posted November 14, 2018 05:53 PM            

My relationships:
- High School boyfriend (first real relationship), Aries Sun, with moon-neptune trine
- College boyfriend (2 1/2 years), Aries Ascendant, Aries Venus
- Most recent ex boyfriend (4 years), Aries moon, moon-neptune square
- Husband, Aries moon (actually conjunct with my ex boyfriend's moon), Pisces sun and Mercury

posted November 14, 2018 06:12 PM            

But I find it interesting that Saturn square your triple conjunction in Pisces as well as its subsequent trine with Venus/Mars didn't have you end up with a Cap type.

You have Saturn in the 4th house and Saturn co-ruling the 7th house. Saturn also sextiles Jupiter widely- which inches towards the 7th.

Does your hubby have strong Saturn?

posted November 14, 2018 06:24 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
I would imagine Venus/Mars in Aries conjunct are contributing factors.

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posted November 14, 2018 06:27 PM            

My Cap history
- Ex boyfriend (not mentioned above, but I fell hard for him) had Capricorn Venus. I believe he was a Libra ascendant which puts his Saturn in his 1st house.
- Ex boyfriend (the one I dated for 4 years) had Capricorn Venus - btw I really don't like that Venus. He had his Saturn in his 1st house.
- Husband has his sun and moon square saturn. He is also a Cap Mars. We have a sun and moon square saturn in our composite which everyone suggests is a really bad or hard placement. I don't really feel it's effects on anything, maybe its a comforting feeling since we both have it natally as well.

posted November 14, 2018 06:35 PM            

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Originally posted by polkadotstars:
Hypatia- haha! your emojis made me laugh

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posted November 15, 2018 01:04 AM            

Libra/Taurus tend to appease in that they make their immediate environment palatable.

This could be through social relations or even just by their presence. And the Libra on the cusp of the 4th suggests a lovely home (Feng Shui techniques used in the home).

Let's also not forget that Sun/Venus in mutual reception in places of exaltation i.e Aries Venus receives Sun in Pisces and is exalted in the Suns position.

Whilst Sun in Pisces receives Venus on Aries position and Pisces is exalted in Venus.

So this interaction has a Sun-conjunct Venus effect that endows one with Venusian traits.

The attraction to Libra/Taurus is also likely with this in mind.

#with your husband,the square of Saturn to Sun/Moon and exalted Mars in Cap placement is what I suspected.

posted November 16, 2018 08:27 AM            

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Originally posted by polkadotstars:
Thanks Aries!! Quick question, what does “exalted” mean?

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posted November 16, 2018 11:37 AM            

What was your theory to why you attract aries men?

Placements are obvious. Also the strongest planets in ones chart etc. For ex someone who does not have capricorn placements, but a strong saturn, will send out a vibe that attracts capricorns and saturnian people.

Aspects attracts similar type of aspect owners aswell. For ex, having sun trine neptune, and attracting people having the same aspect, sun trine neptune, or any aspect to neptune-sun or pisces people etc.

I have aries stellium (Venus-Jupiter-node) and a strong Mars and strong pluto vibes. My closest guy friends for now are two Aries moon guys. One also has Mars in aries.

We also have similar aspects like, lots of saturn aspects in our natal charts. Or we all 3 have neptune trine sun and mercury.

They have aries moons conj/square mars.
I have moon conjunct mars etc, stuff like that.

For some reason I attract crushes that have Leo placements too. I don't have any leo but my sun seems strong and also leo is the leg completing my aries and sagg stelliums. So that may be it.

One can note what "vibes" ones chart emits overall, and look at the people closest to them.