posted March 08, 2019 07:38 AM
I don't know if you have ever experienced anything like this, or if I explain it well.
I understand some people just have sex appeal, are attractive, are charming, alluring, hypnotizing even. Some people just have that effect and others respond. This isn't what I mean, so, with that out of the way, I'll try and describe. I even like being attracted to people, and will even revel in it, because it just means, hey, they're attractive and sexy!
But with these people... It's different, somehow. I mean someone who seems to.... give off some inexplicable energy, some kind of, IDK, wavelength? That activates "attraction" in another in a very base way, but, it's not enjoyable.
The people who've been attracted to these people did not enjoy it, and felt "violated", in a way.
The best I can get to describing it, is almost like a "manufactured" attractiveness. Like, something "induced" but is not part of the individual feeling the attraction.
Like getting drugged, but not in a nice way.
There's only 2 people I've known in my whole life who've had this effect on others (and only once on me, very briefly). It felt a little creepy.
They're both women.
The men who get initially attracted to these women, eventually become wary of them.
And when I felt it once, I also became very wary. I can't explain it any better than this.
Can anyone relate?
And I am wondering what would give someone this effect on others?