posted March 18, 2019 01:21 PM            

She seems to have 0 attraction to them physically, but is not gay, so she says. She's never been with a guy though. Or a girl.

What I was told is that she generally doesn't notice them, doesn't find them attractive really. When looking at couples, she'll completely forget about the guy and only notice the girl's fashion and aesthetics. She paints but has never painted a man. ever. One kinda shocking thing she did was look at a painting and say "what a pretty girl."

And someone said that was actually a young man....

posted March 18, 2019 01:44 PM            

It Could be that she seeks emotional intimacy (Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces)

posted March 18, 2019 01:50 PM            

lot of environmental factors can contribute to that, and since heterosexuality is often pushed in some manner it tends to confuse people and some of them take a while figuring **** out

but shes only looking at or painting chicks which says a lot, i guess she could be one of those rare people who considers themselves asexual but thats unlikely

posted March 18, 2019 02:33 PM            

But the thinking about them, about the "denial of men" is so striking.

Even that little mixup with looking at a boy and ONLY seeing the feminine aspects to the point of denying or not seeing it's a guy.

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Originally posted by WhiteBirds:
Without publishing her chart it's hard to say.

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posted March 18, 2019 02:55 PM            

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Originally posted by Lalafortunaea:
Maybe.

But the thinking about them, about the "denial of men" is so striking.

Even that little mixup with looking at a boy and ONLY seeing the feminine aspects to the point of denying or not seeing it's a guy.

Sadly can't because I don't know it :\

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she might just be into femininity regardless of gender, there's people like that too with a strong preference for femininity or masculinity but not as much for gender

or she does like guys but also femininity which is why she rarely finds men attractive since most guys aren't

hard to really say i suppose, but i've been enough people's stepping stone (or been asked to be) to know that **** isnt clear cut for a lot of people + being bi myself

posted March 18, 2019 05:02 PM            

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Originally posted by Lalafortunaea:
Friend of mine told me of a girl she's known forever who seems to.... not "notice" men.

She seems to have 0 attraction to them physically, but is not gay, so she says. She's never been with a guy though. Or a girl.

What I was told is that she generally doesn't notice them, doesn't find them attractive really. When looking at couples, she'll completely forget about the guy and only notice the girl's fashion and aesthetics. She paints but has never painted a man. ever. One kinda shocking thing she did was look at a painting and say "what a pretty girl."

And someone said that was actually a young man....

What astrologically could give someone.... "dude blindness"? for lack of a better word...

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She could be like me. I'm asexual and aromantic. I don't get sexually or romantically attracted to people. So I'm neither straight nor gay, but I am more aesthetically attracted to women. Seldom do I pay any sort of attention to a man's appearance, only if he is very androgynous or borderline effeminate. Doesn't make me gay though, since I'm not sexually interested at all.

posted March 18, 2019 05:57 PM            

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Originally posted by Nadja:
She could be like me. I'm asexual and aromantic. I don't get sexually or romantically attracted to people. So I'm neither straight nor gay, but I am more aesthetically attracted to women. Seldom do I pay any sort of attention to a man's appearance, only if he is very androgynous or borderline effeminate. Doesn't make me gay though, since I'm not sexually interested at all.

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Hmmmm this could be a similar case then. Do you actually overlook men in general sometimes?

posted March 18, 2019 06:33 PM            

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Originally posted by Lalafortunaea:

Hmmmm this could be a similar case then. Do you actually overlook men in general sometimes?

I am very curious, can I look at your chart?

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I wouldn't say I overlook men completely. I have about as many male friends as female friends, so platonically I'm equally attracted to both genders. But aesthetically and sensually (what I find beautiful and what I want to touch and be touched by) I'm pretty much only attracted to women/femininity and sometimes androgyny... very seldom men/masculinity.

posted March 19, 2019 11:57 AM            

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Originally posted by Nadja:
I'm pretty much only attracted to women/femininity and sometimes androgyny... very seldom men/masculinity.

Here is my chart: http://i.pinimg.com/564x/f8/94/9b/f8949ba84e82b9596b77bd5098a17021.jpg

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Oh, thank you for that!

I had a small inkling there might be some Virgo involved, and Pisces/Neptune. You've got the moon in the 12th. For some they think Pisces can be very asexual (as can Aquarius). And Virgo, well, they're often into androgyny, or are so themselves (especially if men).
I also wonder if Neptune IC plays a part, being Neptunian at your core. It's also a very feminine energy.

posted March 19, 2019 03:00 PM            

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Originally posted by Lalafortunaea:
Oh, thank you for that!

I had a small inkling there might be some Virgo involved, and Pisces/Neptune. You've got the moon in the 12th. For some they think Pisces can be very asexual (as can Aquarius). And Virgo, well, they're often into androgyny, or are so themselves (especially if men).
I also wonder if Neptune IC plays a part, being Neptunian at your core. It's also a very feminine energy.

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interesting what you said about virgo, since i don't know many and i don't know any virgo guys aside from myself, definitely true about androgyny i'm not typically into it in someone else but i'm androgynous myself and come to think of it one of my female virgo friends alternates between androgyny and femininity

posted March 19, 2019 07:01 PM            

But whenever I think of Virgo for example, I can't help but remember that singer that a girlfriend of mine liked so much (posters everywhere! he's seared into my brain).

He's virgo trinity.

posted March 19, 2019 09:21 PM            

her chart is almost mine, 4 days apart so her moon is gemini rather than aries and her rising is taurus rather than libra

we have similar health issues too funny enough, similar addiction issues (though i have her beat there) we've compared charts before because whenever we do talk we click perfectly (she's the only person my fiancee ever seems to exhibitcany kind of jealousy towards which always throwss me off)

never wouldve made that connection though so it's interesting