posted March 04, 2019 12:08 AM            

This is not my style. I've never attracted this type before, so dunno why this one is giving me looks. I've been teased by one before but never genuine interest. This time however, the rest of the synastry is strong.

Prince Charles, and Prince Harry both have Venus in Libra - both married beautiful glamorous woman.

posted March 04, 2019 01:38 AM            

Venus in Libra is in its domicile and therefore quite powerful. But I find that they are more drawn to agreeable "relationship oriented" types than those who are strictly glamorous and/or beautiful.

IME you can be "ordinary looking" with Venus in Libra and they will still be attracted. But what will likely atttact them are personality qualities like kindness ,grace,good communication skills, calmness,quiet and unobtrusive assertion,ability to get along with others and a general "joi de vivre".

Venus in Libra guys are turned off by ill manners or women who are too fiery and prone to temper tantrums etc. Unless Mars aspects Venus/Moon Sun.

This guy is quite passive and would prefer it if their partner was an iron in a velvet glove i.e never show fangs but imply you can bite etc. And they also like to keep options "open" i.e being inlove with more than one person at a timd and being torn between choosing between two(or more) options.

Camilla Parker Bowles was whom Charles was really inlove with. Not the more "beautiful" Diana. He married Diana out of "duty".

Camilla also seems a tenacious and determined personality who was unrelenting in staying in Charle's life even during his marriage to Diana.

In a way, I think this was what continued the attraction to Camilla for Charles. As she was there to "offer" an alternative from what he married. And always keep him romanticizing of the "other" option (even if prohibited)

Prince Harry married a more feisty woman. And that could be because of a sextile aspect between Venus and Mars.Perhaps also his Juno in Virgo squaring natal Uranus in Sag.

I find that there will be plenty to disagree on because his Moon in Taurus is juxtaposed to the woman that he married. I mean the ruler of of his 7th is Moon(Taurus) and it opposes Saturn.

So Harry is quite "matter of fact" and cool emotionally and quite traditional really.And so he expects married life to be an enduring life of "duty" and "service".

The Venus in Libra you spoke about will be evident only on the surface. He is more likely to keep an image of "all is well". But to say that he is a romantic and "heart on sleeve" type?No.

With Libra Venus appearances are everything. So if you are able to smile and keep up appearances, that would be good(even when things are not good).But be warned that most make lazy mates who will expect romance to continue even when they don't put in the work to make it so.

So it the attraction wanes, they will get more and more distracted by the "possibilities" outside and wonder if they have made the "right" choice. This is the."options open" part.

I bet that Harry wonders now and then if he indeed married his true mate(Libra is often preoccupied with that). In his case not so much for romantic purposes, but more for what will last(Moon/Saturn opp). As he prefers the mate to be emotionally self sufficient and not always in need of him to hold their hand(as he can be and will be emotionally unavailable).

posted March 04, 2019 04:40 AM            

This guy for ex is like the guys aries23 described, firy. He has Leo sun. He has Aries moon that is Square his Capri Mars.

He has Leo mercury. He has Leo Dsc/7th.
His chart ruler is Uranus which is sextile his Venus.

Chiron (true ruler of virgo to some) is trine his venus.

And his 7th house is Leo, Virgo and libra. Mercury is exactly conjunct his Leo Dsc, explains why he is drawn to me, strong opinioneted and I'm virgo asc, gemini stellium.

So I would say, he is a libra venus attracted to firy, down to earth, uranian/saturnian and intellectual girls. he does not seem to go after looks that much! He seem to look at all the other qualities.

Agreeableness. I am agreeable, but I'm more about balance and being just. Other then that I'm very vocal with my opinions and that just seems to make him, happy lol.. He can be very firy himself.

But as said he has aries moon sqaure mars, and leo... he needs firy people. The only thing he has reacted to with me is, when I'm restless and walk fast or when I'm too forcefull when pulling out the computer charger coard , seriously, he has reacted to that, he himself is always so light on his hand and slow lol.

I have taurus sun though, so I know how to be soft and sensual, I just have to be mindful about it and push aside my aries venus.

He has moon-saturn aspect, like me.
I guess saturn to his moon and sun makes him value other things then exterior beauty?

Like mature and down to earth?

posted March 04, 2019 11:44 AM            

my fiancee is beautiful (not bias she has a near constant stream of people who hit on her both irl and on social media and have randomly proposed to her etc and so on) and the type who will spend a lot of time on grooming (she always has her nails painted, always has her hair done, always has make up on if she's leaving the house, uses a lot of skin care products etc and so on), she's very feminine outwardly (nearly always wears dresses and things like that), but not as much personality wise

she's not always agreeable we'll have arguments over dumb **** and she's prone to over-reacting, but she does get over things quickly usually and we can be in the middle of a fight one minute and then 20 minutes later we're getting along like it never happened

also in the 14 years we've been together we've agreed to push through a lot of hard **** to be there for each other and i appreciate that about her, she's always willing to keep trying and working on improving both herself and our relationship

she's not just pretty she's also intelligent and has interests and hobbies and we can have conversations and she's capable of teaching me things and i value that about her too

i also appreciate that she's down for sharing sometimes and being with her isn't confinement to monogamy 100% all of the time (though our lives are with each other ultimately)

i have a limit when it comes to looks, i've been with people i haven't been physically attracted to (while in my current relationship, threesome stuff) and honestly i prefer to not bother

what i've found is people who i'm not attracted to tend to be really insecure (even though i never criticize their appearance i lie about being attracted in all honesty) because they'll tell me i'm too good looking for them and can do better and have done better and it turns into this really annoying nightmare

i care most about feeling a connection, and what i love about my fiancee more than anything is she feels like home, but i prefer a person look good

i find it a lot easier to deal with any kind of issues if they're at least good looking tbh

if someone's yelling at me but looks hot doing it it's just not as bad as when someone isn't attractive and they're doing the same thing

my chart (i have a lot of the placements other people brought up):

posted March 04, 2019 11:44 AM            

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Originally posted by Melinn:
And I had A libra venus classmate in highschool.He was in a relationship, but 4 years into that relationship, he started to flirt with an other girl.

He made sure to always bring up his gf to her in the conversations though! As if it made it more ok to flirt with others when you bring up your gf? Seriously I did not get why he was doing that?!

One could see he was head over heels for this girl but I think it was the libra thing about "wanna feel adored and likeable". Or maybe he was like "Yeah I still have it".

The other girl, my friend, she was a very posessive girl, so she started to react and act whenever he started to bring up his gf, like she would get quite and leave the room lol...

Of course this must have strook his ego evenmore...

I don't know of this libra venus flirted because he wanted out of his relationship, that may be the case aswell...

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i flirt compulsively even if i'm not interested