posted April 10, 2019 04:17 PM            

i do know a commitment phobic gemini rising (she was married at one point, but she also cheated for a long time within that relationship and regularly wanted out it was a had kids young marriage), but she's also an aquarius moon, mercury, mars, and sun with an aries venus so i wouldn't exactly judge based on her

posted April 10, 2019 05:10 PM            

I have been in a serious relationship with my BF for four years. Been living together almost 3 years.

No sag placement. I have never been in a serious relationship with a Sagittarius. Or any placements.

Bedside Gemini rising I have Aries sun ,Scorpio Moon, Pisces Venus, Aquarius Mars.

Sister has been married almost 10 years. Gemini rising, Libra sun, Virgo moon, Scorpio Venus, Capricorn mars

posted April 10, 2019 05:34 PM            

My older sister is a cap sun, gemini asc, scorpio moon.

Her first serious relationship was with a sweet and simple pisces and they were always on and off.

Then she met a sag sun male..boom!!! she had her first child

In otherwords he knocked her up and they got married..two more kids followed afterwards for a total of three.

After having three kids and being forced to purchase a home in the burbs with the white picket fence in Oshawa(Leo-Cancer 98 should be familar with the GTA)..there is no way she can back out of a commitment now.

posted April 10, 2019 08:17 PM            

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Originally posted by Stawr:
I have this!

I have been in a serious relationship with my BF for four years. Been living together almost 3 years.

No sag placement. I have never been in a serious relationship with a Sagittarius. Or any placements.

Bedside Gemini rising I have Aries sun ,Scorpio Moon, Pisces Venus, Aquarius Mars.

Sister has been married almost 10 years. Gemini rising, Libra sun, Virgo moon, Scorpio Venus, Capricorn mars

Mom has been married since 1984 I think Gemini rising leo sun, Capricorn moon, Virgo Venus and mars

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posted April 11, 2019 07:24 AM            

I don't easily or quickly commit to someone but when I do, I'm very committed. Gemini rising can come across very flirty but doesn't mean we will cheat. I've never cheated in my life.

posted April 12, 2019 03:35 AM            

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Originally posted by Dons2angelss:
Um.... Yes 😂 😂 but I also have venus exactly in the middle of the 12th house opposite saturn, nn exactly on my ascendant, AND uranus in the 7th conjunct my descendant/south node so I'm guessing it's not just the gemini rising lol. Damn if I don't constantly find myself with one foot out the door ready to run. Pretty sure I'm not meant to be tied down in this lifetime. The thought of being a housewife gives me nightmares!

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posted April 12, 2019 10:36 AM            

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Originally posted by Brenda_S:
How would you differentiate your nodes from the rest of those placements?

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posted April 12, 2019 05:45 PM            

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Originally posted by Dons2angelss:
NN on the ascendant has a heavy focus on finding yourself, by yourself, instead of relying on relationships.

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posted April 13, 2019 04:54 PM            

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Originally posted by Astra:
All of the Gemini risings I know married young (20-22) and so far are still married 15 years later.

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posted April 13, 2019 05:12 PM            

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Originally posted by Astra:
All of the Gemini risings I know married young (20-22) and so far are still married 15 years later.

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posted April 14, 2019 04:41 AM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
depends on the entire chart

i do know a commitment phobic gemini rising (she was married at one point, but she also cheated for a long time within that relationship and regularly wanted out it was a had kids young marriage), but she's also an aquarius moon, mercury, mars, and sun with an aries venus so i wouldn't exactly judge based on her

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I agree.The whole chart must be looked at.

If Jupiter is in aspect with Uranus for instance.Or in aspect with Venus or Sun/Moon, then there might be a heightened preference to keep things "open-ended"

If Jupiter is in the 5th house for Gem rising. Or Jupiter in aspect to Venus, I suspect there might be great joy in being in a "committed" set-up (as Venus rules the 5th house of romance/pleasure for Gemini Asc and Jupiter rules the 7th house of partnerships).

My little sister has Gem rising with ruler of the 5th(Venus) in 5th. So she enjoys dating etc. But Venus is in Scorpio and Scorpio Venus therefore is ruled by Pluto in 6th.

This plays out with her as if she had Venus in 6th i.e her lovelife(Venus) is tumultuous(Scorpio) and quite a challenge for her since its in her 6th.

So for people who have Venus(planet of relationships) in 6th, love or partnerships can be a painful Achilles heel

My sister has Scorpio themes in her love life i.e controlling behaviour by partners, a tendency to confuse drama with "depth". Good, straightforward guys don't 'do it' for her.She likes "bad boys".

Add to that Jupiter(ruler of the 7th) is in Scorpio & also in the 6th house.So this emphasizes the difficulty in the love life. And though there is no aspect between Venus and Jupiter, they are joined by a sign(Scorpio).

posted April 14, 2019 08:32 AM            

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Originally posted by Brenda_S:
Right, my question is how you personally feel about it. About your South Node specifically. Can you differentiate it playing out? And how do you view relationships from that standpoint?

And can you ever see yourself being in one?

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I've always thought people get entirely too lost or obsessed in relationships. All I see on Facebook are girls wanting to hurry up and get married. I don't understand it at all. I'm not against being in a serious relationship or married, I just truly believe too many people aren't aware of their selves well enough to make that kind of decision. I can see myself being married one day, but not losing my autonomy. That I consider to be my sn on the descendant. My planetary placements just color how I go about it and who I'd be willing to do that with.

posted April 14, 2019 08:39 AM            

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Originally posted by Leo-Cancer98:
Would the same concept apply if one had their Sun (Aries), Mercury, Jupiter (Aries) and North Node (Aries) in the 1st House? Even if they had a Libra Moon in the 7th House?

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posted April 14, 2019 03:20 PM            

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Originally posted by Dons2angelss:
I've always thought people get entirely too lost or obsessed in relationships. All I see on Facebook are girls wanting to hurry up and get married. I don't understand it at all. I'm not against being in a serious relationship or married, I just truly believe too many people aren't aware of their selves well enough to make that kind of decision. I can see myself being married one day, but not losing my autonomy. That I consider to be my sn on the descendant. My planetary placements just color how I go about it and who I'd be willing to do that with.

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posted April 23, 2019 05:34 PM            

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
NOT TRUUUUEEEEE.....!!

I don't easily or quickly commit to someone but when I do, I'm very committed. Gemini rising can come across very flirty but doesn't mean we will cheat. I've never cheated in my life.

Taurus Sun
Sag Moon
Gemini Venus (ya, I know...)
Pisces Mars

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I agree I know a Taurus sun girl with Gemini AC, Scorp Moon and she is totally loyal and trad but quirky with Uray in 1st. She was an independent career woman until circumstances and marriage forced her to give up work. But as caring for her kids felt like her profession (former children’s nurse) she was ok with being a mom, which was her husband’s idea. She gave a lot up for her guy. Home country, proximity to family, career...

posted April 23, 2019 05:44 PM            

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Originally posted by diamondbaby:
Nope. When it comes to commitment phobia, Aquarius/Pisces energy comes to my mind.

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I do know a Pisces with Gem AC who cheated on his wife towards the end of a 16 year rel’ship.

posted April 23, 2019 08:00 PM            

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Originally posted by Leo-Cancer98:
How is your Pisces Venus aspected? How is your sisters’ Scorpio Venus aspected?

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I have
Jupiter trine Venus, Mercury sextile Venus, Uranus sextile venus, and asc square Venus