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TaurusVenusGirl
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posted December 02, 2018 06:54 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for TaurusVenusGirl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Who would they like? What would they look for in a lover/relationship?

Do you have experience with someone who has this placement or do you have it?

There would be no planets in the 7H.

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posted December 02, 2018 10:00 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dumuzi     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
you can't judge that sort of thing just knowing the sign of the 7th house with zero information otherwise

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posted December 02, 2018 11:04 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aries23Degrees     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Read Venus in Scorpio/Moon in Scorpio to get an idea of what they like : Depth.

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posted December 02, 2018 11:18 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hu_w_ryl_A     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I would agree with Aries23Degrees and also add that they would probably like intensity and passion in other people... someone who is sort of black or white, all or nothing and generally has deep intense (maybe darkish) emotions.
Not someone who is shallow, superficial or naively happy all the time.

But it would depend on other factors as well, for instance the sign and house of and aspects to the mars (if the natal is a woman), planets in the 7H, other signs in the 7H... also sign, house and aspects concerning the sun. In this case also the house and sign position of Pluto (since it's the ruler of H7 because the DC is scorpio)

So, can you give more detail?

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- DRACONIC SOUL SELF-

LEO Sun + Venus
SAG Moon + Jupiter + Psyche
ARI ASC + Neptune/Uranus

CAN - Mercury + Mars
SCO - Chiron

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posted December 02, 2018 12:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Lover and 7th house? lol

You need to check 5th and 8th and mars.

7th will tell you more about their shadow side and what they need in a relationship, not in bed.

My partner has scorpio in the DC and he feels I am too intense and all or nothing bc that is his shadow side, people dont own their 7th but attract others to express those traits bc deep down that is what they need in a relationship to balance out their AC, the part of them they actively own and express.

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posted December 02, 2018 01:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
AC TAURUS
With a Taurus AC, you wear yourself like a solid wall. Though at first you appear shy, quiet, introverted, or closed off, there is a hidden strength to you that suggests you are not a person to push around. Like the Taurus symbol, you portray yourself as easygoing, unemotional, slow-moving, and stubborn, wanting nothing more than a plate of hot food, your family nearby, and a simple home in the countryside. You wear soft, stretchy clothes and have a natural, beautiful look that is effortless and simple. You grope around for a quiet corner, a soft cushion, a cup of something warm, and a place to curl up in. You gravitate towards these things like they are pulling you in, and you stay in their orbit until forced to move somewhere else. In every way, you see yourself as uncomplicated, reasonable, and rational - a hard worker with a well-earned lazy streak, and a lover of the finer things in life.

Your Scorpio DC embodies everything that your Taurus AC is not, and everything you do not want to be: unstable, cruel, hyper-sexualized, obsessive, aggressive, power-hungry, and prone to explosive emotional outbursts. You cannot stand the whiplash-inducing emotional extremes of your Descendant Sign, or the under-handed manipulations Scorpio uses to deceive themselves and take advantage of others. They draw you in with the promise of sexual fulfillment, ensnare you with a loving (almost therapeutic) bond, and then lure you into a painful venus-flytrap of chaos and pain. They are afraid of vulnerability but desperately want to trust you, so your relationships are bound to be filled with pushing back and forth. To you, it's all over-complicated, over-emotional, nonsensical, ******** , and the games they play are more pathetic than powerful, in your mind.

Yet, there are still aspects of this Sign that you find irresistible. You can't help but be drawn to magnetic, mysterious, seductive personalities, who flirt and charm while maintaining just enough distance to make you want them. Something in you seeks to be healed and transformed, and they are just the type to do that for you. No matter how much you hate jealous, possessive, abusive relationships in theory, you tend to fall into partnerships with people who want to own and protect you and make you all theirs. You may find yourself with alcoholics, abusers, healers, and spiritualists who have fought through terrible trauma. But you can't act like the tumultuous, exciting, passionate nature of your Seventh House is all their fault. Looking at your actions from the outside, you may be surprised to realize how much you act out your Scorpio DC when it comes to your lovers and best friends, especially where sex or money is concerned. Only a few people ever get to see you in this light, and when they do you can appear to be very intense – so much so they may not be able to handle you. You bounce from absolutely elated to utterly depressed; from violently angry to lusty and seductive. You are (at once) amazing and terrifying, with nothing in between.

Your Taurus AC is set up to be a solid, stone wall between yourself and others, which gives the impression of soft strength and simplicity, in order to be a buffer between you and other people. You are so much more complicated, intelligent, and aware of yourself than you seem to be, but you know full well that not everybody is equipped to handle this side of you. Earning your trust is not easy. You are scared of betrayal, and test your partner’s love and loyalty all the time. Only a special few people will ever see past your unbreakable facade, and only after years of gaining your confidence. Nobody else will have the slightest idea that you hold such powerful sexual magnetism, psychological aptitude, and capacity for extreme anger - not even you, until you look at yourself honestly and admit this side of you is there.

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posted December 03, 2018 04:42 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for TaurusVenusGirl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It was that article that made me ask that question. The reason I used lover and wanted a 7H example was more about how thy would be a lover from their 7H perspective in a relationship than just based on the purely physically.

Thanks Aires but why the Venus and Moon?

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posted December 03, 2018 04:53 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lalafortunaea     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by TaurusVenusGirl:
It was that article that made me ask that question. The reason I used lover and wanted a 7H example was more about how thy would be a lover from their 7H perspective in a relationship than just based on the purely physically.

Thanks Aires but why the Venus and Moon?


When in a relationship, their "scorpionic" tendencies will come out a lot more. Need for deep, meaningful relationships. Tender, all consuming. They expect this and give it in return.

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posted December 03, 2018 08:06 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for TaurusVenusGirl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oooh, nice! I like that Lala!

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posted December 03, 2018 08:21 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aries23Degrees     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by TaurusVenusGirl:
Thanks Aires but why the Venus and Moon?

Well ime, the two planets describe the emotional content of what the Scorpio DSC requires.

Add to this Pluto conj Venus or Moon conj Plu.

Sco DSC does not make for easy relationships though. So much tension within the partnership and tendency for very strong and absolute emotions.

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posted December 03, 2018 12:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
If Uranus falls on the DC though their need for all consuming love is not there as Uranus again makes things operate differently than expected. My partner has Mars/Uranus/DC exact conjunction pretty much and he is scared of intensity and doesn't like that all or nothing type of love and avoids it, now when we fight I feel that is when the scorpio intensity shows but not in an emotional way other than he is deeply attached to me and won't let me go but not like my ex with venus conjunct pluto aspecting my venus conjunct mars in the 8th, that was truly all consuming intense love and sex we had.

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posted December 03, 2018 12:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Like when I talk to him about the soul bc all consuming love and sex to me is about the souls merging (I have venus conjunct mars in the 8th), he thinks I am talking in a foreign language, his Taurus rising does not get this, he can't touch the soul so he does not approach sex in this spiritual way like a scorpio does!

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posted December 03, 2018 12:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
He F*cks more like a Sun in Libra with Taurus rising to be frank, is more about the visual and a physical thing, NOT a SOUL thing.

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posted December 03, 2018 01:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
For example,

I have sag rising, I am very much a sag riser, I am nothing like a gemini. My partner is super talkative and I am often in my head not able to listen to him bc he is talking about things that are not Sag like and more Gemini like, he loves learning about everything and just collects information about all kinds of stuff and wants to share it ALL with me, I don't care about the little things even though I simultaneously admire how he knows a little about everything and can watch any DIY video and learn how to create or fix something etc, I am interesting in the bigger topics like why are we here, psychology, politics, astrology, other cultures,..he drew me in bc he would talk to me a lot about psychology, human behavior in the context of gender/dating/seduction (He was a pick up artist then) and he would talk a lot about politics, he drew me in a very sag like mercury in scorpio way, I felt he was expanding my mind and my world but he also talks a lot about the little things that are just as important don't get me wrong but I don't care for it. I admire the side of him that also irritates me a lot that is the interesting part. Even though he talks too much and it irritates me I simultaneously love it.

^that is Sag rising and Gemini descendant in action, now apply that to all the other signs. I bet my all or nothing, hate/love thing irritates him but he secretly loves it in a weird way just how him talking a lot irritates me but I secretly also LOVE it. That is our DC, our shadow side in the works, we are not our DC, our partner plays that out and we feel irritated by it but in a weird way love it too, is like they mirror this side of us we repress bc we don't like that side of us and don't want to own it.

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posted December 03, 2018 01:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Like aries23, he always says he likes people to be authentic, real and direct with him, he likes it if people disagree with him and are up front about it, that is his Aries rising talking, he secretly hates that Libra likes to keep the peace and avoids confrontation and maybe blends in with others at times for the sake of peace and to be polite (some Libras anyways, lots of them are not like this at all).

In his case you can see the libra traits in him but that is bc his chart ruler MARS is in libra so even though Mars is on his DC he also expresses those traits, I think libra is diplomatic, mindful about other people's feelings. He finds that balance of speaking his mind and been direct and authentic but while he is also been libra like, mindful. So when your chart ruler falls in the 7th is easier for that person to integrate into their personality their shadow side instead of attracting others that play out this side of you that you have a hard time integrating, that is the gift and advantage of this placement.

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posted December 03, 2018 05:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Brenda_S     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by hypatia238:

In his case you can see the libra traits in him but that is bc his chart ruler MARS is in libra so even though Mars is on his DC he also expresses those traits, I think libra is diplomatic, mindful about other people's feelings. He finds that balance of speaking his mind and been direct and authentic but while he is also been libra like, mindful. So when your chart ruler falls in the 7th is easier for that person to integrate into their personality their shadow side instead of attracting others that play out this side of you that you have a hard time integrating, that is the gift and advantage of this placement.

I'm curious how this would play into the attraction role, when the AC ruler falls in the 7th. Are you attracted to individuals that are just as equally similar to you as they are different?

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