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girlwiththerainysoul
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posted September 09, 2018 03:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for girlwiththerainysoul     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
when thinking about your ideal man, would you rather have:

1. his Venus conjunct your Sun

or

2. his Sun conjunct your DC


pretty tough choice!

please elaborate a bit on why a particular one is your favorite!

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Plut0nian2
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posted September 09, 2018 03:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Plut0nian2     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
None

I've had both.
I feel nothing when someone touches my Venus in Leo maybe because of the Pluto square.
Sun in 7th H wasn't strong enough for me

Till now everyone I felt really attracted to had his Venus in Capricorn conjuct my DSC or in my 7th H conjcting NN.

So for me it's his Venus on my DSC

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girlwiththerainysoul
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posted September 09, 2018 10:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for girlwiththerainysoul     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Venus on DC is nice!


thank you Plut0nian2!

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posted September 10, 2018 10:52 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for scorpiogirl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Definitely his Venus conjunct my Sun. Men with Venus in Scorpio are my kryptonite. They don't mind me either lol. No Scorpio Suns though.

His Sun conjunct my Descendant would make him a Leo. I find Leo men insufferable and the women barely tolerable, so that would be a no.

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posted September 10, 2018 12:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for girlwiththerainysoul     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
^^

that is so interesting!

thanks scorpiogirl!

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hypatia238
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posted September 10, 2018 12:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
This is a tough one bc I don't feel attracted to geminis usually and my DC is in Gemini and I don't feel attracted usually to venus in virgo.

Like you would think venus in virgo would be my ideal bc it would oppose my moon and conjunct my sun and square my AC/DC axis but no....

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posted September 10, 2018 01:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lalafortunaea     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I don't really feel venus conjunct sun with anyone. I don't much like people who's sun is the same as my venus, usually, anyway. I don't hate them. I just usually feel "meh"

Sun conj dsc would be better, but still, not that great imo.


Semi related but I wonder how people feel about someone's pluto touching their dsc/7th?

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posted September 10, 2018 01:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My persona venus is also virgo but the degree is at 10 degrees and I have noticed I attract and feel attracted to virgo/pisces placements at 10 degrees.

I would say the persona venus plays out more for me but venus in virgo at 10d would NOT conjunct my SUN, isnt that odd?, well at least I have an explanation as to why I feel attracted to 10 degree pisces/virgo since it does not aspect my sun in virgo at 28 or my moon in pisces at 21 degrees.

I attract more the persona placements and degrees.

Added:

Like one of my favorite clients, I have seen her for 76 sessions and she is a leo that does not conjunct my Venus and her own venus is in Virgo at 10 degrees conjuncting exact my persona venus in virgo, we have genuine love for each other. The only girl I have ever had feelings for has Venus in pisces at 10 degrees opposing exact my persona venus. This guy I kissed and we are friends he has mars in pisces at 10 degrees, this happens a lot pisces/virgo at 10 degrees for me. I kept wondering why 10 degrees? as it does not aspect my luminaries!

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posted September 10, 2018 01:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lerena     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
1. his Venus conjunct your Sun
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2. his Sun conjunct your DC
Why do I have to choose? It's possible to have both of these at the same time. There's no guarantee I'd enjoy it though. My Sun and Descendant are both in Taurus and I don't go for men with Sun in Taurus or Venus in Taurus. Chances are pretty high that a man with these placements are too similar to me and we'd honestly be better off as friends.

Regardless, I'm not able to talk about my ideal man in relation to astrology. I end up over-analyzing what I claim I want in an ideal partner and wonder if what I think I'd like would end up not being what I want at all.

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posted September 10, 2018 01:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lalafortunaea     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Lerena:

Regardless, I'm not able to talk about my ideal man in relation to astrology. I end up over-analyzing what I claim I want in an ideal partner and wonder if what I think I'd like would end up not being what I want at all.


Yes, precisely!

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posted September 10, 2018 02:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Solar_Leo_Queen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Not gonna lie, even though I am dating a Leo, I still like Sag men than Leo men. I've had someone's Sun in my 7th house and conjunct my DC. It was pure attraction on my part and I had fantasies of getting married to him. He was my ideal man. This was an elementary crush lol so idk if it counts. I still find him attractive but I am a committed woman so no thank you.

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posted September 10, 2018 03:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mirage29     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Lerena ..
Scorpiogirl .. I enjoyed that!!

Since my Sun is a few degrees below the Descendant, I guess it wouldn't matter?!

I have a Venus Taurus...
Venus Gemini men -- I'll have to look at what Linda said about them.

I'd guess it'd be FUN having loads of conversation being with them at a party--I'd imagine he'd already probably have a long list of girlfriends!

I would want someone who knows and appreciates my "soul."

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posted September 10, 2018 05:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DualGemV2     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Interesting... Maybe the feeling is felt diffrently between guys and girls.

My Sun conjuncts Venus with almost everyone born between Jan 88 - Aug 88 and a few 89 borns.

Its a warm welcoming feeling, sorta like the neighbors cat that vists you and waits for you at your door as you come home and wants to be petted or cuddled.

But as mentioned I'm a guy thought.

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posted September 10, 2018 07:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mirage29     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by DualGemV2:
Its a warm welcoming feeling, sorta like the neighbors cat that vists you and waits for you at your door as you come home and wants to be petted or cuddled.

awww. That's soooooo cute!!!!!!

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posted September 11, 2018 12:03 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for girlwiththerainysoul     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Lalafortunaea:
I don't really feel venus conjunct sun with anyone. I don't much like people who's sun is the same as my venus, usually, anyway. I don't hate them. I just usually feel "meh"

Sun conj dsc would be better, but still, not that great imo.



very interesting!

personally I feel pretty weak in the presence of people who have their sun conjunct or opposite my venus...I even feel pretty much the same about the trines..but when my sun in on somebody's DC, it's is intense sexual feelings (probably also because they're scorpio ACs who always wanna have sex with tauruses!), but also feelings of holding back and difficulty in trust, maybe partly because the 7th house also represents that of public enemies

for me with sun/venus, there's an extremely sweet, warm, fuzzy, adoring feeling..like wanting to have endless kisses, hugs, touches...I have experienced the same feeling with aries or libra suns who square my venus in cancer

with sun/dc, it's appreciating the other person for who they are, and feeling like they're your other half

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posted September 11, 2018 12:04 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for girlwiththerainysoul     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by hypatia238:
My persona venus is also virgo but the degree is at 10 degrees and I have noticed I attract and feel attracted to virgo/pisces placements at 10 degrees.

I would say the persona venus plays out more for me but venus in virgo at 10d would NOT conjunct my SUN, isnt that odd?, well at least I have an explanation as to why I feel attracted to 10 degree pisces/virgo since it does not aspect my sun in virgo at 28 or my moon in pisces at 21 degrees.

I attract more the persona placements and degrees.

Added:

Like one of my favorite clients, I have seen her for 76 sessions and she is a leo that does not conjunct my Venus and her own venus is in Virgo at 10 degrees conjuncting exact my persona venus in virgo, we have genuine love for each other. The only girl I have ever had feelings for has Venus in pisces at 10 degrees opposing exact my persona venus. This guy I kissed and we are friends he has mars in pisces at 10 degrees, this happens a lot pisces/virgo at 10 degrees for me. I kept wondering why 10 degrees? as it does not aspect my luminaries!


wow hypat that's so interesting!

I wonder if you have anything at 10 virgo/pisces in your draconic chart?

but persona charts are very interesting as well

almost any man I have dated has had his venus or moon, in either his venus or moon persona chart at 27 pisces/virgo...and I have natal moon at 27 pisces...it's always even exact to the degree....I'm not even surprised anymore when I see it hehe

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posted September 11, 2018 12:04 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for girlwiththerainysoul     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Lerena:
Why do I have to choose? [/B]


It's because I am sort of in a situation where I have to choose between two men...one has his venus right on my sun, the other his sun right on my DC

they treat me differently (nicely)...I can't choose yet which one I like more, especially since I have natal sun and DC in naturally square signs, this is such a conflict for me when it comes to thinking who I really am!

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posted September 11, 2018 12:07 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for girlwiththerainysoul     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Solar_Leo_Queen:
Not gonna lie, even though I am dating a Leo, I still like Sag men than Leo men. I've had someone's Sun in my 7th house and conjunct my DC. It was pure attraction on my part and I had fantasies of getting married to him. He was my ideal man. This was an elementary crush lol so idk if it counts. I still find him attractive but I am a committed woman so no thank you.


oh yeah, the marriage fantasies have been strong for me as well with their sun on my DC and vice versa

I have a best friend of almost ten years, and her sun is right on my DC...she used to call me her wife when we were younger hehe...I love her so much and I remember a few times when I fantasized about being a guy so I could marry her


she and I are have been in a long-distance relationship over the past few years, first she moved to another city and then I moved there, and by the time I did, she kept moving back and forth to the other city making it harder for us to meet!....so Aquarius! (my DC and her sun!)


this is my composite with her

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posted September 11, 2018 12:07 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for girlwiththerainysoul     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by mirage29:

I would want someone who knows and appreciates my "soul."



mirage this is exactly how I feel!


they say that your sun, is your true identity, and that the AC is your soul...so I wonder which one one has to choose, supposing that natally one does not have sun on DC or very close to it

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posted September 11, 2018 12:08 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for mamawolf     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I don't attract Scorpio men so I'd have to say Capricorn venus conjunct my sun. I've felt admired but also very comfortable around them.

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posted September 11, 2018 12:08 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for girlwiththerainysoul     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by DualGemV2:
Interesting... Maybe the feeling is felt diffrently between guys and girls.

My Sun conjuncts Venus with almost everyone born between Jan 88 - Aug 88 and a few 89 borns.

Its a warm welcoming feeling, sorta like the neighbors cat that vists you and waits for you at your door as you come home and wants to be petted or cuddled.

But as mentioned I'm a guy thought.

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interesting point!

I have seen more guys with girls who have their suns touched by the man's venus than his sun in her 7th

I have also noticed that it seems to be more difficult for men to have their sun in a woman's 7th, they handle it much better when it's her sun in his 7th

of course not the same for everybody but something I have seen in general


Dual I confess that I am a bit confused by your comment lol!

since you know how well familiar I am with the chart of a person born just a day before you, I wonder what you meant about people born between those dates!

do you mean their sun on your venus or the other way around? or maybe your DC? because it's pretty much half a year with many different venus signs the duration between the dates you mentioned!

please enlighten me!

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posted September 11, 2018 12:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for girlwiththerainysoul     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by mamawolf:
I don't attract Scorpio men so I'd have to say Capricorn venus conjunct my sun. I've felt admired but also very comfortable around them.

so cute!...to me capricorn is the sign of cuteness!

I like cap venuses, when they decide to fall in love, they want it for the long run

and they seem shy, but they can be amazing lovers!

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posted September 11, 2018 02:50 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for SoulOfABird     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Conjunct DC... would that include the whole house or any signs intercepted there? Because my DC is 25 degrees Leo, but Virgo is intercepted in my 7th house. A lot of guys I like have Virgo placements. It falls in my 7th house. So if Virgo counts than yes I pick a guy with his Sun in Virgo conjunct my DC, but if his Sun has to be in Leo no thank you lol then Iíd prefer Pisces Venus man. His Venus would also conjunct my own Venus and also my Mercury. I think having compatibilitle Venusí is really good.

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posted September 11, 2018 02:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for SoulOfABird     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Solar_Leo_Queen:
Not gonna lie, even though I am dating a Leo, I still like Sag men than Leo men. I've had someone's Sun in my 7th house and conjunct my DC. It was pure attraction on my part and I had fantasies of getting married to him. He was my ideal man. This was an elementary crush lol so idk if it counts. I still find him attractive but I am a committed woman so no thank you.

I get that way with any guy I like even if their Sun isnt on my DC. I literally imagine my whole life with the guy I like. I thought everyone did that... 😳 I wonder if it would be even stronger with a guy with his Sun on my DC... I havenít had that... I donít know, I donít usually tend to be attracted to Leo placements. Especially Leo Suns.


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posted September 11, 2018 03:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for girlwiththerainysoul     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by SoulOfABird:
I get that way with any guy I like even if their Sun isnt on my DC. I literally imagine my whole life with the guy I like. I thought everyone did that... 😳 I wonder if it would be even stronger with a guy with his Sun on my DC... I havenít had that... I donít know, I donít usually tend to be attracted to Leo placements. Especially Leo Suns.



never say never!

it's a nice feeling, at least based on what I experienced


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