posted February 07, 2019 02:55 PM            

I find the swing between the Gem SN and Sag NN is actually really cool. In all cases when I first got to know them, they were all very prone to leaning heavily on the Gem and I could only see a few unhealthy attempts at Sag (excessive avoidance to detail or avoidance-partying/philosophy- not so much a pisces style, but partying in a sag way, if you catch my drift).

As I got to know them, I watched them do their own work/live their lives and evolve further along, realizing more and more of their own 'bigger picture', moving from the expertise of handling and busying themselves in a very Gemini type of way, to being a bit more happy go lucky, a bit more open and relaxed and able to see that not every detail needs held onto, that some of it is natural and is okay to either let go of or simply trust yourself over.

Granted, it came with a looooot of projection onto me, but I think the 'big sister' role I ended up in (and in one case literally) was habitual for me anyway. I only speak to a handful of them nowadays, but the amount of integrating I've seen from them of Sag traits was just beautiful.

posted February 07, 2019 09:26 PM            

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Originally posted by ayujegeg:
Can you go into more detail on "leaning heavily on the gem" give me some examples if you don't mind thanks.

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Mostly it entails being a little wrapped up in the details. Not like in a Virgo way, where it's hyper fixated and needs to perfect them, but more in a mentally all the heck over the place, sometimes can't see the forest for the trees kind of scenario. Often I would find myself being doused in a million and one reasons of why something can or cannot be, rather than seeing the reason behind it all- and I knew it well, seeing as my moon tends to light up the SN's that I've known.

posted February 08, 2019 04:41 AM            

I used to live in my head a lot. I often changed my mind about things and people and used to care too much about what they think. Sometimes I poured too much information into myself that it got confusing and I'd do a "system reboot". I'm able to clean out all the trash within and start anew.

I've a lot of superficial friendships but it isn't what I like, just that I attract friends everywhere I go. When you have so many friends, there're bound to be one or two black sheeps in the midst a.k.a frenemies. I've met crazy friends who feel that they need to destroy me.

Gemini isn't as shallow as what people think. I value "depth" as much as everyone else and I can tell when people hand me a shallow plate, but I'm too nice to cut people off unless they totally gross me out.

When I was younger I didn't really know how to do relationships - partly I want my independence/too individualistic, partly I wasn't expressive (Mercury in 12H to blame). It made people think I don't care, but I do. I also have problems with people getting too close too fast.