posted March 06, 2019 07:57 AM            

A few days ago, she told me about what she did to draw the boy's attention.

She wrote to the child a very extensive letter, with lyrics of romantic songs.
Then she went to the boy's house, And she put the letter under the front door.
But she wrote it anonymously.

I find it a very curious event, and I would like to know what aspects or signs might explain this.

My niece is a sun of Leo, with moon in Sagittarius

posted March 06, 2019 08:17 AM            

scorpio moon though

posted March 06, 2019 11:43 AM            

And Dumuzi, she sounds so intense! How did you handle it? I remember you don't have much scorpio/pluto in your chart? More uranian?
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I did this letter thing to my best friend once when I was younger, 17. We had a fallout for 2 months, she did snap at me for no reason and stopped talking to me.

She was going through stressful stuff so I did not hold it against her. But I did not try to talk to her either, I stopped back. We were super close though and had been since I was 13 years old.

But I was super loyal as always and for ex defending her if people gossiped behind her back etc.

After 2 months I had enough. Sure I can go all silent treatment but sooner or later I can't stand it. Now when I'm older my silent treatments are only done at crushes and to a very lesser extent, I will always talk things through..

Anyways I got enough, and wrote her a very heartful poem about us lol.. I was so good at poems when I was younger.

I put it in her locker, I stood in a distance and saw how she found it, read it and smiled. After that we were back again haha

Funny thing, she is a Leo sun (virgo venus)

I guess she appreciated the grand gesture
I'm a taurus sun and plutonic

After that we never had fights again

posted March 06, 2019 12:16 PM            

her and i argued a lot but we were friends for about 16 years or so even after that

she was intense though yeah, too much for me often and i'd end up telling her i needed time to myself and breaks from her (she'd want some kind of contact with me every day) and we'd argue about it forever then i'd disappear for months feel bad or some **** and then it'd go back to that

i eventually got over feeling guilty for needing space and not being able to deal with her feelings and the ups and downs and i walked away from it entirely

she's been married most of the time ive known her funny enough

in placidus i have pluto first house (in scorpio but libra ascendant libra venus conjunct) and it's also sextile my sun and trine neptune (my sun is trine neptune), but that's it for pluto

uranus is heavily aspected in my chart (venus, moon, ascendant, mercury, jupiter, chiron) in sag, nothing in aquarius (5th house, i guess if you count eros thats there but nothing major)