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Topic: Moon in Scorpio men - What draws them in?
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sunpixie007
Knowflake Posts: 78
From: California
Registered: Jun 2017
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posted November 28, 2018 10:00 PM
  
to a woman?
They intrigue me, and I seem to attract them. Its weird, I have no scorpio placements nor 8th house/pluto aspects.
the current one is gemini sun, scorpio moon and cancer venus
I'm curious to hear what you guys have to say... IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees
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From: South Africa
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted November 29, 2018 03:29 AM
Hey...your guy has Moon in Scorpio, Venus in Cancer. I have Moon in Cancer, Venus in Scorpio. So I think our emotional nature could be similar.Scorpio Moon time initially appear very charming and even "cool,, clam a d collected". But I have always found that that is just facade. As you get deeper, prepare to be GRILLED. As very few trust anyone. So you will feel like you are dating an interrogation officer. Their type: people who are sure of themselves and like sex. There is also a possibility of them being seduced by the " doe eyed" types who are innocent to the ways of the world. IP: Logged |
Lalafortunaea
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posted November 29, 2018 05:30 AM
Scorpio moons are actually quite gentle and sensitive underneath. Respect and consider their feelings and avoid hurting them, and they'll see you as someone of value, and give the same in return.They can smell fakery like a shark smells blood. This will turn them off, and if they realize you've been faking attitudes and qualities, they'll be quite miffed. They don't like feeling tricked into liking someone. Make sure you're as genuine as possible. Holding your own against their sex appeal is also a plus. They have this "Jedi sex mind trick" they like to use, some of them are self aware about it, some not. While yes they do like feeling like they've overpowered you, they actually like it if you can resist them by sheer force of will, that way they KNOW that when you're not resisting them, you're doing it because you WANT them like they want you, and not just because you're weak willed.
They respect strength and power. But don't fight them with obstinance. Powerful will = turn on for them. You become the one irresistible. quote:
As you get deeper, prepare to be GRILLED. As very few trust anyone. So you will feel like you are dating an interrogation officer.
OH YES! SAY IT LOUDER, LOL! Fortunately I have a secret (not now lol) detective romance kink xD
---- Whenever they do this, don't resist it, or you'll make them more suspicious or feel like you're hiding something. If you're not comfortable saying something, avoid lying and just say you'd rather not mention it. It puts their mind at ease if you answer whatever they ask as honestly as possible. Even if you appear nervous, they'll understand (but again, could be seen as hiding something!). So, yes, confidence would be optimal. But if you do withstand their detective interrogation moods, they'll eventually feel safer and safer with you, and trust will grow. Cancer aspect of this will also work, as they also must feel safe! They want you to feel like their family in a way. IP: Logged |
WhiteBirds
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Registered: Oct 2018
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posted November 29, 2018 07:46 AM
I'm a moon in Scorpio, maybe I can help  I will feel very attracted to someone positive, or stable (Earth signs).
Above all, I need to feel safe.
If I feel safe, suddenly the scorpion becomes a beautiful eagle. I have No problem getting to know someone "superficially." (Maybe I'm not a typical Scorpio moon). I don't care about superficialities, as long as I can be sure that inside you love Me
If I'm sure about that, nothing else matters. Security is the key to a Scorpio moon.
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margym0o
Knowflake Posts: 1155
From: The Great White North
Registered: Jul 2014
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posted November 29, 2018 12:51 PM
I feel like Scorpio Moons (male and female) are soooooooooooo misunderstood and mischaracterized. They're actually quite simple. The Scorpio-Taurus axis is about security. While Taurus needs physical security, Scorpio needs emotional security. This is especially heightened when it's the Moon. Scorpio Moons can smell nonsense coming from a mile away. Good luck earning their trust if you are the least bit flaky or indecisive. As another poster mentioned, as long as you are GENUINE in your interactions and are as open and honest as you can be about EVERYTHING, they will open up their hearts to you. A Scorpio Moon simply will not take you seriously if they do not feel you will guard and protect their heart. I think this is where they get their bad rap from...because the dating game is murky territory for these folks. Many hearts get broken because another person will get sucked in by their magnetism, but ultimately they do not pass the tests and are left wondering what happened. Being a fixed sign, when they do open up to you, there is no one you would rather have in your corner. They can be the most loyal Moon sign out there. IP: Logged |
sunpixie007
Knowflake Posts: 78
From: California
Registered: Jun 2017
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posted November 29, 2018 07:03 PM
Yes, but what kinda girl ATTRACTS these guys? These are great responses for someone in a relationship but I'm talking about initial situations as I usually don't know them very well when they spring up on me lol.
Just initial things would help me root why I attract them. Maybe because I'm quiet and focused? (people have told me)
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Plut0nian2
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Registered: Apr 2014
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posted November 29, 2018 08:37 PM
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Originally posted by sunpixie007:
Yes, but what kinda girl ATTRACTS these guys? These are great responses for someone in a relationship but I'm talking about initial situations as I usually don't know them very well when they spring up on me lol.
Just initial things would help me root why I attract them. Maybe because I'm quiet and focused? (people have told me)
Do you happen to have heavy water Moon/chart?
Scorpio 1st, 5th or 7th H or Pluto in there?
I attractebheavy Scorpio-Capricorn mix.
I have though Pluto aspects, heavy water chart and Pisces Moon plu 5th H in Scorpio with Pluto in it.
Maybe there is a theme could you post your chart?
Are those Scorpio Moons at some specific degrees like 20°-27° for example?
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margym0o
Knowflake Posts: 1155
From: The Great White North
Registered: Jul 2014
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posted November 30, 2018 04:14 PM
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Yes, but what kinda girl ATTRACTS these guys?
Quiet and focused is good, because it shows you aren't flaky, which they HATE. You have to be willing to pour your heart out and show your true sincerity early on. Honesty is key, even if it's negative. The worst you can do is try and a hide a truth from them because that's when they lose trust, and it's all downhill from there. IP: Logged |
Nine
Moderator Posts: 3569
From: The Cusp of Love
Registered: May 2009
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posted December 01, 2018 12:22 PM
A sun a Scorpio male admitted to me, "I like spirited women"Focused is good, quiet not so good it you want to hold onto them. You know how they say your ideal partner is your opposite sign, or in your 7th house. Well the same can be said of the Sun & Moon. The Moon (feminine) sign is looking for the Sun (masculine) sign, and vice versa. Scorpio is passionate, Moon in Scorpio is looking for someone passionate. Scorpio is controlling, Moon in Scorpio is looking for someone controlling. Scorpio is combative, Moon in Scorpio is looking for someone combative. Scorpio also has a healing, nurturing, and protective side. Moon in Scorpio is looking for nurture and protection. IP: Logged |
Nine
Moderator Posts: 3569
From: The Cusp of Love
Registered: May 2009
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posted December 01, 2018 12:30 PM
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Yes, but what kinda girl ATTRACTS these guys?
I have Virgo Asc, with a Sagittarius Moon. Virgo is reserved, intelligent, helpful. Sagittarius is expressive, open, and fiery. When you first meet me, I'll be Virgo Asc - reserved. I meet Lunar Scorpios all the time. It isn't until after my first loud moment I notice they give me long deep looks. This is a placement I find exhausting, so I shut 'em down. IP: Logged | |
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