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Topic: People with Venus/Uranus are you like this?
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ChildofVenus Knowflake Posts: 4045 From: Customer Service Rep. Registered: Apr 2015
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posted March 31, 2019 10:42 AM
Something that I’ve realized with having this placement. Is that I get what I need from different guys who I am friends with. One guy I talk to when I really need to vent, the other guy is nice and fun to be with I enjoy his company. The other guy gives me great sex and supports me in regards to my academics, health and he gives me things and helps me when I need him. I know I can actually trust him. So basically I guess I get what I need from each guy. And no I’m not sleeping with all of them.I know someone with the conjunction and she’s similar. Is anyone with this aspect like this?
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MMarie Knowflake Posts: 378 From: Registered: Aug 2018
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posted March 31, 2019 11:14 AM
I have a conjunction ASC/Venus quincunx Uranus by 2 degrees exact. Not sure if this is strong enough but also have Uranus in my 5th house and an Aqua descendant. What you explain happens to me a lot. Or atleast I find myself separating certain things with people that are supposed to be a collective in a relationship. Go to one person for emotional support, one a mental connection and another having a physical relationship/fwb. It’s like I’m always holding a part of myself back I can’t give all to one person. Not sure if this is the same as you explain and if Uranus is the cause of this.IP: Logged |
Stawr Moderator Posts: 4059 From: N. America Registered: Nov 2010
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posted March 31, 2019 11:19 AM
Nice!I have Venus (Pisces) sextile Uranus(Capricorn) I’m in a committed relationship. Totally played the field a while before committing to boyfriend. Since I was hooking up with someone regularly at first, that helped me get to know my boyfriend with out the need to make it a hook up since I was already getting that elsewhere. I didn’t end hook up with leo mars guy until my now boyfriend expressed that he is interested in dating me exclusively. And I said yes of course. As a Scorpio Moon, I don’t understand the whole getting coffee to catch up with an ex. Some people can stay friends with exes and invite them to their parties. I don’t knock them, but I just don’t understand it for myself. It’s just not my nature at all. My man people is my bf, parents, sister, I have some good lady friends, and one good male friend I’ve known since preschool. IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus Knowflake Posts: 4045 From: Customer Service Rep. Registered: Apr 2015
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posted March 31, 2019 01:00 PM
quote: Originally posted by MMarie: I have a conjunction ASC/Venus quincunx Uranus by 2 degrees exact. Not sure if this is strong enough but also have Uranus in my 5th house and an Aqua descendant. What you explain happens to me a lot. Or atleast I find myself separating certain things with people that are supposed to be a collective in a relationship. Go to one person for emotional support, one a mental connection and another having a physical relationship/fwb. It’s like I’m always holding a part of myself back I can’t give all to one person. Not sure if this is the same as you explain and if Uranus is the cause of this.
Yeah that's what I mean lol.
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MMarie Knowflake Posts: 378 From: Registered: Aug 2018
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posted March 31, 2019 01:30 PM
quote: Originally posted by ChildofVenus: [QUOTE]Originally posted by MMarie: [b]I have a conjunction ASC/Venus quincunx Uranus by 2 degrees exact. Not sure if this is strong enough but also have Uranus in my 5th house and an Aqua descendant. What you explain happens to me a lot. Or atleast I find myself separating certain things with people that are supposed to be a collective in a relationship. Go to one person for emotional support, one a mental connection and another having a physical relationship/fwb. It’s like I’m always holding a part of myself back I can’t give all to one person. Not sure if this is the same as you explain and if Uranus is the cause of this.
Yeah that's what I mean lol. [/B][/QUOTE]Lol ok just making sure. 😄 Do you think you do this to fulfill yourself with what you need and you can’t find the right guy to fulfill it all? Or do you think it’s more out of fear of giving your full self to someone? I think for myself it is out of fear maybe. IP: Logged |
MMarie Knowflake Posts: 378 From: Registered: Aug 2018
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posted March 31, 2019 01:30 PM
quote: Originally posted by ChildofVenus: [QUOTE]Originally posted by MMarie: [b]I have a conjunction ASC/Venus quincunx Uranus by 2 degrees exact. Not sure if this is strong enough but also have Uranus in my 5th house and an Aqua descendant. What you explain happens to me a lot. Or atleast I find myself separating certain things with people that are supposed to be a collective in a relationship. Go to one person for emotional support, one a mental connection and another having a physical relationship/fwb. It’s like I’m always holding a part of myself back I can’t give all to one person. Not sure if this is the same as you explain and if Uranus is the cause of this.
Yeah that's what I mean lol. [/B][/QUOTE]Lol ok just making sure. 😄 Do you think you do this to fulfill yourself with what you need and you can’t find the right guy to fulfill it all? Or do you think it’s more out of fear of giving your full self to someone? I think for myself it is out of fear maybe. IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus Knowflake Posts: 4045 From: Customer Service Rep. Registered: Apr 2015
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posted March 31, 2019 01:33 PM
quote: Originally posted by MMarie: Lol ok just making sure. 😄Do you think you do this to fulfill yourself with what you need and you can’t find the right guy to fulfill it all? Or do you think it’s more out of fear of giving your full self to someone? I think for myself it is out of fear maybe.
It's both for me lol can't find one guy to fulfill it all. And I'm afraid I'll lose my freedom.
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kani Knowflake Posts: 556 From: Registered: Oct 2018
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posted March 31, 2019 01:55 PM
quote: Originally posted by ChildofVenus: [QUOTE]Originally posted by MMarie: [b] Lol ok just making sure. 😄Do you think you do this to fulfill yourself with what you need and you can’t find the right guy to fulfill it all? Or do you think it’s more out of fear of giving your full self to someone? I think for myself it is out of fear maybe.
It's both for me lol can't find one guy to fulfill it all. And I'm afraid I'll lose my freedom. [/B][/QUOTE]There shouldn't be an issue though I think. When you get in a committed rl with one, you can still have male friends who give you sth. your boyfriend can't give you, as long as it's not sex (or maybe you both want an open rl, who knows). I also have male friends and my bf has female friends. No issues at all IP: Logged |
Bearee Knowflake Posts: 469 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted March 31, 2019 05:26 PM
No.I have Venus opposite Uranus. I like to get everythinf from one man. Friendship, good time, good conversations, intimacy. I like to focus my energy on one person. I want the same too... although, I want to feel like he has a life too, you know? I just don’t want to feel suffocated that’s it. IP: Logged |
SimplyLuna Knowflake Posts: 273 From: California Registered: Jul 2017
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posted April 03, 2019 03:52 PM
Not before. Now I am but with both genders. There are some things a female friend cannot fulfill in one. I come to learn I was putting high expectations on friendships and on a single person - which was unfair to the person and it wasn't healthy for me or them. It scare people away. I still have a close friend but I would have acquaintance too. There are some things my friends can fulfill while my bf can't. IP: Logged |