posted August 23, 2018 10:25 PM            

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Originally posted by yota13:
Hmm well on the flip side a person with this placement would be cancer rising with uranus opposite ascendant..

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It doesn't even matter.. Planet aspects are way more important than planets in sign and planets in houses esepcially angular ones ir the ones on the house cusp do matter most than house signs.

That being said I have Cancer Sun in 12th H
Cancer Mercury and ASc, Pisces Moon, Pluto in 5th H square Venus, Mars and Jup plus Saturn exactly on the 8th H cusp.
I am mentioning all of these to show that even though I have so much water, even though Pluto and Saturn who give deapth seriousness and stability are there the effect of Uranus conjuct DSC is loud and clear.

I have never had a normal relatiobship, they all have physical distance and 3 out of 4 were completely internet relationships if they can be called relatiobahips at all.

I need freedom and indepedence, in order for me to be able to live in the same house with someone we have to sleep in different rooms. I need to have my personal space physically but I can be communicating via internet 25 hours a day.. I need to feel mental connection, if I do I am never bored to even talk about the most boring things that could exist, if I don't feel mentally connected with someone he coukd tell me the most exciting thing and I wouldn't give a damn, I would be bored.
I am loyal and sincere I just need to be physically alone too much and do the things I like. I don't want to ever get married (I don't believe in God, at least not the classic version) and I find the marriage ceremony ridiculous. I can asure you that I will stay with you for the rest of my life and be loyal to you, (unless you cheat on me, or harm me physically or if you are too self destructive which in turn will destroy me too) I think that is more important than a ceremony to show off which most people won't even respect.

I think where the Capricorn sign plays its role is the fact that I know relationships are not going to be full of happy times and even if you find the perfect one both of you will still need to work for the relationship. Keping a relationship is the hardest job of all. I kniw I am going to get tired and bored but what many people do not understand is that it will always be like that even the most perfect match.
Ideally I don't want to be in a relationship at all and I am the happiest when I not in love, but what I described above is the only way to make it work for me if I am in love with someone and choose to not run away (which is what I always do).

I have observed that people with hard Uranus aspects to DSC or Sun/Venus/Moon do not relize their need for freedom early enough.
They may feel like they really want to be in a normal relationship til they are in one.
I was lucky to discover astrology soon enough. I was wondering why I am always running away when the flirt stage is over and it's starting to become a relationship.
Until I realised that shyness couldn't justify my need to run away like I was running for my life. that feeling like there is not a lot of air to breathe suddenly, I dislike it so much.

Uranus on DSC is kniwn for being attracted to foreigners or weird people etc. It's true fior me since I have been attracted multiple times to foreigners of different color etc but it's nit a standard. My standard is the physical distance.

posted August 23, 2018 10:45 PM            

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Originally posted by Plut0nian2:
It doesn't even matter.. Planet aspects are way more important than planets in sign and planets in houses esepcially angular ones ir the ones on the house cusp do matter most than house signs.

That being said I have Cancer Sun in 12th H
Cancer Mercury and ASc, Pisces Moon, Pluto in 5th H square Venus, Mars and Jup plus Saturn exactly on the 8th H cusp.
I am mentioning all of these to show that even though I have so much water, even though Pluto and Saturn who give deapth seriousness and stability are there the effect of Uranus conjuct DSC is loud and clear.

I have never had a normal relatiobship, they all have physical distance and 3 out of 4 were completely internet relationships if they can be called relatiobahips at all.

I need freedom and indepedence, in order for me to be able to live in the same house with someone we have to sleep in different rooms. I need to have my personal space physically but I can be communicating via internet 25 hours a day.. I need to feel mental connection, if I do I am never bored to even talk about the most boring things that could exist, if I don't feel mentally connected with someone he coukd tell me the most exciting thing and I wouldn't give a damn, I would be bored.
I am loyal and sincere I just need to be physically alone too much and do the things I like. I don't want to ever get married (I don't believe in God, at least not the classic version) and I find the marriage ceremony ridiculous. I can asure you that I will stay with you for the rest of my life and be loyal to you, (unless you cheat on me, or harm me physically or if you are too self destructive which in turn will destroy me too) I think that is more important than a ceremony to show off which most people won't even respect.

I think where the Capricorn sign plays its role is the fact that I know relationships are not going to be full of happy times and even if you find the perfect one both of you will still need to work for the relationship. Keping a relationship is the hardest job of all. I kniw I am going to get tired and bored but what many people do not understand is that it will always be like that even the most perfect match.
Ideally I don't want to be in a relationship at all and I am the happiest when I not in love, but what I described above is the only way to make it work for me if I am in love with someone and choose to not run away (which is what I always do).

I have observed that people with hard Uranus aspects to DSC or Sun/Venus/Moon do not relize their need for freedom early enough.
They may feel like they really want to be in a normal relationship til they are in one.
I was lucky to discover astrology soon enough. I was wondering why I am always running away when the flirt stage is over and it's starting to become a relationship.
Until I realised that shyness couldn't justify my need to run away like I was running for my life. that feeling like there is not a lot of air to breathe suddenly, I dislike it so much.

Uranus on DSC is kniwn for being attracted to foreigners or weird people etc. It's true fior me since I have been attracted multiple times to foreigners of different color etc but it's nit a standard. My standard is the physical distance.

Hope this helps
I feel like I am forgetting to mention smth*

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posted August 23, 2018 11:09 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Plut0nian2:
[b] It doesn't even matter.. Planet aspects are way more important than planets in sign and planets in houses esepcially angular ones ir the ones on the house cusp do matter most than house signs.

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posted August 24, 2018 04:42 AM            

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I get what you mean about needing physical space. I was like that with my ex I liked sleeping in my own room. He didn't like the fact that I needed space he has Venus sextile or trine Uranus. I have Venus square Uranus, Moon in Aquarius, Aquarius is my DSC. And Uranus trines my ASC I am attracted to weird and eccentric people.
I don't know how I feel about marriage. I don't want to end up alone. I believe if I found the right person I would get married. Someone who would be ok with going days without seeing me. Ok with me having space when I need it. I don't connect with people easily on an emotional level either so that's another issue. I like being friends first before having a romantic relationship.

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Aqua Moon, Aqua DSC and Venus (natural ruler of 7th H) square Uranus (natal ruler of your 7th H) is triple Uranus. Moon in Aqua is cold.. I have Aqua on 8th H ans I feel it so much when others try to become intimate with me. It's easy for me to connect physically even if I really feel like doing it, but I don't have problem emotionally which makes it worse because I have intense emotions and can not really express them.

posted August 24, 2018 04:46 AM            

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Originally posted by yota13:
Not saying it does but that there is more than one way of looking at it.
Uranus is conjunct my dsc in cap also
What I've noticed in my own life is that the people I'm attracted to often have aqua in their chart with saturn aspects to their planets or mine.

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posted August 24, 2018 05:08 AM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
How would this person be relationship wise? Capricorn likes stability and Uranus is the opposite.

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posted August 24, 2018 07:59 AM            

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Originally posted by Plut0nian2:
Aqua Moon, Aqua DSC and Venus (natural ruler of 7th H) square Uranus (natal ruler of your 7th H) is triple Uranus. Moon in Aqua is cold.. I have Aqua on 8th H ans I feel it so much when others try to become intimate with me. It's easy for me to connect physically even if I really feel like doing it, but I don't have problem emotionally which makes it worse because I have intense emotions and can not really express them.

Do you attract Aqua or Uranian people?
It's weird that I don't (except of one who had Aqua ASC) all others have heavy Capricorn and Scorpio no Uranus or Aqua but we have it in our synastry.
Did you have Uranus aspects in your synastry?
Don't get discouraged, a friend of mine has Uranus opposite Sun (I have it too 3 orbs wide) and no other Uranus aspects and she told me maybe a month ago that she was planing with her boyfriend at some point to have a house with two bedrooms so that they can sleep separately, plus all her relationships have distance. Having T.Pluto on her Moon made her realise that she needs too much freedom in relationships and it felt like a nightmare living with her boyfriend.
I was shocked because she has just this Uranus aspect to her Sun (maybe she has miro aspects that I haven't seen?)

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posted August 24, 2018 08:01 AM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Bait and switch aspect. Not the most reliable nor consistent individual. Likes to have lots of room to move around Bd chances to change their mind.

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posted August 24, 2018 08:03 AM            

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Originally posted by Somna7H:
My Uranus(in Sag) Conjunct Descendant.
Running behind unavailable persons.

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posted August 24, 2018 09:13 AM            

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I also have Sun trine Uranus in my natal chart and Moon square Pluto. Yes we do have Uranus aspects in our synasty. But his Saturn sextiles my Moon and makes aspects to my Sun, Mars and Mercury. I'm not rushing things with him though. I like the idea of friendship before romance. I think it's always better to be friends first. He's similar to me though we like some of the same things.

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Trines are generally consider soft aspects and positive. In case or Uranus I think even trines are not so easy to handle.
I've observed that even one hard aspect to Uranus/Neptune is very important. A great example would be my aunt. She has Taurus Moon, Virgo Sun, Venus and Mars. Her Neptune is square Mercury and honestly it ruins everything. Her judgement of others, especially men sucks, she believes words easily even though actions are the complete opposite of their words.

It's good that you are not rushing it. I am the same VEEERY SLOW. And you have to find someone with Uranian/Aquarian.
Whenever you see interpretations of Uranus synastry aspects they say negative things especially about not being long lasting ones. When you have Uranus aspects natally though you need Uranus aspects in synastry too (let alone that you have to find someone way older or younger in order to not have Uranus synastry aspects too since Uranus stays many years in the same sign).

It's an Uranus thing the friends first thing. I can nit act like a friend with someone I want (I have too much Neptune too and I getting close emotionally very quick with someone I sense special), but I never date, I want to be like friends in the way we hang out in the beginning, dating us very awkward and I don't enjoy it, it feels kind of forced to me.

posted August 24, 2018 09:26 AM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
Do you mean emotionally unavailable?

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No, can't get due to other factors such as different social background/status.

posted August 24, 2018 10:35 AM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
How would this person be relationship wise? Capricorn likes stability and Uranus is the opposite.

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Someone with Uranus doesn't necessarily prefer distance and detachment but might find him or herself in relationships under unusual circumstances. It could be that the relationship starts suddenly or ends abruptly, circumstances that force the partners to live apart and so on.

Someone having Uranus onowould the Dsc or in H7 would definitely want their partner to bring Uranian energy: to have Sun, Asc, Asc ruler in Aqua, the Asc ruler in aspect with Uranus, Uranus in 1st house etc.

But this placement also describes the circumstances of the potential partner.
For example, Dsc in Cap often describes being attracted to an older person than oneself. Uranus on Cap Dsc could point to an older, divorced person.

If someone has Dsc in Sag and Uranus on the Dsc it could symbolize finding a partner from a foreign country and living apart for the most part.

I remember a colleague once who asked me to look at her natal chart. She had Saturn and Uranus on the Dsc. I asked her whether her husband were significantly older than her and married before. He is twelve years older and the colleague is his second wife.

Uranus could also point to a partner who is an engineer or a scientist.

It's never only one thing but looking at the symbolism of the signs, houses and planets a lot can be told.

posted August 24, 2018 11:03 AM            

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No, can't get due to other factors such as different social background/status.

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posted August 24, 2018 11:08 AM            

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Someone with Uranus doesn't necessarily prefer distance and detachment but might find him or herself in relationships under unusual circumstances. It could be that the relationship starts suddenly or ends abruptly, circumstances that force the partners to live apart and so on.

Someone having Uranus onowould the Dsc or in H7 would definitely want their partner to bring Uranian energy: to have Sun, Asc, Asc ruler in Aqua, the Asc ruler in aspect with Uranus, Uranus in 1st house etc.

But this placement also describes the circumstances of the potential partner.
For example, Dsc in Cap often describes being attracted to an older person than oneself. Uranus on Cap Dsc could point to an older, divorced person.

If someone has Dsc in Sag and Uranus on the Dsc it could symbolize finding a partner from a foreign country and living apart for the most part.

I remember a colleague once who asked me to look at her natal chart. She had Saturn and Uranus on the Dsc. I asked her whether her husband were significantly older than her and married before. He is twelve years older and the colleague is his second wife.

Uranus could also point to a partner who is an engineer or a scientist.

It's never only one thing but looking at the symbolism of the signs, houses and planets a lot can be told.

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posted August 24, 2018 01:39 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
Is this always the case? Even if the person also has their Moon conjunct their DSC? I guess it would be the same for me though having Descendant in Aquarius.

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The fact that Uranus connects to a person all planet (Moon) suggests that what was emphasized before is even more true.

Some Moon-Uranus can be emotionally claustrophobic i.e they may fear that getting too close to someone may result in discomfort. So as such emotional (Moon) distance (Uranus) is always what they opt for.

posted August 24, 2018 02:00 PM            

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Originally posted by HelixID:
Uranus could also point to a partner who is an engineer or a scientist.

It's never only one thing but looking at the symbolism of the signs, houses and planets a lot can be told.

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I wish it was just weird circumstances or an engineer/scientist/man having to do with technology etc.

posted August 24, 2018 02:03 PM            

So this is the guy we were talking about in the other thread?
If someone is attracted to you, it's because you mirror his placements. So sure he is attracted to you because of your Aqua Asc and the other Uranus and Saturn aspects. I was just saying that apart from the obvious sign and planet energies, the Dsc and the planets there describe the circumstances of the partner.

A friend of mine has Uranus conjunct her Dsc. Her husband is not divorced, she's his first wife. Her Dsc is in Sag and as I said Uranus is there.
Her husband and she met when she was in his country on vacation (Sag). They often spend weeks and even months due to job and school (Uranus).

Another friend has Uranus conjunct Dsc in Scorpio and she always finds unavailable men one way or the other.

My Dsc ruler Venus is square Uranus. My boyfriend and I had a long distance relationship for an entire year (Uranus). But his Asc ruler Mercury is also square Uranus.

If you look at the sign, house and aspects of your Dsc ruler, you can see how you'll meet your husband, for example. But all these things also show what he has to have in his natal chart.
One sign, aspect or house can symbolize so many things.

posted August 24, 2018 02:42 PM            

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Originally posted by Plut0nian2:
I wish it was just weird circumstances or an engineer/scientist/man having to do with technology etc.

In my case it's always multiple at the same time. It's never just one thing, even my friend who has Just Uranus opposite Sun doesn't have one simple thing.
Unusual circumstances or meeting via internet it's the standard for me and my friend, the distance is always a standard for both of us too plus synastry aspect with Uranus.
I haven't seen it being so soft like just meeting someone under weird circumstances or just meeting someone with Aqua/Uranus or anything light like that.

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But you know what? I bet if it were any easier you wouldn't like it.
I know what Uranus feels like.
I have Mars and Venus conjunct in Virgo (2°), they are my Asc and Dsc ruler respectively. They are both square Uranus (1° and 3°).
I usually meet the guys I like at work (Dsc ruler Venus in Virgo + H6) and when the flirting and getting closer intensifies, they suddenly quit and move away or something like that before anything serious happens (Uranus).
Uranian people are comfortable with the fantasy and the bittersweet feeling of longing but when things start becoming real they suffocate in a way and fear that they might lose their independence.

posted August 24, 2018 07:02 PM            

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Originally posted by HelixID:

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So this is the guy we were talking about in the other thread?
If someone is attracted to you, it's because you mirror his placements. So sure he is attracted to you because of your Aqua Asc and the other Uranus and Saturn aspects. I was just saying that apart from the obvious sign and planet energies, the Dsc and the planets there describe the circumstances of the partner.

A friend of mine has Uranus conjunct her Dsc. Her husband is not divorced, she's his first wife. Her Dsc is in Sag and as I said Uranus is there.
Her husband and she met when she was in his country on vacation (Sag). They often spend weeks and even months due to job and school (Uranus).

Another friend has Uranus conjunct Dsc in Scorpio and she always finds unavailable men one way or the other.

My Dsc ruler Venus is square Uranus. My boyfriend and I had a long distance relationship for an entire year (Uranus). But his Asc ruler Mercury is also square Uranus.

If you look at the sign, house and aspects of your Dsc ruler, you can see how you'll meet your husband, for example. But all these things also show what he has to have in his natal chart.
One sign, aspect or house can symbolize so many things.

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The ruler of my 7th house is in my 4th. I've read that means I will meet my significant other through family.

posted August 24, 2018 07:34 PM            

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Originally posted by Plut0nian2:
Trines are generally consider soft aspects and positive. In case or Uranus I think even trines are not so easy to handle.
I've observed that even one hard aspect to Uranus/Neptune is very important. A great example would be my aunt. She has Taurus Moon, Virgo Sun, Venus and Mars. Her Neptune is square Mercury and honestly it ruins everything. Her judgement of others, especially men sucks, she believes words easily even though actions are the complete opposite of their words.

It's good that you are not rushing it. I am the same VEEERY SLOW. And you have to find someone with Uranian/Aquarian.
Whenever you see interpretations of Uranus synastry aspects they say negative things especially about not being long lasting ones. When you have Uranus aspects natally though you need Uranus aspects in synastry too (let alone that you have to find someone way older or younger in order to not have Uranus synastry aspects too since Uranus stays many years in the same sign).

It's an Uranus thing the friends first thing. I can nit act like a friend with someone I want (I have too much Neptune too and I getting close emotionally very quick with someone I sense special), but I never date, I want to be like friends in the way we hang out in the beginning, dating us very awkward and I don't enjoy it, it feels kind of forced to me.

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posted August 24, 2018 10:31 PM            

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Hmm.. suffocating is the best way to describe it indeed. I agree with what you are saying but it is the opposite (for me at least). It's because of suffocating that we prefer being in pain, not that we enjoy that painful feeling of longing someone more than actuallhaving him. I personally love not being in love with someone the most lol.
I can't describe that feeling of suffocating why it's so intense but to me it feels like I am scared of the intensity of my feelings, the fear for losing my freedom would come later at that point where you are going to live in the same house with someone for example or if he is extremely clingy or wants you to do whatever he wants smth like that.

I don't mind the weird circumstances or falling for weird people I also like the distance but it's way more than I would like, like literally never seeing someone or living far away from him is hard.

Neptunian are the ones loving the fantasy more than reality though