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posted February 16, 2019 10:44 AM            

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...If there’s compatibility in every other aspect?

She:
Aries sun
Cancer moon
Pisces mercury
Aries venus (Rx)
Sag mars

He:
Leo sun
Libra moon
Cancer mercury
Leo venus
Leo mars

I understand how important moon compatilibity is in relationships, but is the lack thereof detrimental?

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posted February 16, 2019 11:49 AM            

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Its not bad if there are mitigating factors.

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posted February 16, 2019 12:26 PM            

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I have that square in those signs with a friend. Its challenging esp for the water moon ime. I think its better to deal with that aspect in a friendship though instead of a romantic one, and even then it can be a bit challenging. We even have the same sun and mercury too and some other nice aspects but still that square can get really challenging, esp down the road. We are so different emotionally. I am more sensitive and intuitive to her needs and feelings than she is with me so things have been frustrating up the years.

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posted February 16, 2019 04:41 PM            

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I agree with SleepyDiary

I have a kind of even more "extreme" example.
My let's say friend's chart is exactly the same as mine (except of the Moon and houses) since she was born 6 days earlier than me.

My Moon is in Pisces hers is in Sag.
It's really difficult especially living in the same house with a person who squares your Moon. Also emotionally we are really different.

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posted February 16, 2019 07:22 PM            

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run.

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posted February 16, 2019 10:30 PM            

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I agree with me being more in tune with his needs and feelings than he is with mine. His cancer mercury makes him, to some degree, good at reading at emotions (usually by facial expressions/eyes) but in the end he intellectualizes his emotions and I feel everything.

So far, (and it has not been very long,) any disputes we have due to my sensitivity are quickly resolved due to both his diplomacy and my lack of ability to hold grudges (my Aries sun shines more than my Cancer moon in this aspect.) But I’m not sure how long that’d go on in the future.

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posted February 16, 2019 11:13 PM            

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I have the square with my husband, but not making an aspect, only square by sign.

I have the square aspect with my brother, and when the tension is high between us, especially recently, the energy vibe is uncomfortable between us. I don't know wether it is because he has Moon square Pluto, but I feel like I can not live at the same house with those energy/him.

With my husband, although no matter how bad our fight is, I don't feel those uncomfortable energy between us, but one of us want to leave the scene immediately which can make our issues become bigger.

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posted February 16, 2019 11:59 PM            

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I have the square by sign with someone but it is actually closer to being a sextile - me being late Leo Moon and them very early Scorpio. I wonder if this makes a difference or if being in other signs still stands out more? I have not been around them enough to tell how it will play out.

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posted February 17, 2019 12:25 AM            

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This goes in Interpersonal Astrology. Moving it there.

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