posted September 19, 2018 05:22 AM            

He would watch dating reality shows and scream at the woman for picking the wrong man! Lol! He would justify himself by watching these shows and calling himself a romantic.

As well as having no qualms looking lovingly into your eyes while whispering sweet nothings to you.

So if aquas are meant to be no so emotional what else would you expect to see in their charts to make them emotional?

posted September 19, 2018 06:38 AM            

But am curious of his chart. There could be a Neptune aspect to Moon or Venus that softens up Saturn/Uranus more cerebral airy energy.

Perhaps even Venus on the angle- specifically ruling the 7th or in the 7th. But likely in air or fire because a love of such shows and "looking into eyes and whispering sweet nothings" is so brazen. Not earth or water style at all.

Venus in 5th screams "dating(Venus) shows (5th)" to me like "The bachelor in Paradise" "The bachelorette" or "Who wants to marry a millionaire?" Etc.

These shows are not really about love really. But viewership and ratings. As when the cameras are off these "meant to be" couples. The chemistry between them starts to get off too.

posted September 19, 2018 07:06 AM            

Aires, Imma 'bout to blow you(r mind)!!

I have Moon conjunct his Neptune exact with this person!!

I also have my Venus conjunct his Descendant with him!!

And... he has his Venus Aries in his 5H!!

Maybe this is why I might see him more emotional than most?

posted September 19, 2018 08:49 AM            

This was so unexpected **pulls out speech**

***I would first off like to thank accident prone Uranus for sitting on my mother's Sun that year.

To my fellow knowflakes: if you can see the aspect. Call it out! This can happen to you too.

And lastly to my Sag energy. You to me, are like the Sun I will always have.

posted September 19, 2018 10:09 AM            

Aires that was almost as good as Leonardo Di Caprios when be finally won his Oscar!!

posted September 19, 2018 10:34 AM            

I have a lot of friends with Moon in Aquarius, their tendency to analyse rather than *feel* is often the issue. This can be mitigated. For instance Moon in the 4th may understand feelings better from early exposure. Somebody with Moon aspecting Pluto is always going to experience more complexity emotionally.
Of the above mentioned friends I have one I can think of is an emotional Moon in Aquarius, he still analyses but as a long-term professional healer he is very in touch with feelings.

There are no rules, rather approaches which can be mitigated by different charts and personal experiences. The key is to understanding ~why~ a planet behaves in a certain way in a sign, and then the other possibilities become more obvious ;-)

Moon conjunct Neptune is lovely in synastry by the way :-). I'm a big fan!!! ;-)

(By the way shouting at the TV is melodramatic rather than emotional in my books ;-) )

posted September 19, 2018 11:06 AM            

60 is the first stage of old age.. I think around 80 is the second stage of old age..

posted September 19, 2018 12:01 PM            

Well lobsters are beautiful, so that can't be too bad haha! I'm quite envious I must say ;-)

Ah I see well I suppose I can see how 60 must be a bit of a landmark. I'm glad you weren't referring to 30 or something at least ;-)

Neptune Moon is amazing, although I guess Neptune isn't all that aspected in my chart so it adds a lovely dimension. I imagine for strong Neptunians it could be a little disarming but I find it adds magic, romance and transcendence <3

posted September 19, 2018 12:18 PM            

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I'm in Thailand atm on an island and am looking very much like a redlobster right now!!

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Can we swop? I am at home on some couch about to eat a meal that I prepared (booooring!!!)

Anyways back to your question. I don't know if Moon-Neptune connection would have you see them as " emotional".

I have Neptune sitting on my Dads Moon. I don't see him as sensitive at all. But I do find it difficult to define what kind of person he is.

In the extreme sense, it could be that the Neptune person could idolize or idealise the Moon person?

posted September 19, 2018 12:47 PM            

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Originally posted by TaurusVenusGirl:
I know a moon in aqua male. I find him to be emotional. Mental too, but definitely emotional.

He would watch dating reality shows and scream at the woman for picking the wrong man! Lol! He would justify himself by watching these shows and calling himself a romantic.

As well as having no qualms looking lovingly into your eyes while whispering sweet nothings to you.

So if aquas are meant to be no so emotional what else would you expect to see in their charts to make them emotional?

He is older, about to hit the first stage of old age in 5 years, would this has anything to do with it too?

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posted September 19, 2018 12:55 PM            

But the aspects their moon is making is critical too. Like moon in aquarius conjunct both venus and neptune would be hypersensitive, I had a client with this and it was the aspects to the moon that explained his very very sensitive nature. Add the erratic nature of aquarius on the moon as this can lead to moon swings along with the moon conjunct venus and neptune. He as not the typical sun in capricorn with moon in aquarius which would typically generate someone detached, aloof with thick skin.

posted September 19, 2018 02:55 PM            

A person can have Moon in Aquarius, but if it is conjunct or parallel Mars, Sun, or Jupiter for example, they could be quite fiery and expressive.

Signs alone do not define people, even astrologically.

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posted September 19, 2018 04:49 PM            

He has moon opposite mars and neptune opposite sun.

His moon is in the 2H. I do believe he values money above most things.

posted September 19, 2018 04:54 PM            

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Somebody with Moon aspecting Pluto is always going to experience more complexity emotionally.

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posted September 19, 2018 05:23 PM            

No, having aqua moon does not make someone less emotional, less senstive or less anything. How they process their feelings may differ from how a cancer moon process feelings. Also aspects are more important yes.

posted September 19, 2018 08:33 PM            

But just checked it!!

He has a Leo moon in the 4H!!

posted September 19, 2018 09:35 PM            

Aspects from Pluto to the Moon strengthens emotional depth. Neptune can make someone more in tune with their emotions too.

I have Moon in Gemini, but I'm not the average Moon in Gemini. Actually, sometimes it can be really exhausting to not have those natural Moon in Gemini qualities at least somewhere in my personality. My Moon is in 8th house and is aspected by Pluto.

Admittedly, Moon in Aquarius generally makes me nervous based on the stereotypical descriptions of it and the experiences other people have had with them. When I noticed my Moon was contra-parallel to Uranus, it was at that point I felt like I was judging Moon in Aquarius too harshly. That contra-parallel does explain why I relate to the Aquarian kind of detachment though.

posted September 19, 2018 10:03 PM            

Aspects are:

- trine Mars (passionate, socially involved)

- quincunx Mercury (better balance needed between feeling and logical mind)

- semi-sextile Pluto (a touch too intensely emotional at times to allow ease of expression)

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"Drift like a cloud and flow like water, seeing that all life is a magnificent illusion, a playing of energy, and there is absolutely nothing fundamentally to be afraid of." -- Alan Watts

posted September 20, 2018 03:12 AM            

BUT another interesting tidbit is that he LOVES reality shows and will scream at the telly. He really tries to keep up the act that he's cold, logical and distant, but then, has all these secret habits and hobbies he doesn't tell anyone about xD

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I totally agree with Kannon here and I have repeated this many times when aqua moons comes up. The "deatchemnt" keywoord is really hurting our perception about aqua moons, really. Its a myth at best. I believe its the lack of better descriptive words, and the english language being so limited imo.

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Even I don't know what to think about it. The thing is, I ascribe to the detachment thing, because with moon in 11th, that's often how I come across. Not always, but often. And I don't like it when people project emotions on me that I don't feel. But I do feel many things, just in different ways, and different times. Sometimes I feel my detachment become so intense, it's like a strange out of body experience! lool! As a woman, when I am speaking to someone, they can become unnerved by how seemingly "devoid" of emotional responses I am, to the point they wonder if I even understand a word they're saying. (sadly, if I see the same with dudes, it's more acceptable. They think woman = warm nurturing emotional validation. Sure, I'm nurturing in the sense of REALITY checks and hard truths, delivered in mildly diplomatic ways)People'll come to me if they want a logical assessment of some situation, but for emotional validation, they steer clear lol! Thing is, I "DO" understand the feels they give off, I just don't identify with the feelings or emotions, so, what other way could describe this, other than detachment? I mean even if I say "emotionally disengaged" that doesn't sound any better LOL!

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What on earth is, "the first stage of old age"???

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LOL LOOOL LMAO

What on earth indeed xD

My first indication was not long ago. Some teenagers were visiting with friends, and I asked one "do you like Enya?" And he said "What's that?" And then I told him about her. And he was like
"Oh no that's too old."

posted September 20, 2018 09:44 AM            

1. has only had 1 relationship that was serious enough to be committed and last a year. (Has only ever been in love with projections)

2. has had two long term relationships but a long time ago. He has been single for more than a decade and has started to fall in love deeply in the last 3 years.

3. has been in love once, he has had some girlfriends since. He has been 90% alone in the 20 years I've known him.

4. He's had a few long-term relationships, keeps his life separate. Has never really been in love, or seen it as important. He prefers his own company overall and nobody is invited to his home.

These 4 men are all in their 50s and they're all lovely human beings who prefer to have their own space.

posted September 20, 2018 10:16 AM            

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2. has had two long term relationships but a long time ago. He has been single for more than a decade and has started to fall in love deeply in the last 3 years.

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I'm wondering, Waxlobster, if you don't mind, could I see his chart?

posted September 20, 2018 10:27 AM            

In fact ime most air moons in general are very emotional but very ****** at dealing with their emotions. I know a 12th house Libra Moon that had serious issues with drug and alcohol abuse, due to wanting to numb their emotions because they couldn't handle them. I know another first house Libra Moon that constantly self-identifies as being extremely numb to their own feelings despite being a Cancer Sun. On top of that I know an 8th house Gemini Moon that is extremely inconsiderate of other's feelings and expects people to take personal responsibility of his own mess (constantly gets drunk, even got hammered at my mother's funeral reception).

posted September 20, 2018 01:06 PM            

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Originally posted by Electro DGX:

Air Moons ime, unless evolved or having some potent aspect helping them deal with their emotions, are usually emotionally immature and unable to handle them. It's different from an emotionally immature fire/water moon where they'll lash out irrationally without considering the needs of others. With air moons it tends to be a need to run away from emotional confrontations and to see emotions as restrictive.

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That's pretty true about some of the ones that I have met. Either that, or they're into substances that "push" the negative emotions away so they can be free to "feel good" all the time.
The irony here is that pushing our real feelings away is the restriction :P