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Lalafortunaea
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posted November 30, 2018 02:19 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lalafortunaea     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
There's something about the negative (seemingly positive) side of Sagittarius. I can only describe it as their "positivity bent", how it can actually be detrimental to avoid experiencing severe pain. A sort of denial they go in, which can be kin to hyper religious "faith", not based on trust in the universe, but something else. Faith in their lies if they believe something false about themselves and others?

Then, they end up seeming full of illusions, and down right delusional - completely denying reality, wreaking havoc to those around them. It's like they make themselves completely disown their inner chaos when they get in that "hyper delusional faith" state.

Not to say that every positive Sagittarius is delusional, but there is something to be said about this behavior in some extreme. Positivity can come from a good source.

But is positivity always good, and from a healthy place?

And I think it can be hard to notice, especially if they seem so darn happy about it!

Thing is, Pisces and Neptune, when negatively expressed or ill understood, is the one considered to be responsible for illusions and delusional thinking. Is Neptune the culprit? Is Pisces? Or is there something to be said about this sign that can really cause a person to go in a delusional direction, given the type of energy they embody? While we're all capable of delusions in some way, big or small, I think the nature of the expanding energies can make whatever Sagittarius is doing quite potent.

I can't quite pin point it, but I've observed it in many of them. I don't know if anybody else has put them under a microscope like this... Maybe they have and I haven't read about it!


What are your observations of Sagittarius, and have you met some like this?

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posted November 30, 2018 02:29 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for girlwiththerainysoul     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
it might sound like delusion to those around a sagittarius (or jupier dominant)...but for them, it's only being optimistic, having faith, not taking things seriously and refusing to be around any sort of negativity!

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posted November 30, 2018 03:02 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lalafortunaea     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by girlwiththerainysoul:
it might sound like delusion to those around a sagittarius (or jupier dominant)...but for them, it's only being optimistic, having faith, not taking things seriously and refusing to be around any sort of negativity!

Sure, and I don't refute that, so long is it's expressed healthily. Why I added "Not to say that every positive Sagittarius is delusional, but there is something to be said about this behavior in some extreme. Positivity can come from a good source."

I do think it's good for people to have healthy boundaries, and avoid toxic environments and individuals.

However, does "refusing to be around any sort of negativity" sound healthy? I mean, is the world not full of balance, with positive and negative? What would the world look like without negativity, and is that truly an ideal and healthy thing?

Are there no benefits to any sort of negativity?

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posted November 30, 2018 05:34 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for girlwiththerainysoul     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Lalafortunaea:

However, does "refusing to be around any sort of negativity" sound healthy?

It sure sounds healthy for Sagittarius as well as Jupiter dominant people...avoiding negativity is vital to their survival!

But because everything is relative and it's all about different perspectives, refusing to deal with negative things or being indifferent toward them, might sound "unhealthy" for those who can't understand this energy

In the same way, obsessing over what is healthy and what is unhealthy seems so not healthy from a Sagittarius's point of view

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posted November 30, 2018 06:30 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aries23Degrees     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by girlwiththerainysoul:
It sure sounds healthy for Sagittarius as well as Jupiter dominant people...avoiding negativity is vital to their survival!

But because everything is relative and it's all about different perspectives, refusing to deal with negative things or being indifferent toward them, might sound "unhealthy" for those who can't understand this energy

In the same way, obsessing over what is healthy and what is unhealthy seems so not healthy from a Sagittarius's point of view


Well-said.

I am OK in my "delusional" world tbh. Reality ain't fun. And I ain't hurting no one by being positive and uplifting.

However with that being said, I am also very much in touch with my feelings. Though I don't allow myself the depth of feeling things like Scorpio/Cancer or Pisces - as I tend to intellectualize more than " feel" them etc.

However,I don't invalidate pain by saying "its all in the mind" or "look at the positive" etc. My Mom(also Sag)tends to do that. And these are the types of Sag's I think you mean. As those kinds are IRRITATING!!

But they never mean to be. They are just fearful of external expression of sadness or tears(Cancer is in the solar 8th house)

It is healthy to learn to deal with negativity and being able to let yourself FEEL without over-thinking it with "this is how I am SUPPOSED to feel" etc. Because I think as a Sag Sun, I do that a lot.

To let feelings that are negative "pass through" me used to scare me at first. Because I didn't want to be "down" etc. But I have come to find that coming back to the middle is best.

There are people who don't bounce back from setbacks and personalize failure too much. That is the dark side of having to have never dealt with the negative: Depression.

So its either they have to learn to develop coping mechanism there and then. Or they try to avoid, avoid, avoid etc. And that is Jupiter escapism through drugs,alcohol or religious blind following and looking for a "savior" etc. Just like Neptune.

But I do get your point. As I find the religious Sag zealot a headache as much as I do the bouncy optimist. As I think they both lack realism and substance.

Just the other day on Facebook,somebody posted an article that spoke of a woman who'd been "transformed" by Jesus and is no longer a lesbian.

She (the woman) said that she had felt guilt for a long time that what she was engaging in was "wrong" etc. And that she was grateful that she had "seen the light" etc.

As others made comments to congratulate her from distancing herself from the "sordid lifestyle" etc. One person had another perspective.

She said that when she was young,her mother had caught her in bed with her then guy friend having sex.

The shame attached to that incident,how her mother never looked at her the same again etc. never left her mind. And that she ended up believing that all sexual activity was intrinsically "evil".

She argued that it was through therapy & digging deep within herself to conclude that she had attached shame to sex not because SHE internally believed it was intrinsically "wrong".

But that her Mom ( external influence) had shamed her for so long of its "wicked nature" etc. That she had started to talk to herself about it being as her Mom saw it.

So perhaps (she continued) it is the same way with this woman?

That this woman could have readily confused external beliefs of same sex attraction from the outside, to what she thought of herself on the inside?

In that she( woman) heard people say it is wrong. The Bible written by men a long time ago who have nothing to do with her say its wrong. So she must have evaluated herself as a "bad" person to feel the way she does". Hence the "guilt"?

After reading that I was like; 'I think she is a Sag'. And lo and behold, going to peak at her profile......December 14th

So there are very deep ones out there who don't just follow religious rhetoric or Bible thumping mentality. They are more in touch with the human condition and feelings than the others.

After all,Jupiter also find its exaltation in Cancer(human emotions,subjectivity and feelings)


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posted November 30, 2018 01:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by girlwiththerainysoul:

In the same way, obsessing over what is healthy and what is unhealthy seems so not healthy from a Sagittarius's point of view

hahahahaha

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posted November 30, 2018 01:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Jupiter rules traveling abroad, foreign affairs, anything that expands the world views you grew up with, its about expanding perception bc Jupiter needs to see the whole picture, in other words Jupiter seeks to see there is more than meets the eye than what is here right now, the philosopher and explorer. Jupiter senses that there is more at play beyond what it seems, hence its tendency to believe in a higher power but it doesn't have to manifest in believing in a higher power as there are a lot of Sagittarius who are atheists, those probably gravitate more towards science, philosophy or metaphysics and see this bigger picture through those lenses instead.

Since Jupiter senses that there is more than meets the eye they tend to believe that things will work out like they are suppose to, even if it doesn't seem that way at the moment. That is were their "faith" or "optimism" comes from; it comes from experience and that inner knowing that things are more complicated than they seem and that at the moment you can't see the whole picture yet. Jupiter/Sag and their ability to see the bigger picture also perhaps allows them to understand that even pain serves an important purpose and is temporary. When you have this "bigger" perspective like an eagle is easier to ride through the waves and hardships that life throws at you. When you are able to find meaning and purpose in pain, is easier to ride out the waves and hardships that life throws at you. When you understand at a deep level that we are here only for a brief time in the bigger scope of things is easier to ride out through the waves and hardships that life throws at you.

This been said I don't think Jupiter/sag denies that life is hard and they themselves go through hard times. When you hear them say something positive is bc they are trying to engage in coping thoughts that help them achieve a balanced perspective. Humans have an innate negativity bias so we tend to focus on the negative, Jupiter/sag instinctively knows they need to point out the positive to help themselves and others achieve a more BALANCED perspective that does not focus ONLY on the negative, not to DENY reality (the negativity bias will not let that happen).

That been said it blows my mind that Jupiter is exalted in cancer, is it bc such folks can feel at home no matter where they are? BC Jupiter rules the bigger picture, traveling abroad, foreign affairs and cancer rules HOME, I feel Jupiter would feel restricted in cancer , I don't get it. I feel Jupiter should be exalted in Scorpio.

(Through the eyes of a girl who has Jupiter in Sagittarius conjunct exact Uranus as her chart ruler. Plus mercury in virgo conjunct draco jupiter/uranus).

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posted November 30, 2018 04:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for capricorncheriscty     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Funny that you mention this. I think Sagittarius and Pisces both can be delusional because they tend to focus on the bigger picture rather than looking through the details. They can make errors because they only want to see the positive, fairy tale ending. Jupiter and Neptune are both planets that don't tend to see much outside of positivity and big dreams and big hopes. But I think Pisces is definitely more delusional due to having both Jupiter and Neptune taking the reins. It's twice the dubiousness for poor Pisces, reality is but a dream that they are constantly walking through. For Sagittarians, reality is still reality and they don't deny this but that is why they have such resolve to change the reality to make it more like a dream utopia that Pisceans also crave. Pisces is living in the dream because they need the escape and Sagittarius is striving for that dream because they also want the escape. I think Jupiter and Neptune are positively NUMBING planets lol. So much idealism to be seen that it makes the poor things go numb from it all.

I say this as a Sagittarius-Pisces person. Delusions are easy to make...I always think of that song from Wicked where Kristin Chenoweth is like "Can't i make you understand...You're having delusions of grandeur!"

And I agree I was also confused that Jupiter is exalted in Cancer when I first found out. You would think it would be Aquarius or Scorpio maybe. That would mean Jupiter is at fall in Capricorn? Weird. I think Capricorn would help Jupiter achieve his dreams to the world with hard work and solidify them so they don't go away. And Cancer would help Jupiter achieve his dreams at home with precision and care. Frankly, I used to assume those were peregrine positions... Granted, I don't really know of anyone with Jupiter in Cancer to tell if that position really gives an enhancement to Jupiter's qualities.

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posted November 30, 2018 04:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Lalafortunaea:

What are your observations of Sagittarius, and have you met some like this?


I have a teen client who is a girl and I actually enjoy a lot our sessions, she is a lot of fun and wants a motorcycle , she is good at avoiding talking about the painful deeper stuff and good at appearing happy, you would not guess she struggles with anxiety, self-confidence issues and mood swings.

I had a teen boy who just wanted to see me one time and he told me straight up in the session he just wanted to see me one time, he was also straight up about letting me know the session was very helpful and it was nice to finally let it all out. At one point my eyes got teary and he said "don't do that, don't cry," LOL. He is the only client I have had who has said that to me, hahaha. He had moon in cancer with venus in scorpio so feels deeply, I feel he knew he would start crying too if he saw me crying haha and his sun in sag did not feel that was okay, gotta keep it light even when exploring the more painful stuff hahaha.

Then one guy in his mid 20s and the other in his mid 30s both alcoholics, these two were more serious and carried this heaviness, struggled with self worth issues and depression, add my sag uncle who I adore, also an alcoholic. My uncle gives more of that optimistic vibe though but he also has moon in Gemini.

There was one Sag intern who was studying counseling and decided while working with us he was going to obtain a Phd on something related to theology. He didn't seem bubbly to me or the optimistic type but he had moon in Capricorn with venus in scorpio. I feel his passion was more for higher learning and exploring more so than counseling but he did a good job for sure while he stayed with us.

I could go on as I know more...

NONE of the PEOPLE I just mentioned are delusional, I can say that with all honesty, they are all very different too but I don't think they get into this super optimistic mode or get high of off faith. They are just regular people in pain like everyone else, trying to figure this life thing out and themselves out, feeling lost and trying to find their way .

I do agree with what rainysoul said about faith been a survival thing, I have come to realize that the older I get that faith is what gets you through the hardest times and that you need faith to get through stuff, is almost not an option, you have to have faith, faith that things will sort themselves out, faith that things will work out in the end and that it all happens for a reason.

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posted November 30, 2018 04:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for capricorncheriscty     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
But thinking on it, if Jupiter was exalted in Aquarius or Scorpio that would be its at fall in Leo or Taurus and that also doesn't make sense to me either. Jupiter exalted in Pisces and fall in Virgo would actually be the most sensical to me after thinking on it...I agree that it seems like Jupiter would be restricted to his immediate surroundings in Cancer, which doesn't seem very fun to Jupiter.

I think the mutable planets need to be exalted in each others signs, because only they can handle each other. Like how Mercury is domicile and exalted in Virgo at the same time. It should be the same for Jupiter. And Neptune should be exalted in Sagittarius too...Maybe?


But thats my idealistic Sag-Pisces self speaking, this obviously isn't the reality of the exaltations just what I'm thinking lol

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posted November 30, 2018 04:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by capricorncheriscty:
But thinking on it, if Jupiter was exalted in Aquarius or Scorpio that would be its at fall in Leo or Taurus and that also doesn't make sense to me either. Jupiter exalted in Pisces and fall in Virgo would actually be the most sensical to me after thinking on it...I agree that it seems like Jupiter would be restricted to his immediate surroundings in Cancer, which doesn't seem very fun to Jupiter.

I think the mutable planets need to be exalted in each others signs, because only they can handle each other. Like how Mercury is domicile and exalted in Virgo at the same time. It should be the same for Jupiter. And Neptune should be exalted in Sagittarius too...Maybe?


But thats my idealistic Sag-Pisces self speaking, this obviously isn't the reality of the exaltations just what I'm thinking lol


Yes! I can go with jupiter been exalted in pisces, my mom has that and she is WOW like her FAITH is so freakinnnnnnnng strong its impressive, she genuinely understands Faith and practices Faith, and I have Jupiter in Sag and I am like WOW about how strong her faith is. Then my partner has jupiter in virgo and he is literally the other extreme of my mother, I am like dude you need to have some faith, believe in something and NOTHING. I feel I am in between these two extremes

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posted November 30, 2018 04:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by capricorncheriscty:
Funny that you mention this. I think Sagittarius and Pisces both can be delusional because they tend to focus on the bigger picture rather than looking through the details. They can make errors because they only want to see the positive, fairy tale ending. Jupiter and Neptune are both planets that don't tend to see much outside of positivity and big dreams and big hopes. But I think Pisces is definitely more delusional due to having both Jupiter and Neptune taking the reins. It's twice the dubiousness for poor Pisces, reality is but a dream that they are constantly walking through. For Sagittarians, reality is still reality and they don't deny this but that is why they have such resolve to change the reality to make it more like a dream utopia that Pisceans also crave. Pisces is living in the dream because they need the escape and Sagittarius is striving for that dream because they also want the escape. I think Jupiter and Neptune are positively NUMBING planets lol. So much idealism to be seen that it makes the poor things go numb from it all.

I say this as a Sagittarius-Pisces person.Delusions are easy to make...I always think of that song from Wicked where Kristin Chenoweth is like "Can't i make you understand...You're having delusions of grandeur!"

And I agree I was also confused that Jupiter is exalted in Cancer when I first found out. You would think it would be Aquarius or Scorpio maybe. That would mean Jupiter is at fall in Capricorn? Weird. I think Capricorn would help Jupiter achieve his dreams to the world with hard work and solidify them so they don't go away. And Cancer would help Jupiter achieve his dreams at home with precision and care. Frankly, I used to assume those were peregrine positions... Granted, I don't really know of anyone with Jupiter in Cancer to tell if that position really gives an enhancement to Jupiter's qualities.


I love how you broke down jupiter versus neptune energy and your insight on jupiter in capricorn and jupiter in cancer.

I don't think focusing on the bigger picture makes you delusional though and if you only focus on the details you have no vision and might give up and get stuck in the negativity bias. I think the point is to see the details and the bigger picture ultimately (balance), if you see the details without the bigger picture you get discouraged and lose your way, more likely to lose motivation and get stuck. If you only focus on the bigger picture you are not living in the present and enjoying day to day which is a big part of life too. Also your work may suffer in quality bc you are missing important details and only focusing on the bigger picture.

To give pisces credit, what if reality truly is one big dream and when we die we finally wake up from the dream! I don't know the ultimate truth but it can very well be more complicated than this 3 dimensional reality we are in now, maybe not but it could very well be. Maybe pisces knows this is a dream we are trapped in and that we wake up when we die and they just want to escape from this prison which is actually an illusion and not the truth hahahahhahahah........sorry totally went on pisces mode.

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posted November 30, 2018 05:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
capricorncheriscty I enjoy reading a lot of your feedback btw, it always has a lot of depth.

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posted November 30, 2018 07:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PixieJane     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Does this mean that Sag and Pisces are big believers in the Law of Attraction?

I actually thought many on LL believed in that but this thread is suddenly making me wonder otherwise.

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posted December 01, 2018 04:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
"Pessimism isn't smarter than optimism. In this life the bravest thing you can be is optimistic." Iris West-Allen

My eyes got watery when I heard her say that.

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posted December 01, 2018 06:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for capricorncheriscty     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Does this mean that Sag and Pisces are big believers in the Law of Attraction?

I actually thought many on LL believed in that but this thread is suddenly making me wonder otherwise.


I think so. I am, personally. A lot of my Pisces and Sagittarius friends are too. Our Leo and Aquarius friends think it is beyond annoying lol. I don't know about other people on this site though, I'd guess it be somewhere in between with everyone on here. Just from what I've read through many people's posts.

I think we can attract negative energy if we pursue it and positive energy if we pursue it. We can have all our craziest dreams come true if we stick to the mindset of it, but the same can be said for our nightmares...It's hard being a Sag/Pisces with Cap sun though because everything is so pessimistic and scary to me, I feel like I ruin my Law of Attraction because I can never see the path I truly want to be on (

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posted December 01, 2018 07:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for capricorncheriscty     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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I love how you broke down jupiter versus neptune energy and your insight on jupiter in capricorn and jupiter in cancer.

I don't think focusing on the bigger picture makes you delusional though and if you only focus on the details you have no vision and might give up and get stuck in the negativity bias. I think the point is to see the details and the bigger picture ultimately (balance), if you see the details without the bigger picture you get discouraged and lose your way, more likely to lose motivation and get stuck. If you only focus on the bigger picture you are not living in the present and enjoying day to day which is a big part of life too. Also your work may suffer in quality bc you are missing important details and only focusing on the bigger picture.

To give pisces credit, what if reality truly is one big dream and when we die we finally wake up from the dream! I don't know the ultimate truth but it can very well be more complicated than this 3 dimensional reality we are in now, maybe not but it could very well be. Maybe pisces knows this is a dream we are trapped in and that we wake up when we die and they just want to escape from this prison which is actually an illusion and not the truth hahahahhahahah........sorry totally went on pisces mode.


Thanks <3

Have you seen that show The Haunting of Hill House? What you said is kind of like what happens there/is kind of a common theme of the show throughout. I think that show is very Piscean/Neptunian. The way it's set up and the direction of the characters and story. Sad story but relatable in their personalities...I think the twins are like us, "deluded" mutable kids and their elder siblings were the cardinal ones telling them to get real. That show hit a little too hard because I felt like the twins were exactly how I and fellow Neptunians and Jupiterians are treated sometimes...I sound confusing but you just have to watch the show to see what I mean

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