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Topic: How do I win back a Gemini Venus/Cancer Mars (both planets are at 29 degrees)
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SunAscendant
Knowflake Posts: 2312
From: California
Registered: Oct 2014
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posted September 25, 2018 08:38 PM
  
This guy I really want to win back has his Gemini Venus at 29 Gemini and his Cancer Mars at 29 Cancer. Oddly enough I have my Venus at 19 Aries and Mars at 19 Pisces, so my Venus and Mars are semisextile just like him. I think that's just one of the reasons why we worked out so well (his sun is also exactly conjunct my Ascendant and his Juno is conjunct my Sun-Moon midpoint). How do I win him back though? He's got a Libra Moon and Cancer sun.IP: Logged |
madelineleo23
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posted September 25, 2018 08:44 PM
Well, I just got out of a relationship with a Taurus sun, Gemini Venus, Cancer Mars. I wish I knew where to start. We were on/off for a couple of months. He came back after being apart for three months but only after we ran into each other. He wanted space and his Cancer Mars made him sensitive and moody. His Gemini Venus was shown in his attraction to people who had talent or a passion for something. I wish I had a solid answer but I really don't know how to decipher them either. All in all, I can conclude that they want someone who will be there when they need them. But when they don't want to be bothered it's best to give them the space. The more you demand attention from Gemini Venus the more they pull back. IP: Logged |
SunAscendant
Knowflake Posts: 2312
From: California
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posted September 25, 2018 09:52 PM
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Originally posted by madelineleo23:
Well, I just got out of a relationship with a Taurus sun, Gemini Venus, Cancer Mars. I wish I knew where to start. We were on/off for a couple of months. He came back after being apart for three months but only after we ran into each other. He wanted space and his Cancer Mars made him sensitive and moody. His Gemini Venus was shown in his attraction to people who had talent or a passion for something. I wish I had a solid answer but I really don't know how to decipher them either. All in all, I can conclude that they want someone who will be there when they need them. But when they don't want to be bothered it's best to give them the space. The more you demand attention from Gemini Venus the more they pull back.
I am a hand embroiderer and I sew clothes by hand. Gemini rules hands and he did seem to find it cool that I'm good at embroidery and sewing with my hands... He seemed to like that I had a passion for that. But since his Venus is at 29 Gemini almost in Cancer and his Mars is at 29 Cancer almost in Leo I'm wondering if maybe there's a taste of those signs as well...
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SunAscendant
Knowflake Posts: 2312
From: California
Registered: Oct 2014
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posted September 25, 2018 09:53 PM
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Originally posted by madelineleo23:
Well, I just got out of a relationship with a Taurus sun, Gemini Venus, Cancer Mars. I wish I knew where to start. We were on/off for a couple of months. He came back after being apart for three months but only after we ran into each other. He wanted space and his Cancer Mars made him sensitive and moody. His Gemini Venus was shown in his attraction to people who had talent or a passion for something. I wish I had a solid answer but I really don't know how to decipher them either. All in all, I can conclude that they want someone who will be there when they need them. But when they don't want to be bothered it's best to give them the space. The more you demand attention from Gemini Venus the more they pull back.
He always mentioned that I was a kind and intuitive person and loved that I cooked for him and did homely things for him. I'm a Cancer rising so doing matronly stuff is in my blood lol.
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Aries23Degrees
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From: South Africa
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posted September 26, 2018 04:59 AM
When Cancer and Gem are mixed in the chart, talk about feelings. Talk from a heart to heart point of view. Talk your heart open.Its important that they hear beautiful ,expressive words being said. And with Venus/Moon in air, words can move him. IP: Logged |
SunAscendant
Knowflake Posts: 2312
From: California
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posted September 28, 2018 03:56 PM
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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
When Cancer and Gem are mixed in the chart, talk about feelings. Talk from a heart to heart point of view. Talk your heart open.Its important that they hear beautiful ,expressive words being said. And with Venus/Moon in air, words can move him.
I was especially talkative with him even though I only have one planet (Saturn) in air and thus am not much of a talker to begin with. I feel like if I incessantly text him he'd get annoyed even though my brain is telling me that his airy Moon and Venus wouldn't mind the texts even though they'd be of a "please let's try again" variety instead of something pleasant... With his 12 degree Cancer sun exactly down to the minute conjunct my Ascendant (his Mercury is also conjunct his Sun and thus also conjunct my AC) we both found ourselves naturally expressing our deepest emotions and truths about ourselves that nobody else seems to understand. My Pisces Mars also intuitively picks up on emotions and feelings of others and I picked up how he felt and would try to console him if I knew he felt down but wasn't saying it to me directly. I do wonder if perhaps he hated how transparent he was to me. I could see right through him meaning I could tell how he was feeling without him saying a word. I am like that with most people, but even more so with him because of our aforementioned synastry contacts. Since Libra is the natural 7th house sign and I have a 7th house Moon (albeit in detriment in Capricorn) you would think I'd fare better with his Libra Moon since me having a 7th house Moon is sort of similar to a Libra Moon in an indirect way. I feel like he would be the type to be easily swayed back into a relationship just because he didn't want to fight anymore, but I don't want to do that, I want him to reconcile with me because he really wants to and not because his Libra moon hates fighting so it'll reconcile just to stop any enmity between us. IP: Logged |
Kannon McAfee
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From: Portland, OR - USA
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posted September 28, 2018 04:01 PM
This belongs in Interpersonal Astrology. Moving it there.------------------
"Drift like a cloud and flow like water, seeing that all life is a magnificent illusion, a playing of energy, and there is absolutely nothing fundamentally to be afraid of." -- Alan Watts Soul Stars Astrology by The Declinations Guy
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