posted April 26, 2019 12:14 AM            

With these sort of posts you will have a lot of people saying ' My Dad has this and he has been married to my Mother for 30 years and he's faithful ' ... because obviously Astrology only contributes to so much of peoples actions, there are always other factors involved too.

BUT in my OWN experience, every male I have encountered whether it's a friend, relative, lover etc. wasn't faithful.

Infact I knew of a Scorpio man who was having an affair on his Leo wife with his Scorpio mistress. (His moon In Leo squared his Scorpio Venus!) And not only that, with sex workers too.

posted April 26, 2019 05:49 AM            

I think the person with the challenging aspect between the two tends to date people(Venus) who are far removed from what feels familiar(Moon).

Being attracted to someone of a differing cultural background,different social mores or values etc. that are not familiar to one is often the result.

This could be someone who dates outside their religious upbringing ,social group or class background etc as. there is an unconscious need to shock(opposition) oneself out of ones own comfort zone(Moon)through relationships(Venus)

They don't like things to get too easy or may not be comfortable with perpetual cohabitation.The partner must still thrill them & not make them too comfortable.

This was the case with my flatmate. The minute he bedded the guy, it lost its appeal. The minute he "figured" the guy out, it lost its appeal. The thrill was gone.

His Moon in Aries loved the chase and Venus in Lib would seduce. But since the two are in opposition, he liked to have the mate keep him on his toes. If they are unpredictable and a little unnerving, the better.

posted April 26, 2019 02:33 PM            

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Originally posted by LunarRose:
I know a guy who has this and he has never truly been faithful. I do not think he is mature enough to maintain a commitment to any one relationship and in fact he even struggles to remain committed to one job. It's too "confining" for him.

As was mentioned here he is attracted to women who come from a different background than himself and more often than not to women who are much older than him. He has Venus in Capricorn, so the older women thing makes sense.

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posted April 26, 2019 02:34 PM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
i've never been with anyone with the square, but i have the opposition and i've never cheated

i don't think i could handle forever monogamy well, but that's not the same

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posted April 26, 2019 02:36 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
Aren’t you in a monogamous relationship with your fiancée?

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posted April 27, 2019 08:35 AM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
only if sharing other people counts as monogamy, we've been talking on/off about finding a new friend with benefits or another third person since we enjoy that dynamic

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posted April 27, 2019 10:24 AM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
Yeah you also have Venus/Uranus which has something to do with that.

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yeah that too, uranus does a lot of **** in my chart

i'm very upfront with people about my situation though, i've never started anything with anyone under the pretense that they'd be the only one or anything like that and new people always know my fiancee comes first