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Topic: Can You Take Things Slow With an Aries?!
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girlwiththerainysoul
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posted September 12, 2018 12:33 AM
  
this Aries guy has been chasing meI've known him for about a year now, but only recently we both started feeling more I'm not sure what I want with him yet, so I'm keeping it cool and casual, but it seems that the more he's teased, the more he feels urged to get together as fast as possible! I would understand, because my mercury is in this sign too!..we want what we want right there when we want it!
his mars is in capricorn, and he's the no-nonsense type of guy
has been showing jealousy, over-protectiveness and fatherly behavior I guess the reason I have so much fun with him and thus having a hard time to break away, is his moon in leo on my AC, and his venus on my sun
I wonder that with me sending mixed signals, would he eventually get tired of the chase and drop things? I sure don't wanna lose a good friend...if he confronts me, what is the best way to react to it? should I tell him the truth, that for now I'm not looking for anything serious, or would that be such a terrible thing to say an Aries?!
thank you in advance!
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charlie
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posted September 12, 2018 04:30 AM
If he has a fixed moon he’ll probably hang on for a while or until he realizes there’s no hope. Unfortunately with fixed moons, once they have decided hope is gone, my experience is that there’s little chance to change their minds. IP: Logged |
girlwiththerainysoul
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posted September 12, 2018 05:00 AM
thanks for sharing your experience charileIP: Logged |
charlie
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posted September 12, 2018 05:49 AM
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Originally posted by girlwiththerainysoul:
thanks for sharing your experience charile
My husband is an Aries Sun+ Mercury + Taurus Moon.
He’s fast in, slow out and when he’s out he’s OUT! IP: Logged |
girlwiththerainysoul
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posted September 12, 2018 07:08 AM
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Originally posted by charlie:
My husband is an Aries Sun+ Mercury + Taurus Moon.
He’s fast in, slow out and when he’s out he’s OUT!
cool!  thank you charlie! IP: Logged |
Melinn
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posted September 12, 2018 10:42 AM
I can only talk about myself lol, I have aries stellium in 8th house (venus-jupiter-node) and gemini stellium (moon-mars.chiron).Maybe one would beluieve it means I fall out of love easily? Nope, becuase Taurus sun-merc. Plutonic and dispositor pluto. And 8th house stellium etc etc... I fall easily if I have chemistry with the other person. Fall out, no I don't fall out. One have to bend up my fingers one by one , I won't let go! haha The only thing with my aries energy is, I love chasing, being chased charmed all that game. But if it does not progress, I will get frustrated (aries). Stomping water makes the aries in my very frustrated and irritated! If I did not have so much fixed energy, I would be the type who would just let go... but I often drag the dead corpse behind me, also trying to beat that corpse into life again ahahah (pluto sarcasm  ). Accepting its over, is hard, really really hard...
Also if he has Leo monn, be aware of hurting his ego! Seriously Leo ego is not a joke! Do not toy with his feelings, and never ever give criticism, even if its constructive and he asked for it! Especially if there is other people around, do not joke on his expence, ever! Trust me..
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girlwiththerainysoul
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posted September 12, 2018 01:14 PM
lol Melinn I had a good laugh reading your comment! especially the corpse part hahaha
I suppose the mixture of the 8th (pluto) and aries, makes you a phenomenal lover...it's rare to find a person who can be both loyal, interesting and passionate!...any person would have the time of his/her life being with you!
this guy is like a big ball of energy! very fiery!...I like that I am never bored with him...he's pretty intense too...moon in the 8th, and also moon square pluto...he has been getting too personal and too much in my business recently! I'm not sure how to handle this yet
for some reason I always avoided Aries men, always thought they were too loud, too direct, too much man!...I guess my feminine sun, mars, venus and moon were responsible for that...but the way he gets me, and how manly he is, makes me pretty weak! lol...he knows I have the crush, guess now he is just waiting for the final signal from me to grab me by the ass and take out his manly energy on me!...something tells me that Aries guys aren't the type to hold you or cuddle...well there is only one way to find that out for sure, but I am not ready for that with him yet!....I am not scared, I just don't wanna risk losing the fun and friendship and the support
And thanks for your advice on the Leo moon Melinn!
I'll try my best not to open my mouth where I shouldn't!...already he's bringing out so much Cancer energy in me, making me much softer and more submissive than usual!
years ago I had a stalker, also with a leo moon square pluto....sagittarius sun, scorpio mars and no idea about his AC...he stalked me for 7 years before I eventually moved to another city...he wasn't creepy, but too intense and even contacted my friends and family trying to get to me...he wouldn't take no for an answer and would beg me like a child...I was pretty immature then and would bombard him with cruel words and sentences trying to get him to hate me! but somehow he would want me more in his words!...eventually I started insulting his mother as my last tactic, and it worked for the most part and he finally left me alone...but still for a few years after that he would send messages on random occasions...I changed my number many times, still somehow he would find it!
maybe part of his none insult taking attitude was his aquarius venus? he actually had a t-square of moon opposite venus, and both squaring pluto....these guys are INTENSE!
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Aries23Degrees
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posted September 12, 2018 03:12 PM
I think his momentum is faster than yours. Its normal. Most Aries energy moves faster than most.Where is your Moon? It could just be that your two Moons are incompatible. IP: Logged |
girlwiththerainysoul
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posted September 12, 2018 04:30 PM
@Ariesyes my moon is incompatible with his, it's in pisces, but conjunct his mercury in Aries by 3 degrees it seems that apart from moon in capricorn, I only like moons that are incompatible with mine, like aries and leo and to some degree libra too but moon in aries and leo are definitely my weaknesses! IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees
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posted September 13, 2018 12:30 PM
Moon in Aries or Moon/Mars in tight aspect tend to approach their emotional lives (relationships) with more gusto and urgency( atleast at the beginning)What aspects does your Moon make? IP: Logged |
girlwiththerainysoul
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posted September 13, 2018 12:56 PM
I have moon trine mars, trine pluto and square venusHe has moon square pluto, square venus and trine uranus and saturn IP: Logged |
Kannon McAfee
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posted September 13, 2018 01:30 PM
Moving this to Interpersonal Astrology.------------------
"Drift like a cloud and flow like water, seeing that all life is a magnificent illusion, a playing of energy, and there is absolutely nothing fundamentally to be afraid of." -- Alan Watts Soul Stars Astrology by The Declinations Guy
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