posted November 30, 2018 07:12 AM            

Aries Sun/Mars or Moon gets them to that "honest" place. As does Scorpio.

I watched Libra Moon/Asc Shemar Moore on Steve Harvey show a while ago and I recall thinking;"Gosh, well no wonder he is so desirable all at once.He is so politically correct".

Steve was dishing out "shoot from the hip" advice. And Shemar was coating and glazing it with pleasantries so that it goes down well when received by the audience member concerned.

I find that Libra Moon is excessively critical and faultfinding secretly(Virgo in lunar 12th). Because they fear breaking up the relationship or you leaving them if they are straightforward with you.

I find it funny to mention but its true. Libra fears being dumped,left or broken up with. It send their self esteem into dark places (Scorpio 2nd house)

So words said (Mercury) behind someone's back(12th)are not heard by others nor ever associated with them i.e " oh no Brian is a polite Libra Moon. He would never say something as offensive as that" etc.

They also tend to be drawn to or attracted to coarse or brusque types on purpose (another Aries 7th in Lunar chart manifestation).

The idea here is to be the "nice" one or the one who is liked as compared to another person in the relationship(7th house is also about comparisons)

But if you want them to be more upfront, do the reverse of what that guy did in "The Taming of the Shrew" i.e be annoyingly indecisive, on the fence, passive and constantly flip/flop. It drives them NUTS!

If you do that successfully, their more assertive nature will come out very suddenly I.e " Just make up your damne mind!!" Lol. Then you can smile and say to them "see how annoying you can be?"

They will then probably smile back to you and laugh " point taken. I will try to be open on one hand. As long as you don't take offense to it when i do on the other"

posted November 30, 2018 08:13 AM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Let me sit with 'em. As a Mars Libra and Aries Asc, I seem to ***s them off a lot

Aries Sun/Mars or Moon gets them to that "honest" place. As does Scorpio.

I watched Libra Moon/Asc Shemar Moore on Steve Harvey show a while ago and I recall thinking;"Gosh, well no wonder he is so desirable all at once.He is so politically correct".

Steve was dishing out "shoot from the hip" advice. And Shemar was coating and glazing it with pleasantries so that it goes down well when received by the audience member concerned.

I find that Libra Moon is excessively critical and faultfinding secretly(Virgo in lunar 12th). Because they fear breaking up the relationship or you leaving them if they are straightforward with you.

I find it funny to mention but its true. Libra fears being dumped,left or broken up with. It send their self esteem into dark places (Scorpio 2nd house)

So words said (Mercury) behind someone's back(12th)are not heard by others nor ever associated with them i.e " oh no Brian is a polite Libra Moon. He would never say something as offensive as that" etc.

They also tend to be drawn to or attracted to coarse or brusque types on purpose (another Aries 7th in Lunar chart manifestation).

The idea here is to be the "nice" one or the one who is liked as compared to another person in the relationship(7th house is also about comparisons)

But if you want them to be more upfront, do the reverse of what that guy did in "The Taming of the Shrew" i.e be annoyingly indecisive, on the fence, passive and constantly flip/flop. It drives them NUTS!

If you do that successfully, their more assertive nature will come out very suddenly I.e " Just make up your damne mind!!" Lol. Then you can smile and say to them "see how annoying you can be?"

They will then probably smile back to you and laugh " point taken. I will try to be open on one hand. As long as you don't take offense to it when i do on the other"

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posted November 30, 2018 08:18 AM            

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
That's a good advice. I'll try to act Libra Moon back at them as well.
Recently a Libra Moon suggested breaking up. He sounded so sure...he even asked me to wipe him outta my life. I agreed. He was surprised by my response and swiftly changed his mind. He didn't want to break up anymore. I asked if he can't bear to let me go, he says no, but since I'm happy being with him I should stay. Sounds like charity. Urgh...the death of me!

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Hahhahaha a Libra friend of mine said the same to me once.

Didn't last long, she left this time.

Then contacted a month later. Said Hi's and Hellos.

posted November 30, 2018 11:48 AM            

I know a 1st house Libra Moon that is like as you said: politically correct with expressing her feelings, emotionally detached and unfamilar with emotions. She acts as if she doesn't even know what emotions are nor how they are felt. She has even asked me about sexual desire since she has never felt it before and is curious about it. She is a Libra Mars as well.

Another one, who is a Scorpio stellium (Sun, Venus, Jupiter, Pluto, NN) with Libra Moon (12th conjunct Asc), Asc, and Mercury makes her life out to be complete hell. She's been through some **** but she has no desire to make things better for herself and constantly sits in a depression. I've tried to take her through it and help her out but she ultimately refused to do anything to change the situation. She isn't politically correct about expressing her feelings but was always bent on telling me how bad she blew up everytime she got mad (Mars in Leo).

Another one is one I knew for 10 years (Libra Moon in 12th away from Asc in Libra). She is not like the other two as she had drug addiction problems and struggled with dealing with her emotions. She always tried to numb her emotions with drugs and alcohol, probably as a result of the pain she felt from losing her father at 16 (who was abusive and had alcohol addiction problems). She is very direct about how she feels, even abrasively so (Aries Mercury conjunct Jupiter on DSC). She always was afraid around her father and walked on eggshells around him so when he passed she let all that built-up anger out and just let it all go (Scorpio Mars Rx in 1st).

posted November 30, 2018 12:00 PM            

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
That's a good advice. I'll try to act Libra Moon back at them as well.
Recently a Libra Moon suggested breaking up. He sounded so sure...he even asked me to wipe him outta my life. I agreed. He was surprised by my response and swiftly changed his mind. He didn't want to break up anymore. I asked if he can't bear to let me go, he says no, but since I'm happy being with him I should stay. Sounds like charity. Urgh...the death of me!

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What a d***

I think you break up with him. He is spineless. And look GORGEOUS when doing it. Libra Moon people are often very visual.

I forgot to mention another Libra Moon /Virgo Sun with a Scorpio Moon/Leo Sun. He(Libra Moon) took forever to decide whether or not to be in a relationship with the Scorpio Moon.

The Scorpio Moon broke up with him and told him to "decide what he wants".And that jolted him to act and solidify their relationship.

Moon in Libra tend to act in that way. You have to put a lighter under their bum to get an action. I as Mars in Libra try my darndest not to be so passive.

posted November 30, 2018 11:23 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
What a d***

I think you break up with him. He is spineless. And look GORGEOUS when doing it. Libra Moon people are often very visual.

I forgot to mention another Libra Moon /Virgo Sun with a Scorpio Moon/Leo Sun. He(Libra Moon) took forever to decide whether or not to be in a relationship with the Scorpio Moon.

The Scorpio Moon broke up with him and told him to "decide what he wants".And that jolted him to act and solidify their relationship.

Moon in Libra tend to act in that way. You have to put a lighter under their bum to get an action. I as Mars in Libra try my darndest not to be so passive.

I suspect that with Shemar, the ladies probably got tired of that indecision. Eventually, it just gets too much. No matter how good looking you are (Libra Moon peeps often are)

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posted December 01, 2018 01:00 AM            

my brother is a libra moon (pisces sun) and he is the most argumentative person i have ever known. i feel as though libra moons (esp. and specifically the men) tend to go out into the world very refined emotionally (and "beautify" everything inside) and so some can definitely be seen as shallow because of this (not in a bad way, i'm just saying). Libra moons often act very different at home than outside with their friends and social circles. My brother could be fighting up a storm and go out with his friends in the most serene head space.

I also know another libra moon (gemini sun) guy who is like that as well.

I will say that libra moons LOVE opinion exchanges, so they will often ask you what your thoughts are on this and that - and in that subliminal way, you will know where they stand on anything, if they stand on anything. There exists some superficiality in this placement though - thats important to remember. They have a need to idealize their expression to the outside world, however nasty the original emotion is.

posted December 01, 2018 06:47 AM            

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LMAO i'm sorry but I started laughing when I read your post, i'll explain further...

my brother is a libra moon (pisces sun) and he is the most argumentative person i have ever known. i feel as though libra moons (esp. and specifically the men) tend to go out into the world very refined emotionally (and "beautify" everything inside) and so some can definitely be seen as shallow because of this (not in a bad way, i'm just saying). Libra moons often act very different at home than outside with their friends and social circles. My brother could be fighting up a storm and go out with his friends in the most serene head space.

I also know another libra moon (gemini sun) guy who is like that as well.

I will say that libra moons LOVE opinion exchanges, so they will often ask you what your thoughts are on this and that - and in that subliminal way, you will know where they stand on anything, if they stand on anything. There exists some superficiality in this placement though - thats important to remember. They have a need to idealize their expression to the outside world, however nasty the original emotion is.

Source: I have lots of air in my chart and have attracted all types of libra moons throughout the years..

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posted December 01, 2018 06:56 AM            

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
So I did. I broke up with him last night and told him why. He said that I overthink things and will make it up to me, then swiftly sent me his favourite song. I didn't reply. I'll be away for 2 weeks and I didn't tell him. I hope that will shake him up.

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You over think things????? What??? Lol Very clever.

Its another way for him to deflect responsibility on to you and make you seem like the "bad" guy. Smooth Libra. Smooth!

Guys often do that to imply that the girl is the unstable one; they leave her in a lurch and with open-ended answers.

If they(women) are decisive and take control. They are too "bossy" or too "controlling" etc.

If they decide to end things on their terms,they are "over thinking" or "over reactive"

If they stay and tolerate what the guys does, hoping against hope; they are "gullible", "clingy" or "desperate".

I said to my sister the other day whilst looking at a video post of guys flexing and showing off their looks to get " likes" on Facebook,that there are less and less men to speak of nowadays. What we have a lot more of now are boys.

But therein lies the problem. Because girls are becoming more assertive women and coming into their own. Who then will be for them a worthy mate?

I think what you did was awesome. I say good for you for breaking it off.

posted December 01, 2018 10:44 AM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
You over think things????? What??? Lol Very clever.

Its another way for him to deflect responsibility on to you and make you seem like the "bad" guy. Smooth Libra. Smooth!

Guys often do that to imply that the girl is the unstable one; they leave her in a lurch and with open-ended answers.

If they(women) are decisive and take control. They are too "bossy" or too "controlling" etc.

If they decide to end things on their terms,they are "over thinking" or "over reactive"

If they stay and tolerate what the guys does, hoping against hope; they are "gullible", "clingy" or "desperate".

I said to my sister the other day whilst looking at a video post of guys flexing and showing off their looks to get " likes" on Facebook,that there are less and less men to speak of nowadays. What we have a lot more of now are boys.

But therein lies the problem. Because girls are becoming more assertive women and coming into their own. Who then will be for them a worthy mate?

I think what you did was awesome. I say good for you for breaking it off.

But also note however that he may be shook up. But not stirred to any action after the two weeks have lapsed. Prepare for that outcome too

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