posted December 29, 2018 10:44 AM            

/jk

posted December 29, 2018 11:06 AM            

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Originally posted by Lalafortunaea:
It'll be bad and confusing!

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Mars isn't strictly speaking the only component to sex. I'd think that it would be less diluted Mars if it's say, a one night stand, but for something that means more, then more influences will come out and add to the sex. So depends on what type of sex we're talking about.

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posted December 29, 2018 11:15 AM            

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Originally posted by Nine:
Both are better suited to a dominant partner in bed.

So there may be competition for the passive role.

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posted December 29, 2018 02:02 PM            

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Originally posted by Nine:
^^While talented in other areas, Mars in Gemini has no thrust. He is not the sort to pick you up, pin you down and ***k you. Rather, he's liable to tease your mind,1 kiss you, mouth you down...then surrender to your demands.

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posted December 29, 2018 02:32 PM            

Mars in Gemini ime likes to goof around and play in bed. Role playing especially seems like a BIG thing for them.

They can switch the aggression on and off- depending on the role you want them to play etc. Its all very mental to the ones I was with.

Whether you are the aggressor or they are matters little to them. They just want to have an awesome time regardless.

Mars in Cancer need to trust you. Only been with one. So perhaps I don't have such a thorough experience. But the more emotionally open you are, the better it gets.

Over time, sex gets better. But there are peaks and troughs. And it usually is an indication of how they are feeling and how close they feel to you at any given point in time.

Mars in Gemini is better with one night stands. Mars in Cancer is not so good with that. They are at their sexiest when they feel close to you or are intimate with you outside the bedroom 1st before they feel better about being intimate with you inside it.

Don't write off Mars in Cancer just yet. When they learn to read you( and they learn quickly), they can surprise. And the intimacy can be extraordinary & romantic.

posted December 29, 2018 02:42 PM            

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posted December 29, 2018 04:32 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
What would be less diluated Mars? And I mean both types of sex.

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posted December 29, 2018 05:55 PM            

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Is this the sort of thing Mars in Cancer likes? The Virgo I was with has Mars in Libra conjunct Pluto he's exactly the type. I had no idea I could get in some of the positions he had me in lol. The conjunction is almost exact. That's why I think Mars being in aspect to Pluto makes a difference. I don't know about the trine though. I know it wouldn't be as strong as the trine though. The Virgo does let me do things to him he's the dominate one though. But with the Mars in Cancer it's different I really like the idea of roleplay and being in control. Like spanking lol I've been showing him things that I want to do to him and he's been saying that he likes it lol. But I definitely don't mind being submissive.

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We will never agree how to rate someone sexually based on their chart. However, you must start somewhere. When I'm sizing up a person's potential in bed, I look at Mars first.

Of the twelve signs Mars in Libra is on my All-Star list, their "stroke game" is A+. True to nature, the Libra won't allow them to always want to take the lead or be on top.

posted December 30, 2018 12:55 AM            

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Originally posted by Nine:
True to nature, the Libra won't allow them to always want to take the lead or be on top.

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Ime they fuss a lot on how you are feeling and whether or not you are enjoying the experience. And most people may consider this more inclusive approach as "soft".

I think that most people want sex to be a clear distinction of the man being the aggressor and the woman being the submissive. That a "real man" must express himself more dominantly to retain the title of "sex god".

Oddly enough even in gay male relationships, the requirements seem to piggy back on heterosexual norms & expectations.

So even with two men,there is an expectation that one will be the more " manly" one and be "on top" etc. I am less certain with female-female relations how it is though.

So emotional men (like Cancer Mars)or those who show more qualities considered to be "feminine" like intellect(Gemini Mars) are not(conceptually) a big hit.

Brute aggression that borders closely on masochism seems to be a hit with many gay guys I know(Aries, Scorpio,Leo or Cap Mars types).

This is especially when it comes to their ideal of a peak sexual experience. Because in their view ,the guy must just "take it". Forcefully even.

I remember them drooling over Khal Drogo's (Game of Thrones character) animalistic appearance and his sexually violent approach to Kalisi.

And even though I found the relations initially between them objectifying to a point of being sadistic. Gay guys considered him(Khalo), the definition of "real man". I am not sure how women felt though.

Interestingly when their interactions became more loving and palatable. I started to be aroused by him too

But the same gays who liked him, were now off him. He had become "feminised" by "making love" instead of f***. So he had "lost" his appeal

So I too like the more inclusive nature of Libra Mars guy. As a Libra Mars myself, I have never had an awkward or bad experience with any.

posted December 30, 2018 12:50 PM            

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Nine, which Mars does the pinning down? I wanna try them. Lol.

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posted December 30, 2018 01:31 PM            

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I am still interested in Cancer Mars. My appetite has been whet by a first experience with one years back and Mars in Gemini is also right up my alley. Such a tease but so much fun too.

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posted December 30, 2018 08:54 PM            

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Originally posted by Supreme cT:
Dont make assumptions Im a mars in cancer man dating a girl with mars in gemini and we are having the best sex yet im addicted to her but than again im a air asc and moon so that’s compatible with her mars BUT dont let just those mars signs throw you off

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posted December 30, 2018 09:52 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
Do you like for her to be on top? I've read that men with this placement like for the woman to be on top. I hope not because I have no idea how to ride lol.

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Hahaha!

My Cancer Mars guy likes to try different positions, including me on top. But his favourite seems to be the missionary because he can hug me close. I thought it would be boring at first but with him...it feels so close, emotional and nice. I tried the missionary with an Aqua Mars but it didn't feel as lovely so I think it's the Cancer Mars in him... must have mastered this position.

posted December 31, 2018 12:29 AM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
Everyone keeps saying it'll be bad and confusing.

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posted December 31, 2018 04:24 AM            

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Originally posted by Leo-Cancer98:
Depends on what’s going on in their 5th House of “casual” sexual identity; sex before it fully 100% committed in the 8th House AFTER marriage (7th House).

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posted December 31, 2018 06:15 AM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
Do you like for her to be on top? I've read that men with this placement like for the woman to be on top. I hope not because I have no idea how to ride lol.

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posted December 31, 2018 09:06 AM            

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Originally posted by Supreme cT:
Not really we like to switch up the positions besides im a mars trine pluto i never been a big fan of being submissive i like to be dominant not gonna lie sex has been so good with her only difference is my drive is more consistent than hers

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