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Crystalm
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posted April 03, 2019 09:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Crystalm     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
So ignore my previous post haha. One of the guys I've recently started dating is actually not a Libra Venus, he's a Virgo Venus.

He has a Libra rising, Leo sun, Gemini moon, Virgo Venus, Cancer mercury and Capricorn Mars. What sort of personality will he have? Right now he just seems very confident and extroverted, intelligent and chatty. Physically he's very attractive and is really successful career wise, but I want to get pass that layer of him. What kind of guy would he be? What things would motivate him and do you think this kind of guy is trustworthy?

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Plut0nian2
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posted April 03, 2019 10:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Plut0nian2     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You should post your chart and his. I'm sure other members will ask you too. It both makes it easier but we can also see all his natal aspects and your synastry aspects.

What I consider negative as a Pisces Moon for example, might be positive for you.

So here is my pov. based on what you give us.
He must be intellectual definately, needs mental stimulation (Gemini Moon and Virgo Mercury).
I don't think he is trustworthy and I don't think he has many layers for you to pass tbh.

Air Moon, earthy Venus and Mars.. His heart desires different things than his Venus and Mars do. So there is a confict.. This with his earthy exalted Mars in Cap (damn that Mars, I wish I had it myself) make me think he is the cheater type. Capricorn Mars men (I know very few though) are too physical.

Venus in Virgo will show love practically and want to be loved the same way..
Aspects and house placements may make a huge difference. Also if you have a fiery/airy Moon you won't feel as I do with airy Moons. You should post your charts.

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Crystalm
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posted April 03, 2019 10:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Crystalm     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
He's apparently only had long relationships before and has never cheated.

I have an Aries rising, a Virgo sun and Mars, Libra moon, Venus and Mercury.

The amount of chemistry we have is super palpable. I don't think I've had this sort of chemistry with anyone in the last 3 years at least. But I like to take things slow and I don't want to rush anything.

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posted April 03, 2019 11:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Bismarck2     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Post the synastry/composite please.

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posted April 04, 2019 03:31 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Virgo Venus will make him sometimes withdraw into technalities or subtleties but I don't think it's a depth approach here in regards to personality or perception of life etc. This is someone who could have a tough on love type attitude but it will be mixed with humor and a very open heart. Mostly very light in personality , pleasant and harmonious I think.

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Hikaru29
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posted April 04, 2019 06:49 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hikaru29     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Crystalm:
He has a Libra rising, Leo sun, Gemini moon, Virgo Venus and mercury and Capricorn Mars. What sort of personality will he have? Right now he just seems very confident and extroverted, intelligent and chatty. Physically he's very attractive and is really successful career wise, but I want to get pass that layer of him. What kind of guy would he be? What things would motivate him and do you think this kind of guy is trustworthy?

Aspects and house placements matter too. If you wanna get past the surface, you should check those.

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Lalafortunaea
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posted April 04, 2019 08:23 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lalafortunaea     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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So ignore my previous post haha. One of the guys I've recently started dating is actually not a Libra Venus, he's a Virgo Venus.
He has a Libra rising, Leo sun, Gemini moon, Virgo Venus and mercury and Capricorn Mars. What sort of personality will he have? Right now he just seems very confident and extroverted, intelligent and chatty. Physically he's very attractive and is really successful career wise, but I want to get pass that layer of him. What kind of guy would he be? What things would motivate him and do you think this kind of guy is trustworthy?

Are you 100% certain he's not got a Libra Venus?

I'll give my take based on the info we have; he's got a masculine trinity (Leo sun, Libra asc, Gemini moon).
Emotionally fed by feedback, conversation, being social, knowledge. He likes to chat obviously, and wants you to share information with him, and he likes to learn.

The rising indicates there really is a side to him you don't know, and he's probably a bit afraid to let you get too close, for fear you and/or others might judge him. Socially, Libra risings have a hyper contrasted part of themselves that is not too evident, so what that is will take time to suss out. Trust will develop over time. That Capricorn Mars (imo) is a good sign, and often adds a layer of seriousness. Some might not think it a very "warm" placement, but, so long as dedication shines through, that can mean a lot.
The Leo sun points to someone who, on the inside, is very generous, romantic, and so long as his Leonian traits are well honed, someone who is quite brave and willing to fight for what he wants and loves.

Virgo Venus, yes, shows love through service and practical ways. He'll also be receptive to you doing practical, helpful things for him. Mercury in Virgo is the mind and communication, so he's quite analytical and will likely mull over what you do and/or say. So, he'll need some time to think things through to get an accurate assessment. Mercury Virgo can also be quick witted and come across as sarcastic. Virgo Venus (and Merc), the flirtatiousness has an "innocent" quality like a little kid. If they talk about sex and sexual organs it can even come across as a kid saying "omg look a peen! teehee" (not that he'll say it like that) so sometimes it can confuse others as if it's someone who's being overtly sexual, when really, it might just be him talking about something as an innocent kid would.
They can also be quite coy. But with the extroverted, social masculine trio, this part could be subdued.

As for trustworthy, to you specifically, we'd have to see your chart(s). Trust comes with time and opening up slowly.

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Crystalm
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posted April 04, 2019 10:30 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Crystalm     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Okay I'm trying to do this right now, which free image hosting website should I use?

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Plut0nian2
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posted April 04, 2019 11:41 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Plut0nian2     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Crystalm:
Okay I'm trying to do this right now, which free image hosting website should I use?

I use tinypic.com
but there are many others that don't even need signup like this one
http://www.upl.co

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Crystalm
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posted April 04, 2019 02:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Crystalm     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Crystalm
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posted April 04, 2019 09:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Crystalm     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Any thoughts? I am currently dating a few guys but I am starting to realise I think of this guy a lot.

I guess I don't wanna get potentially hurt.

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Hikaru29
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posted April 04, 2019 10:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hikaru29     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I haven't read your other threads about him but Sun/Moon conjunction is quite rare and you have it there in 8th house with Mercury although a little out of orb with Moon. But still, Sun/Moon conjunct shows great affinity between individuals although it can get a little intense (what more in 8th house!). No wonder you keep thinking of him! However, heavy 8th house can bring out very strong emotions in each other.

Venus on MC also shows a lot of outward displays of affection. Its minor aspects to Moon, Jupiter, Saturn are helpful. My only concern is your Neptune conjunct Asc square Venus which shows a lot of illusory - you sometimes ain't sure where you're going as a couple... a lot of projections/ideal images of each other.. and when the fog clears, you might get hurt & disappointed (esp. Chiron is also squaring Venus).

Btw, are the ToBs correct? Because this will affect the house placements and some of what I said above will not be accurate.

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Crystalm
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posted April 04, 2019 11:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Crystalm     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My other thread was just asking the same question but I got the placement wrong.

The tob are correct. I realise the chemistry reminds me of this ex I had a few years ago, and because of that I'm feeling alil uneasy. That guy was amazing and we ended due to circumstantial issues. I am usually very relaxed and find getting a guy easy, but this guy is starting to make me feel really jittery. Like I can't even really think straight cos I lose my train of thought when I look at him. I feel really comfortable around him, but the chemistry is ridiculously strong. I am not used to this.

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Hikaru29
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posted April 04, 2019 11:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hikaru29     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Crystalm:
I am usually very relaxed and find getting a guy easy, but this guy is starting to make me feel really jittery. Like I can't even really think straight cos I lose my train of thought when I look at him. I feel really comfortable around him, but the chemistry is ridiculously strong. I am not used to this.

It's probably the heavy 8th house. Some people find it too intense.

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Crystalm
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posted April 05, 2019 12:11 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Crystalm     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Wouldn't we first look at synastry atm?

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Hikaru29
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posted April 05, 2019 05:39 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hikaru29     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Crystalm:
Wouldn't we first look at synastry atm?

At the same time. I check Synastry solely only if you've just met him but you said you're already dating, right? The energies should already be felt.. and some of course will only play out over time.

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