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Topic: What does a Sagittarius Man want in love?
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Bubbles0o
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posted October 05, 2018 04:06 PM
  
I'm dating a Sag with a Scorpio Venus. I'm a Pisces and I hear we can have a challenging relationship, but he is super amazing. I've had some rocky relationships this year and he was there for me waiting for his queue I guess haha. So far he's a relatively simple man dedicated to his work. He's very caring, doesn't like people to nag or to waste his energy on negativity. Even when he's busy he texts me. I don't want to smother him.
I'd appreciate if you'd share your relationship experiences, so I know what to expect from this guy. Good or bad.
If you are a Sag man yourself, great you're an enigma to me! Any enlightenment on ideal relationships or women etc would be most appreciated! Thanks all! IP: Logged |
Lalafortunaea
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posted October 05, 2018 04:40 PM
You're a Pisces, so, naturally you will feel a wider array of deeper emotions, and allow them each to pass through you indiscriminately. The challenge here is if he can take it or not. He's got Venus Scorpio, so methinks that can help him and really ensures your compatibility. Scorpio and Pisces love each other naturally. Scorpio makes Pisces feel safe, and in turn, Pisces gives Scorpio the deep love it craves.
Sagittarius's positivity can uplift Pisces, but, Sagi can also deny and refuse to feel other things. The challenge to see where the heart of a Sagittarius lies is when hardship comes, and how you two face it together, and if he has the strength to weather the storm. We all feel love and hate, happiness and sadness. It depends if he only prefers the good stuff from you, and from the relationship, or if he's okay with you sharing "negativity", as in, your sadness, fear, anger and so on, which is part of the duality of life. As for what they want, they often want fun, adventure, a good time with their partner. Have you two already experienced much hardship and worked through life's challenges together? IP: Logged |
Bubbles0o
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posted October 05, 2018 10:10 PM
Really great reply, thank you. So much clarity and understanding!We haven't had any real hardships because our relationship is new. With that being said, he told me he can't stand nagging and insecure women. I kind of tested him to see if he is a playboy at one point. I wasn't nagging, just gently brought the subject up after we had already buried it. He responded to my questions to make me feel more comfortable. He even replied during work at a busy time of the month. I could tell he was a bit frustrated but was being very considerate. We also ended each conversation on a positive note with loving sentiments for one another, changing the subject or just saying good night lovingly. Very perceptive, when I brought the subject up again two more times he asked me each time what provoked this response in me. Every time we talked about the subject we buried it and decided to trust each other. I'm sure every girl has trust issues, but this year has really made me weary. My best friend is also going through cheating issues with her boyfriend. So he knew that other people were affecting me somehow because we decided to trust each other but I kept bringing the issue back up with different questions. I was actually kind of relieved that he realized I'm sort of an emotional sponge when it comes to other people and if I'm negative at all it's usually because someone else's mood or issue is affecting my own. At times I allow my emotions to consume me, feeling lost, I sometimes take it out on others (being depressed/sad/or snippy) instead of finding an outlet. So he dealt with my issue making me feel comfortable, asked why I thought it happened, and told me I shouldn't allow others to affect me. (once I even said no one else was affecting me but a close friend was...he just kind of knew). That's the hardest issue we've dealt with so far. He seems very open with me and very loving albeit busy. But he will reply when it's convenient is always loving. And when I joke he seems to genuinely enjoy it. He may have a cancer moon hard to say. Mine is Pisces. But I heard we have an issue with Pluto possibly. We both likely have Capricorn and Taurus North Node, but I'm not sure what all this means. Any additional information and clarity would be much appreciated! Again, thanks so much for enlightening me! Birth Info:
Me: March 14, 1991 Eau Claire, WI USA 12:26PM Him: December 2, 1985 Taipei, Taiwan (Unknown time possibly 6AM) IP: Logged |
Astra
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posted October 06, 2018 06:49 PM
If you want this relationship to last, then it is important that you learn to find a healthy outlet to channel the negative energy you are absorbing from others. It's ok to confide in him about things that are stressing you out in general. A Sag who is not a player will weather the storm with you. He will take care of you when you are sick, console you when you have a tough day at work, lose a loved one, get into an argument with a close friend, etc. However, a problem will arise when you repeatedly question his integrity when he hasn't done anything questionable. If your gut feeling tells you to not trust him, then listen to you gut feeling and dump him now. If there is no trust, then there is no relationship. His venus in scorpio, fortunately, makes him empathetic (venus in scorpio is notoriously insecure) so he will be more patient with you compared to other Sags. However, he still has his limit. Don't push this limit unless you want to be dumped. Take the time now to learn that he is not the same person as your friend's cheating boyfriend. Each person needs to be judged by their individual character, not by the actions of others. Do not make him pay for the mistakes and bad decisions of other men. That's not fair to him or your relationship. If he disrespects you, then call him out on it immediately. However, if he has been treating you with love and respect, then respond in kind.
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Randall
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posted October 10, 2018 02:50 PM
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Vinnu
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posted October 10, 2018 08:35 PM
I may end up stirring the pot a bit but I think certain things about Sag men, based on personal experiences, should be mentioned.1) Sag men are known as players for a good reason. Luckily, for you, he has a Scorpio Venus, which should make him more committed to you than a Sag without this Venus. 2) Sags ALWAYS think they're right, even when they're wrong. So, when an argument arises (and it inevitably will, just like in any other relationship) bear this in mind. 3) When Sags get really angry or annoyed, they tend to cut the offending person off. It doesn't matter if their reaction was unwarranted or if the fall-out was their fault, they usually prefer to cut ties instead of engaging in any form of reconciliation. Anyway, these are just a few 'survival tips' to take on board. Good luck! IP: Logged |
polkadotstars
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posted October 10, 2018 08:53 PM
What’s your moon and what’s his moon?
How does your chart interact with his? I am a Pisces sun, moon, mercury who dated a Sag sun for 4 years. He was an Aries moon squaring Neptune. His Venus was Capricorn. We were good together, had good times. But he annoyed the crap out of me. He would do and say things deliberately to get on peoples nerves so that he could get a laugh out of it. He would do and say certain things to me literally hundreds of times even though I would ask him sometimes crying to stop doing them. This is obviously an extreme case, but I think Sags do things in their best interest. Unless they have water in their chart they might not be sensitive to others emotions. We would get in major fights because of things like that. He would push my buttons deliberately and then after I’d either be super ****** bc it was the 200th time he did it or breaking down crying because I had had enough he would poke me in the arm and tell me to calm down that I was being too sensitive. I did like how jovial he was though, he laughed a lot and was a pretty optimistic person. My Leo rising appreciates this. But his cap Venus was very structured and routined. Not very romantic. IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted October 15, 2018 08:41 AM
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Dumuzi
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posted October 15, 2018 09:21 AM
i've been with a sag woman who has a scorpio venus (conjunct pluto, trine mars in pisces,and sextile neptune in cap with mercury in scorpio too) for about 14 years (anniversary is halloween)i have no idea what she wants half the time and neither does she, we've broken up for a at least an hour about once a week for the entire span of our relationship (that could be the shared aries moons though) that being said she's capable of a longterm relationship which is something people dont often say about sag suns (though sun sign doesnt matter all that much with this kind of thing anyway) a synastry chart with a composite would be better for this sort of thing rather than just knowing 2 details that can be offset by so many factors
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Dumuzi
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posted October 15, 2018 09:24 AM
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Originally posted by Vinnu:
I may end up stirring the pot a bit but I think certain things about Sag men, based on personal experiences, should be mentioned.1) Sag men are known as players for a good reason. Luckily, for you, he has a Scorpio Venus, which should make him more committed to you than a Sag without this Venus. 2) Sags ALWAYS think they're right, even when they're wrong. So, when an argument arises (and it inevitably will, just like in any other relationship) bear this in mind. 3) When Sags get really angry or annoyed, they tend to cut the offending person off. It doesn't matter if their reaction was unwarranted or if the fall-out was their fault, they usually prefer to cut ties instead of engaging in any form of reconciliation. Anyway, these are just a few 'survival tips' to take on board. Good luck!
i just have to second the "they always think theyre right" thing at least in the moment when you inevitably fight just know it doesnt matter what you say or how right you actually are
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Originally posted by polkadotstars:
What’s your moon and what’s his moon?
How does your chart interact with his? I am a Pisces sun, moon, mercury who dated a Sag sun for 4 years. He was an Aries moon squaring Neptune. His Venus was Capricorn. We were good together, had good times. But he annoyed the crap out of me. He would do and say things deliberately to get on peoples nerves so that he could get a laugh out of it. He would do and say certain things to me literally hundreds of times even though I would ask him sometimes crying to stop doing them. This is obviously an extreme case, but I think Sags do things in their best interest. Unless they have water in their chart they might not be sensitive to others emotions. We would get in major fights because of things like that. He would push my buttons deliberately and then after I’d either be super ****** bc it was the 200th time he did it or breaking down crying because I had had enough he would poke me in the arm and tell me to calm down that I was being too sensitive. I did like how jovial he was though, he laughed a lot and was a pretty optimistic person. My Leo rising appreciates this. But his cap Venus was very structured and routined. Not very romantic.
same experience with the being deliberately annoying and pushing buttons stuff etc
even with her heavy water influences she's like that (her emotions are a lot more self centered in spite of all the water so theyre deep but not necessarily loaded in empathy) my sag brother is also like this but he doesnt have the water influence so he can actually be easier to deal with IP: Logged | |
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