posted December 31, 2018 12:36 PM            

I知 dating an Aquarius w aqua Venus now and we are not compatible in many ways yet very attracted to each other. But I already know that if we broke up another aqua would take his place...

Arghhh seems I can稚 escape my NN. I adapt to the Aquarian lifestyle w great difficulties😱! I wonder if someone has similar experiences w NN that squares or opposes their personals...

posted December 31, 2018 06:33 PM            

I have NN 13ｰ Conjunct Mercury 18ｰ in Cancer 2nd House. I was very attracted to a girl. She has NN 1ｰ, Sun 5ｰ and Venus 8ｰ in Cancer. But I was shocked when I realized that she never attracted to me.

posted December 31, 2018 08:27 PM            

So many Sagi women I've known have been a bit sporty (or aspire to be) and fizz with energy. Needless to say they were very popular when I was at college. So earthy, Cappy me with my saturnine manner just seemed completely not their type.

In some ways, I think adjacent signs can be worse than squares. At least with squares you share a Quality and they often spark passion. Adjacencies just say "Meh". Astrological apples and oranges. You're supposed to have nothing in common.

posted January 01, 2019 01:50 AM            

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Originally posted by jjj:
I wonder if it happens to everyone and how they resolve this issue. I have a personal planet Scorpio stellium (sun in cap though) with Aqua NN (that squares my Scorpio moon/Venus/mars/Jupiter) and I ONLY attract people who are heavy in aqua or very uranian. They are very social, like small talk, joke all the time, know half county and are flirty with rather libertine views on relationships while I知 serious, heavy, intense, brooding and like one-to-one interaction rather than a broad social scene and I have like five friends....

I知 dating an Aquarius w aqua Venus now and we are not compatible in many ways yet very attracted to each other. But I already know that if we broke up another aqua would take his place...

Arghhh seems I can稚 escape my NN. I adapt to the Aquarian lifestyle w great difficulties😱! I wonder if someone has similar experiences w NN that squares or opposes their personals...

Happy new year to everyone

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Its interesting because from a Draconic chart perspective,you have a stellium in Cap. So I wonder if those draco Cap placements react with your natal Sun?

Saturn rules Cap and is the traditional ruler of Aqua. So perhaps they see you as the grounded force in their life?

Aqua likes "real" people ime. And nothing says "real" quite like Cap energy.

I have NN in Gemini. And this gives me a Libra stelium Draconic chart with Taurus(Venus ruled) Moon. I attract Venus signs a lot.

Do I attract Gemini energy too though?Yes. Mostly Sun,Venus and Mars. Virgo is also there(Sun,Moon,Mars)

But I find myself annoyed with them a little like I ask myself : Why do they try to do everything all at once?

I know why really. As with N.node there I get it. But sometimes they drive me nuts. Lol.

I think North Node is about developing something within us. A quality that could help us in the long run with our life.

With Sag stellium natally, being detached and poking fun at my beliefs (Gemini) has helped me to be more detached and gain perspective.

posted January 02, 2019 06:19 AM            

There's not much to add if you open a thread in this way.

posted January 02, 2019 02:45 PM            

MMarie - I do feel more confortable with Leos, I guess its the SN energy. But I never attracted Leo energy romanically. We just dont seem to click much.

Capguy - haha, Sag women! Most actresses are Sag women, so I see how their charm can kick off a sober Cap guy . Intrestingly, many marriages are made btw adjacent signs... my ex husband was a sag too (and me cap).

Aries23 - no, my draco stellium is in Sag, not in Cap. Some of my best friends are Sags.

Plutonian - Leo Venus/mars with Cap Venus - if the Leo venus/mars is a woman and the Cap venus person a guy it can work .

Helix - here is my chart: https://i671.photobucket.com/albums/vv73/giovanna36/Inkedchart_LI_zps94kldjv5.jpg

here is the aspect table: https://i671.photobucket.com/albums/vv73/giovanna36/table_zpsksxqvvnl.jpg

All my romantic interests have been either Aqua moons/venus... now finally an Aqua sun/venus man. They are so rational and detached and my Scorpio energy repulses them, yet I cant shake them off argh.

I have a Venus-Saturn and Mars-Saturn natal opposition that causes horribly low self-esteem://.

posted January 03, 2019 07:19 PM            

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Originally posted by jjj:
Thanks for all the replies... From the replies I can see that my case is a bit more dramatic because of the stellium that makes my energy more concentrated. Ofc there are many other factors besides NN that influence what type of persons we attract.

Plutonian - Leo Venus/mars with Cap Venus - if the Leo venus/mars is a woman and the Cap venus person a guy it can work .

Helix - here is my chart: https://i671.photobucket.com/albums/vv73/giovanna36/Inkedchart_LI_zps94kldjv5.jpg

here is the aspect table: https://i671.photobucket.com/albums/vv73/giovanna36/table_zpsksxqvvnl.jpg

All my romantic interests have been either Aqua moons/venus... now finally an Aqua sun/venus man. They are so rational and detached and my Scorpio energy repulses them, yet I cant shake them off argh.

I have a Venus-Saturn and Mars-Saturn natal opposition that causes horribly low self-esteem://.

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I'm very curious to know why you think that if the Cap Venus is a guy (it indeed is) and the Leo Venus and Mars is a woman it can work.

I love your chart.. That Scorpio Moon ❤
Scorpio and Cap mix is my fav.
Well I know Saturn hard aspects are very difficult and the self esteem problem is real.
You're right about your case being a bit more weird. Aqua squares most of your personal planets and Saturn. But do it depends also on what other planetd signs the people you fall for have natally.

I see that you have Eros in Aqua too.
It's something I recently relalised but everyone I liked had their Sun in a very tight hard aspect to my Eros and I have no other planets that make tight aspects to their Sun.
I can't say much though about astetoids, it's just smth I realised recently.

posted January 04, 2019 01:51 AM            

Your Sun/Mercury in Draco are in Aqua.

posted January 04, 2019 06:34 AM            

Thanks for appreciating my chart, I dont like my scorpio moon, it causes constant bipolarness haha. Sco/Cap mix makes me a very loyal friend/workaholic, but gives serious hermit tendencies I hate.

Aires23 - Thanks for pointing out my Mercury. You are right, it is my relationship planet, being so close to my DC, and looks like mercurial uranians are my destined match (big sigh - wpould crave a cap-scorpio man but they never notice me!). The current Aqua has his cap Moon/Mercury conjunct my DC.

And yes, the Grand Cross (my NN-SN axis squaring my Scorpio stellium and Taurus Saturn) is annoyingly hard to bear. The transiting Uranus has just started to shake my scorpio planets up grrrrrrr.

posted January 04, 2019 08:50 AM            

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Aries23 - Thanks for pointing out my Mercury. You are right, it is my relationship planet,being so close to my DC, and looks like Mercurial Uranians are my destined match (big sigh - would crave a Cap-Sco man but they never notice me!). The current Aqua has his cap Moon/Mercury conjunct my DC.

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Be careful not to judge it based on the Sun sign alone though. What the planet there suggests is predominant energy.

So Mercury close to DC suggests a chatterbox. You could attract Aries Sun through to Pisces. Makes no difference really. But there is likely to be something strongly "Mercurial" about your spouse.

They could be a chatter box(Moon/Mars conjunct in Gem or Mercury/Jupiter on the angle.

They could work in a strongly Mercurial environment- media, communications, broadcasting ,publishing etc.

Physically, they may look more like young boys than men. Like there is something that is eternally "youthful" about their appearance i.e James Marsden. Or that they are very slow to age i.e Keanu Reeves etc.

posted January 04, 2019 05:46 PM            

Planets in Leo or Aquarius square the opposition forming a t-square or even a Grand Cross which is powerful pattern completion.

Saturn, your Dsc ruler, is in H11, which is the natural house of Aquarius that's why you're probably attracting more people with Aqua than Leo placements. Although, you'd probably attract Leo Moons as well, since you have a fifth house Moon.

posted January 04, 2019 05:59 PM            

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Plutonian - My ex-husband had Cap venus and I have dated several guys with Cap moon (the current one has it too). They can be painfully serious and sometimes misogynic, but loyal and good guys in general. Leo venus/mars wants to show off and get lots of attention, to be the queen/king. If the guy had Leo venus and the woman Cap venus she would get crazily jealous of his showman tendencies; the opposite - a sparkling woman and a more serious boyfriend works better, me thinky . Usually Cap venus is hard working too, so he doesnt mind his woman being more worldly.

Thanks for appreciating my chart, I dont like my scorpio moon, it causes constant bipolarness haha. Sco/Cap mix makes me a very loyal friend/workaholic, but gives serious hermit tendencies I hate.

Aires23 - Thanks for pointing out my Mercury. You are right, it is my relationship planet, being so close to my DC, and looks like mercurial uranians are my destined match (big sigh - wpould crave a cap-scorpio man but they never notice me!). The current Aqua has his cap Moon/Mercury conjunct my DC.

And yes, the Grand Cross (my NN-SN axis squaring my Scorpio stellium and Taurus Saturn) is annoyingly hard to bear. The transiting Uranus has just started to shake my scorpio planets up grrrrrrr.

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I see.. Thanks

Scorpio Moon is my favourite Moon
Good intuition, emotional intensity and depth.

I love both the poaitives and negatives you mentioned about Scorpio Moon and Scorpio-Cap mix.

I felt like I forgot to mention smth and I remembered when I read Aries reply.
You have Mercury square Uranus.

posted January 08, 2019 01:17 AM            

Life is simply following through by bringing people of the type who can help show you what you need for of your soul's balanced development. Will you let it rub off on you?

Compatibility is relative. Planets/Nodes in Aquarius can be parallel planets in Scorpio, both in the same zone of south declination (11-20ｰ). Those parallels act as conjunctions. They may be the same planets that are square in synastry, but the dynamic of both is active. Planets in late Aquarius can be parallel planets in early Scorpio.

Don't resist - go with! The Aquarius types are helping you lighten up and bring your energies into outward expression and collaboration.

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