posted October 13, 2018 06:13 PM            

I've read that self-confidence, self-doubts, and self-esteem issues could come more into the forefront of your life at times.

posted October 13, 2018 06:19 PM            

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Originally posted by mirage29:
Needing to Love and be secure in yourself.

I've read that self-confidence, self-doubts, and self-esteem issues could come more into the forefront of your life at times.

Believe in yourself. You have Value. {{ }}

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Yes this is very true...I have it Conjunct almost exact in the 12th house but Conjunct my ascendant.

posted October 18, 2018 05:46 PM            

wouldnt really say it was self esteem issues necessarily

i'm pretty good with myself, i'm not perfect but no one is so it's a pointless thig to get wrapped up in

i have had someone read it to indicate me being bi recently, which is true, and also things like having relationships that arent necessarily "normal" if theyre stable and disconnectedness in more traditional set ups

i've also seen it listed in books as a factor with escapism and addiction issues

but the self esteem issues i wouldnt necessarily blame on that in particular if theyre worse than the typical insecurities everyone has

posted October 20, 2018 10:16 PM            

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Originally posted by moongaze:
Supposedly it means we'd have a natural charm quality, almost like Sun conjunct Venus. However, it depends on the sign and house placement for how it manifests. Essentially though, it means that as we grow into our North Node, we tend to detach from worldly goods. Probably go through a spiritual awakening of sorts later on in life.

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posted October 21, 2018 08:09 AM            

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Originally posted by MMarie:
I can see this but also have it sitting on my ascendant and thought the Venus - ASC conjunction gave me charm more than the Venus - south node. Both the Venus/ south node are in 12th house 1.5 degrees from ASC. For some reason I feel this is not a very positive aspect and tends to a lonelier life or lessons to be learned in love or karmic debt to be paid related to love.

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in my case it's venus then my ascendant then my south node

and sure karmic relationships, but things are only as bad as you make them

ups and downs are pretty normal anyway for everyone

i have noticed more spiritual approaches at relationships work better rather than a focus on the material but that's about it

could be worse

posted October 21, 2018 09:01 AM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
in my case it's venus then my ascendant then my south node

and sure karmic relationships, but things are only as bad as you make them

ups and downs are pretty normal anyway for everyone

i have noticed more spiritual approaches at relationships work better rather than a focus on the material but that's about it

could be worse

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posted October 21, 2018 09:24 AM            

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Originally posted by MMarie:
Thank you Dumuzi! I do agree spiritual approaches to relationships work better than material. And you are right...could be worse...

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it's something i've noticed in my own relationships with people, without that there's something lacking on an intimate level and it's just not the same

but my relationships where that's part of it are significantly stronger

posted October 21, 2018 09:55 AM            

Not very happy in love life, as Venus rules my 8th house Libra I have been abandoned by other woman throughout my life. Then, when men discovered the other woman didn't worth, they returned regretting their actions but too late: I never forgive or give a second chance. Never forgive cheating boyfriends.
All my relationships start as friendships with guys who seem to have a karmic connection with me.

In my case, learning to value myself insted of giving importance to others, specialy because of my tendence to idealize partners.

Have learned to be my only idol and model in life to follow. Not others, not partners. Loving myself, to me is not a problem, I show hoy I love myself not forgiving all those cheaters.

posted October 22, 2018 05:03 PM            

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Originally posted by MMarie:
I can see this but also have it sitting on my ascendant and thought the Venus - ASC conjunction gave me charm more than the Venus - south node. Both the Venus/ south node are in 12th house 1.5 degrees from ASC. For some reason I feel this is not a very positive aspect and tends to a lonelier life or lessons to be learned in love or karmic debt to be paid related to love.

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