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ChildofVenus
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posted December 01, 2018 09:03 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ChildofVenus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What are some placements or aspects of people who aren't into sweet talk? I think it's nice to a certain point, but it really doesn't work on me lol.

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posted December 01, 2018 09:20 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for SoulOfABird     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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What are some placements or aspects of people who aren't into sweet talk? I think it's nice to a certain point, but it really doesn't work on me lol.

You know Id like to think that Im not superficial to believe in words. Since people can say what they don’t mean, but really Im a sucker for sweet words. Words of affirmation even came in second to Quality time for my love language. I want them to be sincere though. Sweet talk through letters, poems, music can win my heart. I would like to believe talk is cheap , and I do some extent but at the end of the day I guess I like sweet words.

I don’t know anyone personally who doesn’t like this but Im guessing my opposite sign, Virgo. Maybe Virgo placements? Virgo venus or moon will most likely not tolerate sweet romantic things. They want the practical, simple, down to earth kind of love. Capricorn venus as well also? Maybe Aries placements.

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posted December 01, 2018 09:29 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ChildofVenus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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You know Id like to think that Im not superficial to believe in words. Since people can say what they don’t mean, but really Im a sucker for sweet words. Words of affirmation even came in second to Quality time for my love language. I want them to be sincere though. Sweet talk through letters, poems, music can win my heart. I would like to believe talk is cheap , and I do some extent but at the end of the day I guess I like sweet words.

I don’t know anyone personally who doesn’t like this but Im guessing my opposite sign, Virgo. Maybe Virgo placements? Virgo venus or moon will most likely not tolerate sweet romantic things. They want the practical, simple, down to earth kind of love. Capricorn venus as well also? Maybe Aries placements.


It might just be the way the person communicates though. It just feels like I'm being Smoothed Talked lol. It must be the Venus square Saturn in my chart. Like when a person says things like "will you be mine" Or something mushy it's like why are they talking like this. I like it to a certain extend but then I just say well this is stupid and this person is just sweet talking me.

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posted December 01, 2018 04:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sunpixie007     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
scorp mercury

cap mercury

virgo mercury

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posted December 01, 2018 04:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
aquarius and capricorn

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posted December 02, 2018 01:49 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for mercmercy99     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm kinda like that. I once had a guy send me Pablo Neruda's Sonnet 17. I was familiar with it... and that's all I could think about in that moment. Lol. It was a sweet gesture I guess, but I'm more of a cuddly lover lol. And he just randomly texted me it. If we were together, it might've had a different vibe and I probably would've appreciated it more.

I'm an Aquarius rising with Sag Venus and Mercury in the 8th with an aspect to Saturn. It's weird because my Mercury is also in Libra which is pretty much the sweet talker placement lol.

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posted December 02, 2018 02:07 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lalafortunaea     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by sunpixie007:
scorp mercury

cap mercury

virgo mercury


I've got Virgo Mercury. Moon sign's ruler conjunct Saturn and Uranus.

I like sweet talk to a certain point, but I need to see it met with actions. Too verbal and not enough sweat, blood and tears, and I'll become distrustful of the person. But if someone only uses words to express affection, nothing more, what they say won't necessarily have much gravity.

Of course, the Leo in me, if I hear someone saying something about me making me seem amazing in character, it'll be less about their sincerity and more about me knowing it's true whether they mean it or not LOL

I also don't mind it if someone shows care by buying me something. Not as a substitute for an inability to express love in a healthy way.

But a gift, especially if useful, is nice for me, because work involves that blood, sweat and tears. It's how we make money, so I don't mind things like that as a form of physically tangible "sweet talk"

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posted December 02, 2018 10:33 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for hearttreasure     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I don't like sweet talk.

Aquarius mercury here.

I think it has something to do with sextile to Saturn too.

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posted December 02, 2018 10:47 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for girlwiththerainysoul     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have Mercury in Aries

And my 3rd cusp is in Virgo


Yet I love sweet talk!

Perhaps because of my Mercury square Chiron in Cancer

Also having Mercury square Neptune


I love giving compliments and being nice to people! I think it's because of my 3rd house containing all of Libra, and Ceres in the 3rd opposite my Mercury

But I display dirty talk and quick-wittedness too! T square of Uranus and Mars square Mercury

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posted December 02, 2018 03:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Solar_Leo_Queen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I hate it. I used to have guys who text me in high school, "hey beautiful" in the morning and I just roll my eyes. I think it's a cheap way of flirting. You wanna flirt with me, you better get creative. My friends used to say how lucky I am but I thought it was nonsense. And especially for guys who think just being good looking is enough, they usually say stupid sh*t like this, thinking it would work on a girl like me.

1st, it sounds insincere. 2nd, it's PROBABLY insincere. 3rd, there's other ways you could say things.

Even with friends or strangers, I don't like them sweet talking me.

I blame my Virgo placements.

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posted December 06, 2018 02:47 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for DRVM614K     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Saturn conjunct asc sextile venus. I like candid sweet talk if that makes sense. couldn't be more accurate

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posted December 06, 2018 02:47 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for DRVM614K     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Saturn conjunct asc sextile venus. I like candid sweet talk if that makes sense. couldn't be more accurate

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posted December 06, 2018 04:01 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Plut0nian2     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by DRVM614K:
Saturn conjunct asc sextile venus. I like candid sweet talk if that makes sense. couldn't be more accurate

This. but only from someone I really like (opposite sex) and I would prefer it to be nom-superficial (about appearance/style etc).
I don't like it from others even if it's candid, I don't care at all and it bothers me, it's a turn off.
I have too much water in my chart but Leo Venus, Mars and Jupiter. I suppose Pluto squaring them affects them even here and Uranus opposite Sun and ASC is major reason I don't care about others' opinions when it comes to me.
My mom, her brothers, my grandparents and 2 of my cousins die for sweet talk.. even whem it's completely superficial and insencere they are heavy Aries/Aqua/Libra charts.

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posted December 06, 2018 04:34 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for DRVM614K     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Saturn conjunct asc sextile venus. I like candid sweet talk if that makes sense. couldn't be more accurate

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posted December 06, 2018 05:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ChildofVenus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by DRVM614K:
Saturn conjunct asc sextile venus. I like candid sweet talk if that makes sense. couldn't be more accurate

I have Saturn trine ASC square Venus that's probably it.

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posted December 06, 2018 04:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SoulOfABird     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
It might just be the way the person communicates though. It just feels like I'm being Smoothed Talked lol. It must be the Venus square Saturn in my chart. Like when a person says things like "will you be mine" Or something mushy it's like why are they talking like this. I like it to a certain extend but then I just say well this is stupid and this person is just sweet talking me.

Ohh yeah I really dislike that type of sweet talk. “Will you be mine” the cliche things mean nothing to me. Like getting roses on valentine. Too cliche. That’s why I think I emphasize sincere. I think you can tell the difference. Like to me that is a smooth talker. When says things without any real feeling or meaning behind it. I like songs that are sweet. That gets me. I more so mean sweet talk like that. Like my signature is a quote from a song I really like. Lyrics like that with meaning and love do appeal to me. When I know it’s sincere. Song lyrics that you know the artist wrote with their feelings in it.

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posted December 06, 2018 04:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SoulOfABird     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Plut0nian2:
This. but only from someone I really like (opposite sex) and I would prefer it to be nom-superficial (about appearance/style etc).
I don't like it from others even if it's candid, I don't care at all and it bothers me, it's a turn off.
I have too much water in my chart but Leo Venus, Mars and Jupiter. I suppose Pluto squaring them affects them even here and Uranus opposite Sun and ASC is major reason I don't care about others' opinions when it comes to me.
My mom, her brothers, my grandparents and 2 of my cousins die for sweet talk.. even whem it's completely superficial and insencere they are heavy Aries/Aqua/Libra charts.

I can see your Leo traits very well. You definitely have Leo qualities. Is it your dominant sign?

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posted December 06, 2018 04:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SoulOfABird     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted December 06, 2018 11:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Plut0nian2     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by SoulOfABird:
I can see your Leo traits very well. You definitely have Leo qualities. Is it your dominant sign?


How do you see them? Majority of people guess I'm Scorpio never had anyone guess I'm a Leo.
I think Leos love sweet talk.
No I'm water dominant.

12th H Sun and ASC in Cancer opposite Neptune and Uranus.
Pisces Moon and Cancer Mercury.

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