posted September 25, 2018 07:09 AM            

What do you think is an aspect for this?

I have Moon and Saturn conjunct, in Sagittarius

posted September 26, 2018 12:46 PM            

I think his tendency to be passive aggressive comes from:
-Pisces in 3rd house
-Moon in Capricorn square Mars in Libra
-Moon conjunct Neptune
-Sun and Mercury in Virgo. I'm not sure if these placements point to being passive aggressive, but these placements make him being passive aggressive worse. He notices small details and then he's critical of anything that's not exact, which means he's passive aggressive over small details and I end up frustrated about it.

My boyfriend doesn't like conflict. However, I need clear, direct, straightforward communication and he hates hearing this, because apparently being vague is "how he talks." Then, he complains when he isn't being clear enough for me to understand what he's saying. He flips out if he's to blame for any issues in the relationship. I'm always the villain. If I try to bring up how I feel when he does or says X or Y, he'll say in the most passive aggressive sentence, "So, now, it's MY fault?" Actually, yes, yes it actually is at times.

posted September 26, 2018 03:51 PM            

But it drives me nuts. I think they don't express what they're really thinking because the truth is that they're manipulative or controlling, so saying it aloud makes it sound bad!

Anyway my Mercury is in Sag, conjunct my Sun 0˚, out of bounds, so my communication knows no bounds. It's a gift Oh and my Aries moon takes no prisoners either.

posted September 26, 2018 04:47 PM            

Leo and most fire signs are LEAST passive aggressive.

posted September 26, 2018 04:52 PM            

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Originally posted by Nine:
Scorpios. And insecure people who like Being chased.

It is something I've noticed in Scorpio prominent people; saying no when they mean yes, leaving when they want to stay. Then telling you, if you cared you would've tried to change their mind.

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posted September 27, 2018 01:38 AM            

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Originally posted by Selenite:
Anyway my Mercury is in Sag, conjunct my Sun 0˚, out of bounds, so my communication knows no bounds. It's a gift Oh and my Aries moon takes no prisoners either.

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LOL, I am mainly a mixture of fire(sag) and air(lib), so I understand social niceties etc, but there are times when its pure passive-aggressive, insecurities and expecting you to read their mind. And I think that's my sag (conj. Saturn) moon flares up.

posted September 27, 2018 01:40 AM            

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Originally posted by Nine:
Scorpios. And insecure people who like Being chased.

It is something I've noticed in Scorpio prominent people; saying no when they mean yes, leaving when they want to stay. Then telling you, if you cared you would've tried to change their mind.

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Yeah generally I find scorpions (and some water signs) are so hard to get along with. I think I have too much hot air for their depths. Also alot of my midpoints are in Scorpio, just get on my nerves.

posted September 28, 2018 04:00 PM            

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"Drift like a cloud and flow like water, seeing that all life is a magnificent illusion, a playing of energy, and there is absolutely nothing fundamentally to be afraid of." -- Alan Watts

posted September 28, 2018 11:17 PM            

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Originally posted by SunAscendant:
Your Sag Moon conjunct Sag Saturn shows that your emotions (Moon) don't usually get the best of you because you're in control (Saturn) of them. You'd think a Sag moon would be jovial and super fun, but with Saturn conjunct your Moon we see that this aspect shows that your fun side is downplayed just a little bit. You know that work comes before play, but you also know how to let your hair down and have fun when the time calls for it and all your necessary and important work is done.You are probably a person who comes off as extremely stoic and serious to strangers. With your Mercury in peace-loving Libra one might assume you are very well into passive aggressive speech because Libra likes to keep the peace and will do anything to avoid an argument; however, your Mercury is at the anaretic 29th degree which could indicate that you feel compelled to speak your mind and expect other people to ALSO do so because you have a feeling that there's a sense of urgency related to all things Mercurial with communication being probably the most urgent. In other words, your communication/speech is likely to be hasty and you're not likely to mince words because you have a feeling that since your Mercury is at the final degree you don't have any time to waste communicating your truth nor do you want to waste your time listening to people who are clearly lying to you and/or liable to beat around the bush in an ill-conceived attempt to possibly spare your feelings.

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Yes I feel like I do give off the wrong impression...ALOT. My self vs emotional self vs communication self all contradict lol
I am Libra Sun and Gemini Asc. My mercury also opposite Jupiter.

I guess what I really don't like about passive-aggressiveness because the communication style says that you are inadequate or lessor in someways, and should change your behaviour through emotional hostage eg guilt trip.

posted September 28, 2018 11:18 PM            

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Originally posted by Kannon McAfee:
I see this more as a healthy perspective, not necessarily anything astrological, but to me Moon-Saturn in Sag does say something about 'no bs'.

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yeah definitely no bs

posted September 28, 2018 11:19 PM            

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Originally posted by capricorncheriscty:
(but alas I am a Gem ASC lol)

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I am also a Gemini asc. Could it be that we understand the full emotional and psychological impact of this style of communication that we just hate it?

posted September 30, 2018 11:09 AM            

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Originally posted by Lerena:
My boyfriend is passive aggressive sometimes. Instead of just telling me directly, he's vague and unclear about things. If he has a problem with me, instead of being upfront about it, he'll bottle it up until he explodes during a storm of passive aggressive commentary.

[b]I think his tendency to be passive aggressive comes from:
-Pisces in 3rd house
-Moon in Capricorn square Mars in Libra
-Moon conjunct Neptune
-Sun and Mercury in Virgo. I'm not sure if these placements point to being passive aggressive, but these placements make him being passive aggressive worse. He notices small details and then he's critical of anything that's not exact, which means he's passive aggressive over small details and I end up frustrated about it.

My boyfriend doesn't like conflict. However, I need clear, direct, straightforward communication and he hates hearing this, because apparently being vague is "how he talks." Then, he complains when he isn't being clear enough for me to understand what he's saying. He flips out if he's to blame for any issues in the relationship. I'm always the villain. If I try to bring up how I feel when he does or says X or Y, he'll say in the most passive aggressive sentence, "So, now, it's MY fault?" Actually, yes, yes it actually is at times.

My boyfriend acts like I should always know what he's talking about. The messed up part is sometimes I actually do. I don't have the ability to read minds though. I told him I don't have this ability at one point and he blew the situation out of proportion like I was saying it to be rude.[/B]

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You describe everything about my husband too.

- Moon in Capricorn, opposite Cancer Mars
- Moon conjunct Neptune
- Mercury in Cancer

He is also emotionally and verbally abusive, temperament, and highly moody. Now all of my family strongly encourage me to leave him. They say, I should love myself.