posted March 15, 2019 02:39 PM            

Though ime my Mars in Gemini dad constantly talks about sex and "getting ***** ". He is a Sag Moon so of course he is like this, but he isn't a cheater. He was loyal to my mom for 21 years.

posted March 15, 2019 03:07 PM            

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Originally posted by Electro DGX:
Normally I hear this about Venus in Gemini not Mars lol.

Though ime my Mars in Gemini dad constantly talks about sex and "getting ***** ". He is a Sag Moon so of course he is like this, but he isn't a cheater. He was loyal to my mom for 21 years.

I don't know any other Mars in Gem that talk like my dad but majority of the time I don't find Mars in Gem to be cheaters.

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posted March 15, 2019 03:30 PM            

Air and Fire are already impulsive and changeable energies. Add the mutable element and it's the lesser of the committed. That isn't to say they can't be- but they are the most changeable, the mots in need of movement/fluidity/change (growth).

Mars or Venus (though the receptive gets the worse rep because it's more 'passive' or 'sneaky' if unhealthy) in Gemini are very changeable. And in a more upfront way than Pisces. The latter goes with the flow of emotion, Gemini moves with the mind. The mind is often less trustworthy than the heart, so society likes to believe.

posted March 15, 2019 03:31 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
People say this about Mars in Gemini too. I see it a lot on Facebook. So everyone with Venus in Gemini and Sag Moon are cheaters? Lol. I just think it's strange that people think everyone with these placements are the same.

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A lot of it is just stereotypical garbage people throw around because of one experience with said placement that hurt them bad enough to hate it so much.

I honestly don't think that Sag Moons are cheaters. My dad is a Sag Moon with Virgo Venus and not a cheater, I knew a Sag Moon with Libra Venus that isn't a cheater and I know another Sag Moon with Sag Venus that isn't a cheater. Sag Moon honestly is not a cheater placement imo, but they are capable of saying some really offensive **** lol.

I also knew a Scorpio Stellium with Sun, Venus, NN, Pluto, and Jupiter in Scorpio that is one of the biggest cheaters that I've ever known. He was fingering some girl inside his car with his girlfriend at the time in the front seat.

posted March 15, 2019 03:56 PM            

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Originally posted by implosions:
I would say likely because the nature of the elements combined with the mutability of Gemini/Sagittarius is less 'steadfast' than the Earth/Water of Virgo/Pisces.

Air and Fire are already impulsive and changeable energies. Add the mutable element and it's the lesser of the committed. That isn't to say they can't be- but they are the most changeable, the mots in need of movement/fluidity/change (growth).

Mars or Venus (though the receptive gets the worse rep because it's more 'passive' or 'sneaky' if unhealthy) in Gemini are very changeable. And in a more upfront way than Pisces. The latter goes with the flow of emotion, Gemini moves with the mind. The mind is often less trustworthy than the heart, so society likes to believe.

(I personally think neither the heart nor the mind are that great on their own- they need a healthy balance between the two to actually function at healthy capacity).

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posted March 15, 2019 04:00 PM            

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Originally posted by Electro DGX:
A lot of it is just stereotypical garbage people throw around because of one experience with said placement that hurt them bad enough to hate it so much.

I honestly don't think that Sag Moons are cheaters. My dad is a Sag Moon with Virgo Venus and not a cheater, I knew a Sag Moon with Libra Venus that isn't a cheater and I know another Sag Moon with Sag Venus that isn't a cheater. Sag Moon honestly is not a cheater placement imo, but they are capable of saying some really offensive **** lol.

I also knew a Scorpio Stellium with Sun, Venus, NN, Pluto, and Jupiter in Scorpio that is one of the biggest cheaters that I've ever known. He was fingering some girl inside his car with his girlfriend at the time in the front seat.

It's because of experiences like this that I don't slap on stereotypes onto people with particular placements, and if I do it's because I see a pattern in many people who share the placement.

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posted March 15, 2019 07:08 PM            

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Originally posted by implosions:
I would say likely because the nature of the elements combined with the mutability of Gemini/Sagittarius is less 'steadfast' than the Earth/Water of Virgo/Pisces.

Air and Fire are already impulsive and changeable energies. Add the mutable element and it's the lesser of the committed. That isn't to say they can't be- but they are the most changeable, the mots in need of movement/fluidity/change (growth).

Mars or Venus (though the receptive gets the worse rep because it's more 'passive' or 'sneaky' if unhealthy) in Gemini are very changeable. And in a more upfront way than Pisces. The latter goes with the flow of emotion, Gemini moves with the mind. The mind is often less trustworthy than the heart, so society likes to believe.

(I personally think neither the heart nor the mind are that great on their own- they need a healthy balance between the two to actually function at healthy capacity).

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posted March 15, 2019 07:25 PM            

I was born with Mars in Gemini and I am not a "cheater".

This question -- or should I say the proposition -- is a lot like the question, When did you stop beating your wife?

I think people see the mutable air quality of Gemini and think 'sex' when they see Mars and too easily jump to mind candy for the trashy mind. People with Mars in Gemini have a certain variability, useful or not, and a certain need for variety, but it can be channeled as much mentally as physically.

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posted March 15, 2019 07:38 PM            

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Originally posted by Kannon McAfee:
How long do we have to shoot down this kind of presumptive judgment reductive attempt at astrology? Perpetually, I guess.

I was born with Mars in Gemini and I am not a "cheater".

This question -- or should I say the proposition -- is a lot like the question, When did you stop beating your wife?

I think people see the mutable air quality of Gemini and think 'sex' when they see Mars and too easily jump to mind candy for the trashy mind. People with Mars in Gemini have a certain variability, useful or not, and a certain need for variety, but it can be channeled as much mentally as physically.

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posted March 16, 2019 02:52 AM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:

I still don’t think it’s fair to assume they are cheaters. I have air and fire in my chart. Taurus Sun, Moon in Aquarius, Venus in Pisces, Mercury in Aries, Mars in Gemini and I’ve never cheated. And I don’t just sleep with anyone. What if a person has a lot of water in their chart but they have a fire Moon and a air Venus. That would make a difference. That’s why I’m saying it’s not fair to assume everyone with Air and fire in their chart are cheaters or can’t be loyal.

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posted March 16, 2019 02:54 AM            

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Originally posted by Bismarck2:
What if Venus/mars are in the 10th house, gemini, saturn squares sun from the 7th house?

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Sounds like the Earth/Saturn/Capricorn energy would also play a strong role, there. Saturn square especially- the boredom might come, but Saturn and the 10th house placement would likely keep personal boundaries/rules in place.

posted March 16, 2019 06:06 AM            

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Originally posted by implosions:
I'm not saying that they are prone to cheating, I'm just saying the unhealthiest expression of the type of energies of those signs and placements are more likely to get 'bored' and move away from what is causing the boredom. The cheating is a VERY unhealthy expression of this energy, and often more to do with avoidance of themselves/confrontation than anything else. I also said that it was just Air/Fire that are more prone- you yourself have pretty decent earth/water balance to the air/fire! I have a Gemini Mars and Moon, and cheating is nowhere on my spectrum; but I do certainly get bored easily in 'steady' relationships. Not once did I say everyone with those in their chart would do anything the like lmao.

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posted March 16, 2019 06:08 AM            

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Originally posted by PixieJane:
Some are thread necromancers, while others just keep posting the same or similar thread every other week or so.

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posted March 16, 2019 06:24 AM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
The only water sign I have in my chart is my Venus in Pisces.

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posted March 17, 2019 07:06 AM            

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Originally posted by PixieJane:
Some are thread necromancers, while others just keep posting the same or similar thread every other week or so.

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