posted December 02, 2018 04:22 PM            

For example, I have Aries in the 11th house and Saturn in there. My Mars is in Libra, located in the 5th house. I hate huge crowds and I never really felt like I belonged in groups. I would rather go out with just 1 or 2 people but not an entire group (although I still sometimes do because I have to). I also tend to jump from one group of friends to another or have at least two at a time. And then I just slowly depart from the group. Usually, people say I am the one that keeps the group together (Saturn), and once I leave, the group just falls apart. I am acquainted with a lot of people, but rarely do I ever call them friends. I feel more autonomous when I am alone than when I'm with groups. I like feel they drag me down (Mars opposite Saturn).

posted December 02, 2018 04:55 PM            

I have Aqua on the 11th house cusp. My ruler Saturn in the 7th and Uranus in 8th.

I always think that people with Uranus/Saturn in 11th find it hard to get into a crew they belong to. This despite both planets ruling the 11th.

When Uranus is in the 11th, one van be into a group that is very unique in some way I.e they attend underground jazz performances only for select people. They can be very "anti main stream" really.

So these guys find that its hard to make friends because they are so eclectic and into stuff that most people don't even know about.

I am like this. I don't have many friends and the friends I to have, I am floating from one group to another. Not really "belonging" anywhere.

My cousin has Mars in 11th house. And he is always in the middle of some squabble in a group. So exhausting.

He spends a lot of time with friends and organizes outings. So he is the aggressor in the group

posted December 02, 2018 05:39 PM            

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Originally posted by Solar_Leo_Queen:
I would look at the 11th house, the house ruler and aspects, the sign on the 11th house, and any planets in the 11th house and aspects.

For example, I have Aries in the 11th house and Saturn in there. My Mars is in Libra, located in the 5th house. I hate huge crowds and I never really felt like I belonged in groups. I would rather go out with just 1 or 2 people but not an entire group (although I still sometimes do because I have to). I also tend to jump from one group of friends to another or have at least two at a time. And then I just slowly depart from the group. Usually, people say I am the one that keeps the group together (Saturn), and once I leave, the group just falls apart. I am acquainted with a lot of people, but rarely do I ever call them friends. I feel more autonomous when I am alone than when I'm with groups. I like feel they drag me down (Mars opposite Saturn).

Also, I never understood people who were so into school spirit or super crazy about sports teams.

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Wow, swap Aries with Sagittarius and Mars with Jupiter and that's exactly how I am too. I also have Uranus and Neptune in there as well, so I tend to flock towards and "become acquainted with" some pretty interesting characters. I use quotation marks because I make friends very rarely. To me, a friend is someone you get to know on a more personal level, not just someone you hang out with to pass the time and alleviate boredom because you share a few things in common and because you get along okay. Some may consider that friendship, but I don't. Friends are harder to drift apart from. Those "acquaintances" aren't.

posted December 03, 2018 06:30 AM            

How I act with friends or groups?
I'm only aware of my Asc, my mercury, moon, mars and venus etc.

Reserved and distant at first.Observing. Then I will let my aries and gemini stellium to start to shine. And my plutonic mercury and my communication house 3rd house pluto/scorp.

My 11th house is intercepted cancer/leo.
The ruler moon is in 10th conjunct mars and chiron. Oppo uranus and saturn.

The only way I can interpretend this with my little knowledge of 11th house is, "what type of friends do I attract into my life". And "in what quantity".

The answer would be something like this: I attract sensetiv empathic people, who has saturnian/uranus vibes, very accepting also reliable people whom I share the same ethnicity and cultural background with. Only a few who are from a different culture then me.

But this could be my overall chart vibe anyway. Reliable (saturnian and earth themes in my natal). Empathic (neptunian tthemes in my natal chart and DSC in pisces) etc, you get it.

Also, maybe its uranus related, but I often meet people that becomes my friends, are in my life in a specific time amount (everything from 10 years to 2-5 years but it varies) then life will split us apart. Right now, All my closest female friends (sisters really) are in different countries. We have contact and everytime we meet its like no time has been in between.

It sucks to be apart from my real friends

I guess its an uranus effect :/

posted December 03, 2018 06:35 AM            

i do have planets in the 11th house but i feel that describes my online persona more than my real life one...

5th house also kind of describes how i am towards my friends...

11th house might describe some of my friends, but def not me....