posted February 26, 2019 01:33 PM            

mostly it's just made me feel like there's **** that needs to change and i've sobered up (lot of substance abuse issues) trying to be better within my relationship (my fiancee and i have been talking about things being more serious, wedding, maybe having a kid, getting our **** together etc)

it's put a spotlight on issues, but more in a necessary way that's pushed me to try to better myself than anything and take **** more seriously

posted February 26, 2019 01:56 PM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
i have saturn squaring my moon/descendant and north node and my venus/ascendant/south node (i think the exact square passed) which also puts it conjunct my mars

mostly it's just made me feel like there's **** that needs to change and i've sobered up (lot of substance abuse issues) trying to be better within my relationship (my fiancee and i have been talking about things being more serious, wedding, maybe having a kid, getting our **** together etc)

it's put a spotlight on issues, but more in a necessary way that's pushed me to try to better myself than anything and take **** more seriously

just lots of focus on healing from past **** and being more responsible

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posted February 26, 2019 08:12 PM            

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Originally posted by SunAscendant:
Yeah Saturn conjuncted my Moon in Capricorn in my 7th house and my Capricorn North Node in my 7th last year too. It was absolutely terrible. I feel you

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so far i've experienced worse, i'm more just seeing the weight of the past and the need to do a lot to move forward with the future

i'm feeling pretty positive about this transit being over lol

edit: the exact square happened already with venus, and with my moon it's right now

i'm alright though

i feel like i need this to give me direction, and i've been through so much negative **** already that this almost just feels like a reevaluation break and time to put in a lot of effort to get somewhere better when this is over

when it hit venus i really ended up talking about my substance abuse issues with my fiancee and hers and us needing to stop together and better ourselves

posted February 27, 2019 03:42 AM            

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Originally posted by SunAscendant:
Yesterday my boyfriend that I'd been dating since early January broke up with me. I was worried this might happen sometime this month in February or next month in March since I know transit Saturn will be exactly square my natal Aries Venus on March 16th. My Venus is at 19 Aries and transit Saturn will be more or less squaring it on and off until the end of December this year. Should I just be prepared to continue having an awful time with love? I just got done with transit Pluto squaring my natal Venus and progressed Pluto opposing progressed Venus. I was hoping for some respite from the constant heartbreak and let downs of the past three years and I thought I'd finally found a good guy, but he sadly proved to be another liar who just acted like he cared.

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My sister has Venus 16 Aries conjunct Jupiter. And I use her as a case study a lot because I live with her and the transits affect her so poignantly.

There was this guy she was seeing from last year who broke things off with her because(as he put it) it was going to be 'harder' to maintain seeing her because his work will take most of his time.

Saturn is coming up to oppose her Asc and Pluto is on the Asc too right now by opposition.And like you, she has had quite the roller coaster ride when it comes to her lovelife.

Saturn tends to turn things serious when in aspect to Venus. Or they downturn to severing ties. Either way, Saturn is clear; if it aint working. Lose it.

My advice during the Saturn/Venus, Saturn in 7th is to reconnect with those that you already know. Because right now,new people will likely disappoint as Saturn is not about "new" but the tried & tested.

So for now, visit friends and focus on honing your friendships to a deep and meaningful place. And if you happen to meet someone now, they are likely to be strong in Saturn energy to impress you or make it to your inner circle.

It is likely that with trans Pluto squaring Venus in your chart, your intense nature was palpable. And perhaps this boyfriend wanted something light? But you brought in a lot of intensity?

Pluto on Venus could have you feeling emotionally more needy of a meaningful relationship. And this Saturn transit will emphasize that the more you keep on obsessing on relationships. Spend time with ffriends and those that have proved loyal to you. Now is the time.

But watch yout temper and be careful in going "all in" emotionally or writing people off because they don't like your curtains.

posted February 27, 2019 03:55 AM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
My sister has Venus 16 Aries conjunct Jupiter. And I use her as a case study a lot because I live with her and the transits affect her so poignantly.

There was this guy she was seeing from last year who broke things off with her because(as he put it) it was going to be 'harder' to maintain seeing her because his work will take most of his time.

Saturn is coming up to oppose her Asc and Pluto is on the Asc too right now by opposition.And like you, she has had quite the roller coaster ride when it comes to her lovelife.

Saturn tends to turn things serious when in aspect to Venus. Or they downturn to severing ties. Either way, Saturn is clear; if it aint working. Lose it.

My advice during the Saturn/Venus, Saturn in 7th is to reconnect with those that you already know. Because right now,new people will likely disappoint as Saturn is not about "new" but the tried & tested.

So for now, visit friends and focus on honing your friendships to a deep and meaningful place. And if you happen to meet someone now, they are likely to be strong in Saturn energy to impress you or make it to your inner circle.

It is likely that with trans Pluto squaring Venus in your chart, your intense nature was palpable. And perhaps this boyfriend wanted something light? But you brought in a lot of intensity?

Pluto on Venus could have you feeling emotionally more needy of a meaningful relationship. And this Saturn transit will emphasize that the more you keep on obsessing on relationships. Spend time with ffriends and those that have proved loyal to you. Now is the time.

But watch yout temper and be careful in going "all in" emotionally or writing people off because they don't like your curtains.

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posted February 27, 2019 06:15 AM            

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Originally posted by Caprika:
if you guys had it just now, that means TR Saturn will pass over this point three times this year back and forth when it turns retrograde. This was the first hit. I think the 2nd hit is in May or June. During this time the TR Nodes will join the Saturn transits so they will be hitting together. 3th hit is in October I think. I hate Saturn transits.
SA - I do not think this year will be good to start a new relationship. Just think about improvements on yourself in 2019 and self love.

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yeah i'm waiting on it, it's going to be by my ic too (pluto is) so i'm sure it will be interesting

like i said so far (and maybe it's because it's on my mars) i feel like it's showing me what i need to do and change to make things better and where i need to be serious

the biggest thing has really been substance abuse issues (which was abig part of my saturn return) and oddly my relationship with my fwbs (i haven't really felt like being near him, he just feels like a mistake i'd like to be away from) has been something i've wanted to break off (it's been about a year and a half), but in my 14 year relationship the pressing need to improve and make things more serious has had a spotlight in it

so the newer fwbs thing is gradually ending while my actual relationship is changing for the better but with this more serious tone and a lot of weight behind it