posted October 13, 2018 09:39 AM            

I, as a Venus Aries would be totally fine in having just that ceremony as our wedding. However my husband, Venus Taurus wants a big wedding and he wants to see me walk down the aisle in a beautiful dress.

posted October 13, 2018 10:02 AM            

I would prefer a small intimate wedding to a big one. And I do hope my future SO agrees. Should we decide to tie the knot.

A family member has your Venus in Aries. But it conjuncts Jupiter. And one would expect her to want a HUGE wedding. But this is not so.

posted October 13, 2018 11:08 AM            

My partner and I both have venus in leo, venus in leo rules his chart and squares uranus/mars/dc, my venus centiles my uranus. We wanted to just exchange vows on top of a mountain just the two of us, in Colorado if you call each other husband and wife in front of others that is sufficient for you two to be considered married, no need to have a ceremony or witnesses. We both have Juno in an earth sign so maybe that would explain more our desire for something simple and in nature. Uranus would explain why we did not want to involve religion or get a marriage contract.

My parents both have venus in aquarius and are religious and latin, they wanted us to have a wedding so we did to make my mom happy, I am glad we did though, she did a great job planning the wedding; it was like a family reunion for us, saw people we had not seeing in a very long time, about 80 people. But we still did not get a marriage contract and we did not involve a priest. We just exchanged vows that had a more Buddhist theme in them. We also married in the Caribbean abroad were I was born, not in the states.

posted October 13, 2018 06:22 PM            

My boyfriend has been talking a lot about getting married and stuff. We were thinking of getting married in court and then putting all our savings towards a house instead. It's very practical and I like the thought of us having a house right away after marriage.

However, I also want to wear a dress and be beautiful for my wedding day. I don't need a super extravagant wedding. Just maybe a small to one with about 70 people or less, consisting of our closest friends and family. But I do want to feel special on a day like this. I want decorations with beautiful flowers, good food and wine, and to celebrate it with everyone we like. It's only a one time thing and I barely ask for anything. I have not explained this to him yet since right now, that's way out of our budget. He has Moon in Capricorn conjunct Jupiter and Venus in Gemini. I feel like all the Cap in his chart can make him quite cheap. But when he does give, it's usually something of good quality.

posted October 14, 2018 10:17 AM            

I tell my bf. It doesn’t have to be a big diamond it just has to be real. (Okay if it was a diamond chip I would be offended) I would honestly be happy with a small diamond. No need to go in debt and front like we have a celebrity salary.

I occasionally do research on ethically sourced diamonds. Buying recycled diamonds, using my gold scraps for the ring. I’ve looked online at some ethically sourced diamonds.

I neeed to get my finger measured.

All(okay a handful)the millennial guys want to stick it the man, and not buy diamonds...since this one big name is hoarding them. I get that...something should be done about that.

But I always thought diamond because it’s my birthstone and the highest number on the mohs scale.

I’ve considered being open minded to other stones but I have no idea.

I’ve observed couples that stayed together for ever don’t always have diamonds, one amazing power couple has sapphire.

Some people will get a diamond from the pawn shop, but I’m kind of iffy on the energy of owning a ring from a marriage that most likely ended in divorce. But then I could have the perspective of giving the diamond a new happy healing home.

My Venus Virgo bf is a typical millennial and thinks diamonds are a scam, and that weddings are overrated. And eloping somewhere tropical is better.

So many people say to do it this way.
And with my Zilla tendencies I’m not saying I disagree.

I feel like I would regret not having a ceremony though.
With that I would have to keep in mind that even keeping things simple can add up.