posted September 18, 2018 07:15 AM            

My boyfriend and his bestfriend were just talking about it with me recently. Apparently, I am their "secret weapon", idk what for 🤷🏻‍♀️

But they say this because they seen how everyone they introduce me to really loves me. Both their moms love me, their sisters, grandma, his best friend's dad, etc. I have also noticed this with my sister's friends, my friends' siblings and family, my boss and his clients, my classmates from school (even after I flipped sh*t in public that one time). Whenever I would straight up bring up an issue that bothers me, I expect people to hold grudges (especially women), but they somehow don't. It's like everyone feels comfortable with me and I didn't even notice it until this was pointed out today. I have never actually had anyone come up to me and say they don't like me. The very few that actually don't like me, don't have the guts to say it right to my face. I only find out they don't like me when I hear from other people.

Of course, I am very cautious of this very seeming love from other people. I know there's people who are actually not genuine, so even if they say they like me to my face, I still have my guard up. You never know what people say behind your back. Not that I care, but still.

posted September 18, 2018 07:59 AM            

Its also about aura I think. If you don't appear "imposing" to others, people tend to gravitate to you.

Personally I automatically like Mars in Libra folks. I just don't know what happens with these folks. They just hit the right spots immediately and I feel at home.

It may be because I am Libra Mars myself. And people often respond very positively to me- even when I am feeling down and being a d***

Oddly, I don't have that much love for Libra Sun,Moon, Mercury,Ven or Asc there. Just Mars.

posted September 18, 2018 09:53 AM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Venus-Moon I think
Neptune strong also. Although this can also have people project the qualities they dislike about themselves on to you...

Its also about aura I think. If you don't appear "imposing" to others, people tend to gravitate to you.

Personally I automatically like Mars in Libra folks. I just don't know what happens with these folks. They just hit the right spots immediately and I feel at home.

It may be because I am Libra Mars myself. And people often respond very positively to me- even when I am feeling down and being a d***

Oddly, I don't have that much love for Libra Sun,Moon, Mercury,Ven or Asc there. Just Mars.

Y'all are straight up WOW for me

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I have Moon sextile Venus exact! Somehow it's working out like a trine instead of a sextile because I'm not even aware of it.

Do you think the fact that my Moon is in the 1st adds to this? I was just thinking since the 1st house does indicate people's impression of you.

I already know Libra mars can also make someone likeable.

I love Libra venus people. So charming and tactful even when their overall personality is different.

I did notice this one girl who had Moon opposite Venus in a t-square with her Mars. She literally had every girl hate her in school. She was a young hair instructor, only 7 years older than me. For some reason, she rubbed everyone off the wrong way. She did like me, however. Her Moon in Virgo was conjunct my Mercury and Venus, and my Mercury and Venus trine her Mercury in Capricorn. I do like her no-nonsense attitude towards things. We think alike. I don't necessarily not like her, but I think she could definitely improve on how she talks to other women--be a little more tactful.

posted September 18, 2018 10:44 AM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Venus-Moon I think
Neptune strong also. Although this can also have people project the qualities they dislike about themselves on to you...

Its also about aura I think. If you don't appear "imposing" to others, people tend to gravitate to you.

Personally I automatically like Mars in Libra folks. I just don't know what happens with these folks. They just hit the right spots immediately and I feel at home.

It may be because I am Libra Mars myself. And people often respond very positively to me- even when I am feeling down and being a d***

Oddly, I don't have that much love for Libra Sun,Moon, Mercury,Ven or Asc there. Just Mars.

Y'all are straight up WOW for me

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Someone will sure like me.
Mars in Libra.
Venus and Moon Conjunction(0 Deg 15' Orb) in 2nd House Gemini.
Venus and Moon both Opposite my Neptune(Conjunct 8th Cusp in Sag).

posted September 18, 2018 11:10 AM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Venus-Moon I think
Neptune strong also. Although this can also have people project the qualities they dislike about themselves on to you...

Its also about aura I think. If you don't appear "imposing" to others, people tend to gravitate to you.

Personally I automatically like Mars in Libra folks. I just don't know what happens with these folks. They just hit the right spots immediately and I feel at home.

It may be because I am Libra Mars myself. And people often respond very positively to me- even when I am feeling down and being a d***

Oddly, I don't have that much love for Libra Sun,Moon, Mercury,Ven or Asc there. Just Mars.

Y'all are straight up WOW for me

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Is it possible gay guys like Mars aspect Mars synastry more than venus aspect mars? My client started seeing someone and they have venus trine venus and mars trine mars and both are very tight and he is gay, and I know you have mars in libra and like other mars in libra, like I think anyone can enjoy mars aspect mars don't get me wrong but maybe gay guys enjoy it extra and gravitate more towards those aspects instead of venus aspect mars.

posted September 18, 2018 12:36 PM            

Interestingly most of the exes that mattered had Mars in Libra. ALL the ones that mattered.

posted September 18, 2018 02:15 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
It could be...hmmmm. Never thought of that.

Interestingly most of the exes that mattered had Mars in Libra. ALL the ones that mattered.

You could be on to something. I rarely noticed the Venus-Venus aspects ime.

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posted September 18, 2018 05:50 PM            

I knew one of my friends had to have sun or venus in libra just 5 min after I met him for the first time. That very soft and accomodating vibe they give or. Summer breeze.
Turned out he has venus libra-leo sun.

Also his way of showing such care to his friend who got a leg cramp, made me believe he have cancer rising. 1 year later, I got hi too look at his birth certificate, well, he has Moon in 1th house!, So there you go haha!
His 1th and 7th house are intercepted with 3 signs, its a mess . So his 1th house are: Aqua rising and pisces and aries.

He is super likeable. All kind of people, strangers etc always comes up to him for help. He is very manly and muscular, but there is a vulnuarbility he just can't hide. His face is so open and innocent looking, like a cherube, with manly feautures lol.

posted September 21, 2018 06:53 AM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
It would be interesting to research but then we have to compare hetero and gay and see if there is a higher percentage of mars aspect mars between the gay couples in comparison to hetero couples that is statistically significant.

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Interestingly, Ricky Martin and the hubby Jwan Yosef (I think they are married now) share a Moon in Pisces/Moon in Scorpio trine and Mars in Pisces/Mars in Scorpio trine respectively.

Neil Patrick Harris and the hubby David Burtka, have a wide out of sign conjunct of Mars/Mars in Pisces(Neil)& Aries(David)

Their Moons are in sextile signs Sag and Aqua(David). But not in aspect.

I think a nice trine/conjunct aspect of Mars/Mars is great for male gay relationships.

Contrary to popular belief, gay male relationships tend to emphasize masculinity a lot in the beginning stages.

That could explain why many gay male men are attracted to muscles i.e. shirtless pics of guys on grindr,good looks, perfect physique,guys who play sports and at worst even hyper masculinity itself?

I know that there are many women who are attracted to that too. But I feel that women tend to emphasize this as one of MANY desirable qualities.

Gay men however, tend to see physical beauty as the overarching quality and will forgive even a dense personality for that (just like many hetero men would)

Whilst women tend to prize emotional rapport /ability to be a provider etc. more? I could be wrong.

posted September 21, 2018 07:22 AM            

Conversely!

I can speak from experience that Pluto can either make people UNCONTROLLABLY OBSESSED with you, or make people REALLY DISLIKE you. If someone dislikes you and you've got strong Pluto, usually means the other person hasn't dived deep and discovered their own inner darkness. You have to accept yourself, who you are, good and bad, to be able to have a harmonious interaction with a Plutonic (or Scorpionic) person. They other sees in Pluto what they have not acknowledged or accepted within themselves, or the universe.

posted September 21, 2018 02:29 PM            

Other things I've noticed is of course Libra placements, as libra is ruled by venus and is all about harmony, peace, balance and wanting to please others. It's quiet the opposite of Aries, who is more aggressive and not afraid of fighting.

I would also like to add Pisces/Neptune energy as a buffer. This is also one of the more peaceful signs, and they are not aggressive in particular, but instead can be very kind, humble and give off this agreeable approach towards others. On the other hand they can be very moody and shy, but this is not necessarily making them unpopular either.

posted September 21, 2018 03:51 PM            

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[B]I've found that Venus Conjunct Uranus individuals give off a likable, attractive vibe that makes people want to know them.

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I can second that! The guy I was talking about has Venus libra sextile sagg uranus. He attracts ALL KINDS of different type of people.

He is a swede, they tend to keep together and feel safer with their own kind of people. But this guy, he hangs out with all types of people with different cultural backgrounds, ethnicities, and religions. He sends of a vibe that makes people feel safe and Accepted.

He is very curious. He has a fixed mercury n sun though so its not like he changes his mind that often. But he is very accepting and tolerant.