posted November 02, 2018 05:50 PM            

I have been interested in interpretations of this position since forever tbh. But few I find are satisfactory as I also have Mars conjunct DSC and so differentiating between the two is tricky.

My understanding however is that Pluto on the DSC may bring major changes on the relationship front. And since its such a long and thorough transit, it will most certainly take years before it leave the 7th.

So perhaps you will have love come into your life during this transit and come to understand what that means.

But it will not be a fluffy romantic fling. It will sure be very intense. Even transformative because of the "slow cook" nature of the energy involved here.

A lot may happen with not only personal relationships, but friendships,relatives and work relations etc.

It may be a time where a lot of focus is paid to the nature of relating and the dynamics involved. At first the attention will be casual and then get more intense as the years pass.

My guess is that you would experienced so much, you may be inspired to write a book. Lol.

Some people may reach a juncture of deciding whether they will get married with this transit or have the "stuff" necessary for such endeavors. Or write marriage off entirely.

If my sister's Asc is correctly placed ,Pluto will be entering her 7th house in about a couple of years or so.

Natally she has it in the 4th house. When it moved to her 5th house,she learned painful lessons about relationships.

And now that its in her 6th, her job has become an obsession. Add to that health issues cropping up.

I don't see Pluto as "light" at all. It has obsessive tendencies or the likelihood for that.

Its in my 10th house now and its increased my attention progressively towards my career. Up to a point where I am changing course.

When in 9th, I let go of religion after obsessing about God and hell for so long.

posted November 03, 2018 02:12 AM            

*warning: lost post. But I hope my experience will teach you something*

When it first conjunct my descendant: I was 11 years old starting my first year of middle school(6th grade compared to other school systems that starts middle school earlier or later than that). Some textbook astrology has said that Pluto 7th house transit people will meet Pluto in 7th house natives that will change their life. And boy that was true. I didn’t notice him at first as I was in my own world ignoring what didn’t bother me, even though he was in the same classrooms. One day our English teacher did a seat exchange, she had us sit right by each other. One day I was thinking out loud and he turned around and started talking me. That was when my world started to change, and I didn’t know it.

From a child point of view, it felt like true love. I felt bliss for the first time. I wasn’t really heard throughout my childhood and was really shy until then. He listened and I felt heard and understood, which I craved. A few months after that we were a thing(lol I’m imagining my little self with her boyfriend holding hands towards the school bus) My parents didn’t like him as he had a bad reputation. But I wanted to see past that as I saw someone who was also going through a tough time at home never seeing his mother after a fresh divorce. In the end, when my parents found out about us being together they broke us up. It was the first time I felt torn and remorse. My heart ached. (Looking back I’m wondering how can a 12 year old((the event occurred a couple months after my birthday))feel like that? Why did I let myself feel like that? I think I just really really liked him a lot and wanted to always be with him. and didn’t want it to end, especially so suddenly out of nowhere) From that point on I became the opposite of who I was, resentful and pessimistic and lost under the facade that I wasn’t affected by it and being civil with others.

2 years into the transit:Flash forward to trying again with him a couple years later without my parents knowing and only to find that he wasn’t the same as who he was either, and burned me with his actions. But I still had hope. (During that time a new student came and she slowwwly became my role model in a positive way. It was only during college that I subconsciously started to adopt her positive traits without knowing.)

7 years into the transit:A year after I started college I reached out to him for the last time while heavy on drugs. Not in that way, lol. I was tired of a really bad flu that I accidentally overdosed. I was in the hospital for 7 days and nights(the events there that occurred while the drugs were still in my system is another long story). Unknowingly, he replied back using his sister’s Facebook. I should have known that was a complete red flag. After my hospital release, we started talking again and I told him I didn’t want to go further because he had a girlfriend. Shortly after that, we took things further after he told me she broke up with him. I was really happy finally being able to spend time with him, but inside I knew that it was already over before it started. I chose to keep going with him to see how things go. Inside I was really hoping that this would work out.

But it didn’t. Turned out he was the one who broke up with her, some other lies, and spoke with her behind my back the day before breaking up with me about getting back together. And my heart broke for the first time to where I thought I was going to die. And that was when my world changed again, where I thought I couldn’t go on(when I posted onto Lindaland for the first time for answers lol), but it was a blessing in disguise. I began seeing things for what they are. And I gave up on love.

9 years into the transit: I started a fulfilling and fantastic journey taking graphic design classes(after quitting nursing school as I was very unhappy there).

Then I met him.

He was 26 attending college for the first time and I was 21. We started at the same time and were taking the same classes. The first time he passed by me I felt a warm buzz throughout my body. Never ever felt anything like it before in my life. I turned and saw an average man I would never acknowledge(I was pretty shallow.. though my first love wasn't that good looking either even though I thought he was the most gorgeous I've seen with all his planets in my 7th and touching my venus and mars). Every time we passed each other I felt a warm presence enveloping me. It felt like I was melting in warmth. I somehow knew he was going to be an important person in my life, even if we never interacted. After the first semester, I got to know him better(sitting right next to him when there was plenty of seats available in the room. Probably irritated him at first, lol).

I have never met someone so compassionate and mature and understanding. And I have never felt such true unconditional love for someone. Everything I thought I felt compassion and love for the childhood boy I pined for years and years went out the window. So easily. This was it. We had a psychic connection and true quiet understanding(Powerful visions would come when I was with him. it was like I was transported to a different dimension but was still in the present world). Even hugging him was healing me to my core. It felt like home with him. I truly wanted to be with someone. But our time together wasn't for long as he ghosted me a half year later after we graduated. I don't know if I saw him for what he really was -- a person not that empathetic, but I didn't mind. I was grateful. I felt love that I didn't think would feel. He healed me from hurts and fears without even knowing. I feel he also had feelings for me, but I think I messed up the potential of us being together by being afraid to completely show my affection by fear of rejection. Also, I think he had a girlfriend he was still getting over. He is the only person I genuinely want true happiness for, even if it is without me. He's earned it, even though deep down he thinks he doesn't deserve it. Who knows though, maybe he doesn't. And lo and behold, he also has Pluto in the 7th house in his natal chart.

12 years into the transit: Even though I was one of the top students in the graduating class, job hunting was really hard and discouraging. I had a couple offers but was stupid to not take them as I didn't know at the time that it's smarter to take the first job offer and get some experience and then leave(I've never had a job other than working at the family business since I was 10 years old). I was happy to take a temporary job that said it will likely turn into a full-time job. During the temp job, I also worked part-time in the city just in case things went south, which it did. I was left with a part-time job that had me design during the dead hours of the night, and sometimes driving home to help with the family business. I didn't mind it. I was happy to even work and get by. I felt fulfilled that I didn't have to deal with family at home all the time. Although I've tried looking for more jobs in the state because I wanted to stay closer to family in case something happens, I still couldn't get offers even the ones that were close to giving me one. Companies started hiring colleagues I knew that weren't that great with their skills. After that, my outlook on jobs and companies changed, and so did the way I presented myself to others. My communications skills were always very awkward and shy, I highly believed that was why they never hired me. It made sense the company that hired me liked how I presented myself because I had felt surer of myself and genuine at that time.

12.9 years into the transit: My mother did whatever it took to get me to quit my job to come back to work at the family business full time as she didn't like my living situation. I was staying with friends I had from middle school throughout college and paying more for my stay than I was supposed to(a red flag I will mention later). After hours of her screaming, hitting, and guilt trips, I felt hopeless that there was never fully getting out of her grip even if I'm a million miles away. Finally, she told me after the business needs a new lease after a few years, I can leave and start searching for jobs, or go back to school for my bachelor's degree. I didn't trust her as it felt like she was saying it to get her way because she also wanted me to take over the business after she retires. I have also seen her lie to others and to me. I wanted to believe it was for me and my family's wellbeing(though I'm still conflicted if she has ulterior motives). So I quit my job and went to work with my parents. It's pretty bearable, though I can't wait until it's over. Whatever I do is not satisfiable in their eyes even when I do it right(Virgo IC and Chiron in the natal, am I right? or is it an asian culture thing). On the bright side, I grew out of my shell and started being more open to customers, and had the opportunity to work with some of them in relation to graphic design. Really, this is a blessing in disguise. I also found myself more aware of people's ulterior motives after realizing myself that I have done that also. I saw beyond reality.

Last year of the transit: Talk about timing. Pluto is literally touching the last degree of my 7th house. I have been in the process of finally cutting off ties with all my friendships and business partnerships for the past several months due to what they have done to me. It's not anything major. More of them reaching out to boost their ego, asking for a recipe I've cooked for them only for them to never contact me back after giving it to them, taking advantage of my money when I stayed with them, asking for a free design. They were just not as genuine and caring as I have seen them to be. I am seeing them for who they are now. I still feel like I have a lot of growth and learning to do. I just cut ties with a Scorpio romantic interest I met earlier this year thinking that maybe we could start a relationship only to find that he's very promiscuous and not very genuine and an opportunist. Pluto really is about making you go through horrible trials and letting go and transforming. And in this 7th house transit, it's about letting go of relationships that's been long overdue. I'm not scared of everything and rejection as I was when before this transit started. Not as worried about what people thought of me. I feel it's a lot easier to cut ties rather than hanging on in hopes it'll improve. It's a lot easier and healthier and freeing to be egoless and just be.

posted November 03, 2018 05:15 PM            

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Originally posted by Einfühlung:
Pluto will be transitting out of my 7th house next year and I gotta say my relationships with some people have completely transformed me and I can’t say there were no tragedies and that I am the same as I was before.

*warning: lost post. But I hope my experience will teach you something*

[b]When it first conjunct my descendant: I was 11 years old starting my first year of middle school(6th grade compared to other school systems that starts middle school earlier or later than that). Some textbook astrology has said that Pluto 7th house transit people will meet Pluto in 7th house natives that will change their life. And boy that was true. I didn’t notice him at first as I was in my own world ignoring what didn’t bother me, even though he was in the same classrooms. One day our English teacher did a seat exchange, she had us sit right by each other. One day I was thinking out loud and he turned around and started talking me. That was when my world started to change, and I didn’t know it.

From a child point of view, it felt like true love. I felt bliss for the first time. I wasn’t really heard throughout my childhood and was really shy until then. He listened and I felt heard and understood, which I craved. A few months after that we were a thing(lol I’m imagining my little self with her boyfriend holding hands towards the school bus) My parents didn’t like him as he had a bad reputation. But I wanted to see past that as I saw someone who was also going through a tough time at home never seeing his mother after a fresh divorce. In the end, when my parents found out about us being together they broke us up. It was the first time I felt torn and remorse. My heart ached. (Looking back I’m wondering how can a 12 year old((the event occurred a couple months after my birthday))feel like that? Why did I let myself feel like that? I think I just really really liked him a lot and wanted to always be with him. and didn’t want it to end, especially so suddenly out of nowhere) From that point on I became the opposite of who I was, resentful and pessimistic and lost under the facade that I wasn’t affected by it and being civil with others.

2 years into the transit:Flash forward to trying again with him a couple years later without my parents knowing and only to find that he wasn’t the same as who he was either, and burned me with his actions. But I still had hope. (During that time a new student came and she slowwwly became my role model in a positive way. It was only during college that I subconsciously started to adopt her positive traits without knowing.)

7 years into the transit:A year after I started college I reached out to him for the last time while heavy on drugs. Not in that way, lol. I was tired of a really bad flu that I accidentally overdosed. I was in the hospital for 7 days and nights(the events there that occurred while the drugs were still in my system is another long story). Unknowingly, he replied back using his sister’s Facebook. I should have known that was a complete red flag. After my hospital release, we started talking again and I told him I didn’t want to go further because he had a girlfriend. Shortly after that, we took things further after he told me she broke up with him. I was really happy finally being able to spend time with him, but inside I knew that it was already over before it started. I chose to keep going with him to see how things go. Inside I was really hoping that this would work out.

But it didn’t. Turned out he was the one who broke up with her, some other lies, and spoke with her behind my back the day before breaking up with me about getting back together. And my heart broke for the first time to where I thought I was going to die. And that was when my world changed again, where I thought I couldn’t go on(when I posted onto Lindaland for the first time for answers lol), but it was a blessing in disguise. I began seeing things for what they are. And I gave up on love.

9 years into the transit: I started a fulfilling and fantastic journey taking graphic design classes(after quitting nursing school as I was very unhappy there).

Then I met him.

He was 26 attending college for the first time and I was 21. We started at the same time and were taking the same classes. The first time he passed by me I felt a warm buzz throughout my body. Never ever felt anything like it before in my life. I turned and saw an average man I would never acknowledge(I was pretty shallow.. though my first love wasn't that good looking either even though I thought he was the most gorgeous I've seen with all his planets in my 7th and touching my venus and mars). Every time we passed each other I felt a warm presence enveloping me. It felt like I was melting in warmth. I somehow knew he was going to be an important person in my life, even if we never interacted. After the first semester, I got to know him better(sitting right next to him when there was plenty of seats available in the room. Probably irritated him at first, lol).

I have never met someone so compassionate and mature and understanding. And I have never felt such true unconditional love for someone. Everything I thought I felt compassion and love for the childhood boy I pined for years and years went out the window. So easily. This was it. We had a psychic connection and true quiet understanding(Powerful visions would come when I was with him. it was like I was transported to a different dimension but was still in the present world). Even hugging him was healing me to my core. It felt like home with him. I truly wanted to be with someone. But our time together wasn't for long as he ghosted me a half year later after we graduated. I don't know if I saw him for what he really was -- a person not that empathetic, but I didn't mind. I was grateful. I felt love that I didn't think would feel. He healed me from hurts and fears without even knowing. I feel he also had feelings for me, but I think I messed up the potential of us being together by being afraid to completely show my affection by fear of rejection. Also, I think he had a girlfriend he was still getting over. He is the only person I genuinely want true happiness for, even if it is without me. He's earned it, even though deep down he thinks he doesn't deserve it. Who knows though, maybe he doesn't. And lo and behold, he also has Pluto in the 7th house in his natal chart.

12 years into the transit: Even though I was one of the top students in the graduating class, job hunting was really hard and discouraging. I had a couple offers but was stupid to not take them as I didn't know at the time that it's smarter to take the first job offer and get some experience and then leave(I've never had a job other than working at the family business since I was 10 years old). I was happy to take a temporary job that said it will likely turn into a full-time job. During the temp job, I also worked part-time in the city just in case things went south, which it did. I was left with a part-time job that had me design during the dead hours of the night, and sometimes driving home to help with the family business. I didn't mind it. I was happy to even work and get by. I felt fulfilled that I didn't have to deal with family at home all the time. Although I've tried looking for more jobs in the state because I wanted to stay closer to family in case something happens, I still couldn't get offers even the ones that were close to giving me one. Companies started hiring colleagues I knew that weren't that great with their skills. After that, my outlook on jobs and companies changed, and so did the way I presented myself to others. My communications skills were always very awkward and shy, I highly believed that was why they never hired me. It made sense the company that hired me liked how I presented myself because I had felt surer of myself and genuine at that time.

12.9 years into the transit: My mother did whatever it took to get me to quit my job to come back to work at the family business full time as she didn't like my living situation. I was staying with friends I had from middle school throughout college and paying more for my stay than I was supposed to(a red flag I will mention later). After hours of her screaming, hitting, and guilt trips, I felt hopeless that there was never fully getting out of her grip even if I'm a million miles away. Finally, she told me after the business needs a new lease after a few years, I can leave and start searching for jobs, or go back to school for my bachelor's degree. I didn't trust her as it felt like she was saying it to get her way because she also wanted me to take over the business after she retires. I have also seen her lie to others and to me. I wanted to believe it was for me and my family's wellbeing(though I'm still conflicted if she has ulterior motives). So I quit my job and went to work with my parents. It's pretty bearable, though I can't wait until it's over. Whatever I do is not satisfiable in their eyes even when I do it right(Virgo IC and Chiron in the natal, am I right? or is it an asian culture thing). On the bright side, I grew out of my shell and started being more open to customers, and had the opportunity to work with some of them in relation to graphic design. Really, this is a blessing in disguise. I also found myself more aware of people's ulterior motives after realizing myself that I have done that also. I saw beyond reality.

Last year of the transit: Talk about timing. Pluto is literally touching the last degree of my 7th house. I have been in the process of finally cutting off ties with all my friendships and business partnerships for the past several months due to what they have done to me. It's not anything major. More of them reaching out to boost their ego, asking for a recipe I've cooked for them only for them to never contact me back after giving it to them, taking advantage of my money when I stayed with them, asking for a free design. They were just not as genuine and caring as I have seen them to be. I am seeing them for who they are now. I still feel like I have a lot of growth and learning to do. I just cut ties with a Scorpio romantic interest I met earlier this year thinking that maybe we could start a relationship only to find that he's very promiscuous and not very genuine and an opportunist. Pluto really is about making you go through horrible trials and letting go and transforming. And in this 7th house transit, it's about letting go of relationships that's been long overdue. I'm not scared of everything and rejection as I was when before this transit started. Not as worried about what people thought of me. I feel it's a lot easier to cut ties rather than hanging on in hopes it'll improve. It's a lot easier and healthier and freeing to be egoless and just be.

I wouldn't say it was hell. I've had tons of good happen throughout my life so far. No, I don't think I've found my true love yet. Maybe I have with the man I met in college and it was bad timing and it has to wait. But I'm not hoping, I'm focusing on growing and maybe he is focusing on growing too. I won't get in the way of where we're bound to go, even if it's without each other. But if he pops up out of the blue and asks me to come with him, I would absolutely truly say yes in a heartbeat(if his motives aren't ulterior of course lol).[/B]

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Wow amazing story. That's crazy how both guys you mentioned had Pluto in 7th house natal. It has me wondering if my current boyfriend has pluto in 7th house but I don't know his exact time of birth. He is a scorpio btw.

And the guy you met in college, do you have any contact with him at all? On social media or anything? The way you felt about him seemed like it could've been something special 🙂

posted November 04, 2018 01:02 AM            

"So perhaps you will have love come into your life during this transit and come to understand what that means."

There's the bible verse scene from A Walk To Remember: "Love is always patient and kind; it is never jealous, love is never boastful or conceited; it is never rude or selfish; it does not take offense, and is not resentful. Love takes no pleasure in other people's sins but delights in the truth; it is always ready to excuse, to trust, to hope, and to endure whatever comes."

That scene always intrigued me, and I grew up thinking I understood it. But no. Nobody really truly understands what people go through unless the same thing happens to them.

@ana_bee would love to know what parts in my story you relate to

@dribaby I think(someone correct me if I'm wrong ) it's known for pluto transit 7th house people to have mostly plutonic people make an impact in their lives during the transit, not just Pluto 7th house natives. I'm sure there are other exceptions who doesn’t have that aspect and not plutonic. you should definitely find out your boyfriend's birth time! I am also curious if he has Pluto in the 7th.

As for keeping in contact with the college man, I only have his email and number(and following him on Spotify for his great taste in music). In college, he mentioned he doesn't have any social media accounts. After graduation we still kept tabs on each other by text, then all of a sudden he stopped replying. I have tried texting him several times and even sending one email before realizing that he wasn't going to answer back. I haven't contacted him since. Decided to focus on other things for my growth. It makes sense that he wouldn't consider me as a partner, or someone to talk to because I was pretty annoying back then and wasn't aware of it. Karma had a seriously funny way of showing how I was to him by sending me someone whose actions they've done to me that I've done to him really really irked and irritated me, lol. It made me know I've learned my lesson and am at the same level as him.

posted November 04, 2018 05:27 AM            

You might meet someone you would fall for unless you have an anti-relationship chart like mine. In my case nothing happened just got obsessed with someone first time my T.Pluto conjucted my NN. That someone has his Venus, Mars and Saturn conjuct my NN in 7th H. However nothing is going to hapoen for many reasons, it is actually impossible so it brought nothing in the end.
However I think this transit will bring for you a relationship especially if it's aspecting personal planets.

What I learned is that it's not worth it getting close to people because even the ones that I knew they were going to be into my life "forever" (my dad and my male best friend) they unexpectedly died. It makes you happy once and it ruins you 100 times.
Maybe it's because of my Uranus conjucting my DSC that I shouldn't ever feel safe when it comes to any kind of relationships and unexpectingly lose people I love.
I already knew that everything will end at some point but it does too early and the two people that I felt like they would be there with me because they loved me as much back they had to disappear from my life in some way and the only one was death.

I don't know if it's common to experience so many deaths with this transit, they are way too many actually.. It has become the norm for a relative of mine to die every few months or even more often than that the last 5 years. I can't imagine what is going to happen when T.Pluto enters my 8th h in aqua.

posted November 05, 2018 11:33 AM            

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Originally posted by Einfühlung:
[b]@aries23 No wonder why reading your posts are intriguing and feels like I learn something really important because of your Pluto in 7th house. Unless our synastry has something to do with it.

"So perhaps you will have love come into your life during this transit and come to understand what that means."

There's the bible verse scene from A Walk To Remember: "Love is always patient and kind; it is never jealous, love is never boastful or conceited; it is never rude or selfish; it does not take offense, and is not resentful. Love takes no pleasure in other people's sins but delights in the truth; it is always ready to excuse, to trust, to hope, and to endure whatever comes."

That scene always intrigued me, and I grew up thinking I understood it. But no. Nobody really truly understands what people go through unless the same thing happens to them.

@ana_bee would love to know what parts in my story you relate to

@dribaby I think(someone correct me if I'm wrong ) it's known for pluto transit 7th house people to have mostly plutonic people make an impact in their lives during the transit, not just Pluto 7th house natives. I'm sure there are other exceptions who doesn’t have that aspect and not plutonic. you should definitely find out your boyfriend's birth time! I am also curious if he has Pluto in the 7th.

As for keeping in contact with the college man, I only have his email and number(and following him on Spotify for his great taste in music). In college, he mentioned he doesn't have any social media accounts. After graduation we still kept tabs on each other by text, then all of a sudden he stopped replying. I have tried texting him several times and even sending one email before realizing that he wasn't going to answer back. I haven't contacted him since. Decided to focus on other things for my growth. It makes sense that he wouldn't consider me as a partner, or someone to talk to because I was pretty annoying back then and wasn't aware of it. Karma had a seriously funny way of showing how I was to him by sending me someone whose actions they've done to me that I've done to him really really irked and irritated me, lol. It made me know I've learned my lesson and am at the same level as him.

The thought of never meeting him again doesn't make me sad. Well, a little. It's bittersweet. Since this transit is almost over I feel that he's meant to stay in the past and not into my 8th house journey. If we do meet again, I'll probably update. Though I can't guarantee it will be the happily ever after kind of meet again as we both might be married to different people, i might be single and he's married, or he turned into a druggie or something. haha[/B]

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Maybe you two will meet again when it's the right timing! At least I hope so lol

posted November 06, 2018 04:35 PM            

@plutonian2 I apologize for chiming in since your post was directly for dribaby. I relate to your post in a way. So sorry for all your losses... I haven’t lost dear ones to death yet. Only one that was almost close to death was my youngest brother on the day after his 1st birthday who was dying in my arms, and that was during my 7th Pluto transit.

posted November 13, 2018 11:03 AM            

What I can say was most intense during these past years is, there were definitely many contacts with people coming into, and out of my life which were very intriguing at first, but then realising how much each one of them needed to use their power and control over me.
Some proved to be good manipulators and others heavy narcissists at the end. It has been a difficult time dealing with such people, but it does click something in you to change and transform every time.

It has of course put me on defense mode now after all these years. Especially while now, tr Pluto has just finished his square with natal Pluto on the IC. Wow, did this really highlight what I mentioned above, involving family characters.

posted November 13, 2018 05:39 PM            

it made me bitter and closed off to the world