posted September 07, 2018 02:53 PM            

I have the Sun-Neptune conjunction and it rings true for my relationship with my father. He was absent for most of my life, in prison (neptune is being caged/imprisoned somehow). I also have the Mercury-Neptune conjunction and I vaguely see how it relates to me and my siblings but not really. No imprisonment for them (at least not that I'm aware of). My eldest sister did get a degree in a medical field. Does that relate to Neptune? And, apparently, my father had children with another woman while he was with my mom (which I did not know until recently), so they were hidden in my life? Which is Neptune? I don't think it would apply though since I've never met them and isn't Neptune more like hidden things you are already aware of? And Pluto is more like hidden things you've never seen before (like your unconsciousness)?

posted September 07, 2018 06:42 PM            

Mercury because siblings can definitely help the child communicate faster(Mercury)

And also siblings tend to inspire rivalry(Mars) for parental attention.

My Mercury is square Mars and my relationship with my sister is not volatile(thank goodness). But it can have its moments as she is very Mars-like in most things

When younger, we were at odds with each other but when older. I have learned to be more reserved.

She has Pluto in 4th house and I see that it plays out in my immediate family finding it difficult to deal with her. Because she is quick to be defensive.

I have another sister 11 years my junior. And I feel like my relationship with her is more maternal.

I have Moon in 3rd conjunct the 4th. And this chart position represents the nature of both relations. But more so the younger sibling.