like that because of Capricorn and Scorpio chart mix) so it's very satisfying both the intensity and the fact that they couldn't keep it under control. Jealousy shows intensity/passion/possessivenes and I like all of them. It's like a fun game.
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hypatia238
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posted July 30, 2018 12:26 AM
I dont like to play games like that, I use to be jealous long ago but I am not anymore bc I feel is a waste of my energy. I may strategically bring up a topic that will lead to you finding out that I have guys other than you interested in me but not with the intention to necessarily make you jealous but more to remind you I am a good catch, something like that, and I would do it in a way that will make him feel secure and only make him wonder briefly. I would do it to balance out the power so there would be a good reason behind it if I do it.Venus conjunct Mars in Leo in the 8th sextile pluto. Yes I use to be jealous and yes you can transform this tendency. Now everyone experiences jealousy to some extent though, that is normal. I am talking about more extreme jealousy were you kind of obsess about it. But you can change and decide you don't want to feed that side of you anymore or make it stronger and slowly let it go till it no longer has control over you. IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees
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posted July 30, 2018 05:54 AM
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Originally posted by SleepyDiary:
Why do they do this Aries? And do they do this towards people they only consider as friends too, or only towards romantic interests?
Venus in Scorpio has a Mars/Pluto ruler. Things with Mars/Pluto ruler tend to be want to either feel a heart palpitation or fear flat lining  If they are not feeling either of the two in any sort of relationship, they feel insecure. And that is where the "testing" starts. It happens with friends, family etc. But its usually most intense with close friends and the relationship partner. Here they want emotions to rule... All or nothing IP: Logged |
SleepyDiary
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posted July 30, 2018 02:00 PM
Thanks for all the replies you guys 👍🏽 IP: Logged |
hypatia238
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posted July 30, 2018 02:18 PM
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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Venus in Scorpio has a Mars/Pluto ruler. Things with Mars/Pluto ruler tend to be want to either feel a heart palpitation or fear flat lining If they are not feeling either of the two in any sort of relationship, they feel insecure. And that is where the "testing" starts. It happens with friends, family etc. But its usually most intense with close friends and the relationship partner. Here they want emotions to rule... All or nothing
the heart palpitation thing and flat lining...oh that is so true... this applies to venus in leo too, add that I have it in the 8th so....
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Melinn
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posted July 30, 2018 04:15 PM
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the heart palpitation thing and flat lining...oh that is so true... this applies to venus in leo too, add that I have it in the 8th so....
Haha yes really good description! 
I literally imagined myself being in huge distress putting heart starting defibrillators (to jump start the roller coaster all over again) on a love interests chest when emotional stagnancy occurs haha! IP: Logged |
hypatia238
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posted July 30, 2018 04:26 PM
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Originally posted by Melinn:
Haha yes really good description!
I literally imagined myself being in huge distress putting heart starting defibrillators (to jump start the roller coaster all over again) on a love interests chest when emotional stagnancy occurs haha!
The guy I am seeing now, sometimes when he thinks of me my heart just randomly starts pounding fast, is like my body is telling me he is thinking of me. Out of all my relationships so far in my life I have this crazy heart pounding fast theme with him haha IP: Logged |
Melinn
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posted July 30, 2018 04:57 PM
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Originally posted by hypatia238:
The guy I am seeing now, sometimes when he thinks of me my heart just randomly starts pounding fast, is like my body is telling me he is thinking of me. Out of all my relationships so far in my life I have this crazy heart pounding fast theme with him haha
Sounds so wonderful! I'm excited for you dear! <3 I can imagine that rush!
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Aries23Degrees
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posted July 30, 2018 05:35 PM
 On a serious note though guys. It sounds to me that its a sort or "high". Like a drug? Kylie Minogue once sang " You will never get to heaven when you scared of getting high". But in the sane breath, Nat King Cole also sang "our love was too hot. Not to cool down". I prefer things to stay in the middle. Extremes are great. But not all the time. And the only time I should be getting heart palpitations is upon hearing that the war between Israel and Palestine is over! That shock alone would be enough to send me to my grave.  IP: Logged |
Melinn
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posted July 30, 2018 05:55 PM
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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
On a serious note though guys. It sounds to me that its a sort or "high". Like a drug? Kylie Minogue once sang " You will never get to heaven when you scared of getting high". But in the sane breath, Nat King Cole also sang "our love was too hot. Not to cool down". I prefer things to stay in the middle. Extremes are great. But not all the time. And the only time I should be getting heart palpitations is upon hearing that the war between Israel and Palestine is over! That shock alone would be enough to send me to my grave.
omg you turned too serious too fast!  Yes of course there is more important stuff in the world. Just living in a western country alone makes us among the lucky 2% of the human population, it makes us amongst the elite. So much suffering for those outside thise 2% elite countries  Omg don't get me started on Israel and Palstine and the whole fudging decleration of Balfour..
Yes it is a drug, its as addictive as cocaine! And having uranus aspects makes one more prone to seeking that kind of highs.
Just look at how science describes what chemicals are released by the body when in love or "love at first sight" moments and the brain on thise chemical love drug cocktails. Its a wonder I even could function somewhat normal this last year with not even love but obsession. I even had a car accident thinking about him! And this without even sex is involved what so ever. I would be dead by now if sex was involved I tell ya :/
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Aries23Degrees
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posted July 30, 2018 06:12 PM
Lol. Serious? Not at all.Its just I love being swept off my feet just like the next person. And falling in love can be the most exhilarating drug. No doubt. Its just that I tend to fear disappointment. Or rather the big "crash" after the high. I just dont recover well from those. I have experienced much of what you mean: thinking about the person so much as to lose motor function . Enough to drive me mental I tell ya! I felt back then that I was on the edge of being bipolar. I could not function without seeing/talking to them I.e heart palpitations etc. It could be that I have turned rogue cynical. Or at least masking that need for excitement in a mate. Don't know. IP: Logged |
hypatia238
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posted July 30, 2018 06:13 PM
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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
And the only time I should be getting heart palpitations is upon hearing that the war between Israel and Palestine is over! That shock alone would be enough to send me to my grave.
You are right, chronic intensity is exhausting but I disagree with the heart palpitations comment you made. Like the other day after he "came" hearing his heart throbbing as he let himself fall in my back was priceless or hearing his heart throbbing while we cuddle also priceless. I do understand the issue with extremes though, having this high level of intensity all the time is draining. Pros and Cons. IP: Logged |
hypatia238
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posted July 30, 2018 06:23 PM
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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Its just that I tend to fear disappointment. Or rather the big "crash" after the high. I just dont recover well from those. I have experienced much of what you mean: thinking about the person so much as to lose motor function . Enough to drive me mental I tell ya! I felt back then that I was on the edge of being bipolar. I could not function without seeing/talking to them I.e heart palpitations etc.
I can relate, yes losing a connection like that hurts bad, it comes with the Territory of not playing it safe. This astrologer describes Pluto themed relationships as this cycle that starts with DESIRE which turns to NEED which turns to OBSESSION. I think we need to be careful of just enjoying the desire part and not letting it turn into need and we can avoid the crash, well at least practicing mindfulness so when it transitions to need the need is kept under control at a healthy level and if we do that we won't transition to obsession (well at least it will stay under control) and that perhaps is what managing a plutonic relationship looks like. IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted August 02, 2018 11:36 PM
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Einfühlung
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posted August 03, 2018 02:09 AM
Dealing with one. We’re still in the baby stage(getting to know each other, though I can feel the mutual interest). I probably already disappointed him greatly if he’s been using the jealousy tacticIP: Logged |
Randall
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posted August 08, 2018 04:55 PM
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Originally posted by Einfühlung:
Dealing with one. We’re still in the baby stage(getting to know each other, though I can feel the mutual interest). I probably already disappointed him greatly if he’s been using the jealousy tactic
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Pluviophile123
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posted January 18, 2020 10:25 PM
Don’t have a Scorpio Venus but a lot of other stuff in conjunct Pluto and you getting jealous lets me know you care 😬 and were paying attentionIP: Logged |
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