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kani
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posted April 15, 2019 08:46 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for kani     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My boyfriend is like this. When he talks and someone tries to interrupt him (because he can go on and on for ages) he just keeps talking and doesn't get rattled in the slightest. He goes off on a tangent very often as well while I usually get straight to the point. I know it's a synastry thing but he has been accused of holding monologues instead dialogues by numerous other people so it must be something in the natal.

Which aspects do you think create this?

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posted April 15, 2019 10:44 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Melinn     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I know of only a person in my life that is like you describe, but I think, worse. Indeed, monologes, and he can go and on and oooon! Drives me crazy! A class mate. Very much younger then all of us in our program.

Yes the whole chart yadayada.. but if we look "only" at his Retrograde Taurus Mercury it is aspecting:

Pluto (oppo)
Moon (oppo)

Saturn
Jupiter
Uranus
Neptune

Mercury is in his 11th house.


He is a compulsive talker. He is aware, he can say "oh now I'm going on and on again, I know!".But He won't and can't stop! Its horrendous haha. People are too polite to end his monologues though. I most be the only one making him stop by telling him upfront hahah. Good thing he is not easily offended!

Also his way of speaking is, a bit special. He is like an old dude in a young body, he is talking like a super talkative old man would, his manners the way he speak etc. Other then that he is such a sweet and kind and helpful persun! He is a sweatheart for real. I just hope he will be able to control himself with age because this is super unattractive! No women could bare with this and yeah not attractive when he does this...

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kani
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posted April 15, 2019 11:35 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for kani     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
@Melinn

my boyfriend is a Taurus sun and his mercury in Aries is in his 2nd house (at the end of his 2nd house). His sun is in his 3rd. His Taurus placement makes him not easily bothered by outer influcences (he has a Cap ascendant as well) I think and 2 planets in his 2nd (moon and merc) emphasise this trait even more I feel.
It's good for him that he doesn't get distracted too easily (unlike me...) but it can be really annoying when he goes on his reaaaallly long monologues.

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posted April 15, 2019 12:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for anonymidarkness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sag Mercury!! and on top of that my brother's voice tends to get louder with time..

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posted April 15, 2019 12:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for anonymidarkness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sag Mercury!! and on top of that my brother's voice tends to get louder with time!!!!

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posted April 15, 2019 12:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for kani     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by anonymidarkness:
Sag Mercury!! and on top of that my brother's voice tends to get louder with time!!!!

in which house is his mercury and does it make aspects to other planets?

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Melinn
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posted April 15, 2019 01:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Melinn     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I can't fully grasp how your bf,s energy is while he is talking, do you mean he is super focused and never loses his beat? Or he will not let others talk? I guess I would have to experience his energy for myself to grasp it

Yes this friend has taurus stellium, sun,mars mercury. All in 11th. Only one gemini planet, venus in 12th.

What sign is your mercury Kani? and aspects?

I am super focused talker myself, like if I'm telling something, I will not lose a beat. I'm super serious, if I get interrupted (which only happens with close family. And seldom with friends) I will go back to what I was talking about, even if its been hours or even, weeks! I will NEVER forget where I left of. But I will not push through with monologues, I need it to be flowing conversations and will always let others come in so the convos can be flowy and natural.

Unless I'm all riled up or saying something important, I will then not let anyone interrupt and say "Ok, let me just finish".

I think its the blessing of my gemini stellium and plutonic energy. I can intechange between super fixed and focused and demanding to flowy and jump from one topic to the other. I have both and its great lol


Is your mercury mutual sign? Do you easily get distracted and forget what you were saying if people burst in?

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posted April 15, 2019 02:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for kani     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Melinn:
I can't fully grasp how your bf,s energy is while he is talking, do you mean he is super focused and never loses his beat? Or he will not let others talk? I guess I would have to experience his energy for myself to grasp it

Yes this friend has taurus stellium, sun,mars mercury. All in 11th. Only one gemini planet, venus in 12th.

What sign is your mercury Kani? and aspects?

I am super focused talker myself, like if I'm telling something, I will not lose a beat. I'm super serious, if I get interrupted (which only happens with close family. And seldom with friends) I will go back to what I was talking about, even if its been hours or even, weeks! I will NEVER forget where I left of. But I will not push through with monologues, I need it to be flowing conversations and will always let others come in so the convos can be flowy and natural.

Unless I'm all riled up or saying something important, I will then not let anyone interrupt and say "Ok, let me just finish".

I think its the blessing of my gemini stellium and plutonic energy. I can intechange between super fixed and focused and demanding to flowy and jump from one topic to the other. I have both and its great lol


Is your mercury mutual sign? Do you easily get distracted and forget what you were saying if people burst in?


Yes he is very focussed and he doesn't lose his beat and when someone tries to interrupt he just keeps talking . But it depends on the peoeple he is with. He is more flexible with people who he is not too familiar with but even then he can hold monologues.

"I'm super serious, if I get interrupted (which only happens with close family. And seldom with friends) I will go back to what I was talking about, even if its been hours or even, weeks!"

He is like that as well! When the other people already moved on with the topic, he goes back to where he left off hahaha.

I don't get interrupted often, but I prefer to have a flowing conversation, a give and take type of thing and an exchange of ideas and opinions. Conversations are about learning and growth ideally and that can't be done if you just keep on talking yourself.

My mercury is in a fixed sign (Aquarius) in the 8th house so I don't easily forget what I wanted to say. When someone interrupts me in an important sentence I say "don't interrupt" me. That annoys me and I show it. If it's not anything too important I let it slide. My mercury makes a square to my Uranus, trines Pluto and sextiles Neptune. I do tend to jump from one topic to another, but that is down to my thoughts being very quick and the images in my head changing very often. That's something my boyfriend doesn't like.

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