posted May 19, 2019 03:58 PM            

I’ve never been romantically involved with a Scorpio sun, much less one with 4 Scorpion placements. How should I go about it?

I have noticed he’s very sexual. And it makes me question whether he’s genuinely interested in me or not. When we hangout, he does ask questions about myself in an effort to get to know me (and when I talk about my personal life he’ll ask for me to delve deeper.) But in the end, I feel like a sexual relationship is what he’s after. I’m not sure if this is just how he is and I’m taking things too seriously (cancer moon) or he just doesn’t like me that much.

Eventually I’ll ask.

posted May 19, 2019 04:51 PM            

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posted May 19, 2019 11:52 PM            

My sister has Sun/Mercu/Venus/Jupiter/Pluto in Scorpio. In Vedic, the Sun /Venus/Jupiter all switch to Libra. And that makes better sense for me with her.

posted May 20, 2019 06:42 AM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Is this also the case with Vedic. Or do the planets shift to Libra?

My sister has Sun/Mercu/Venus/Jupiter/Pluto in Scorpio. In Vedic, the Sun /Venus/Jupiter all switch to Libra. And that makes better sense for me with her.

The only Scorpio Sun I met who stays a Scorpio Sun is a friend of mine who has Sun /Moon and Mars in Scorpio in both Vedic and Tropical. And I would say that he talks of love more than sex.

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i have a friend who's a scorpio sun in both and he talks about sex more than love, his mercury moves to libra from scorpio though (he has a sag mars regardless, his venus moves from libra to virgo)

my fiancee's mercury stays in scorpio and her sun moves there and she can be like me and him in the sense where she separates the kind of sex we've had with other people as opposed to with each other (she says she needs to have some sort of "love" for them, but will refer to the sex as just sex whereas she tends to refer to sex with me as "making love" and feels like there's a distinction) her venus moves to libra from scorpio so they both have scorpio/libra going on

posted May 20, 2019 10:46 AM            

One can never be too careful these days and so when you feel someone is thinking of you as a sex object. Or objectifying you and you ehm.....object Just let them know what you are all about. Then back away slowly.

posted May 27, 2019 02:48 PM            

I get to have control over a man, at last... :--] {...Insert evil laugh}

Multiple Scoroio placements native are not to be trifled with. They will see through your manipulation so don't play with them.
Sexual beings yes, but they value the intensity more than the frequency.

posted June 16, 2019 08:36 PM            

He asks me to hangout often but I sometimes reject his offers as I see them as invitations to have sex. He’s never asked me on a date before, which doesn’t bother me because “dating” isn’t necessarily my scene. Quality time *without* sex, however, is. (Cancer moon)

There have been instances I’ve said I won’t be speaking to him anymore, and he pushes to come to an understanding in an effort to keep me around (He has a Sag mercury.) I’m not sure if he does this to just to maintain a sexual relationship, or because he’s interested in me.

posted June 22, 2019 07:28 AM            

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Originally posted by solarbry:
It’s been almost a MONTH and I still have not gotten the answer I’ve been looking for. My Aries sun + venus cannot take this for much longer.

He asks me to hangout often but I sometimes reject his offers as I see them as invitations to have sex. He’s never asked me on a date before, which doesn’t bother me because “dating” isn’t necessarily my scene. Quality time *without* sex, however, is. (Cancer moon)

There have been instances I’ve said I won’t be speaking to him anymore, and he pushes to come to an understanding in an effort to keep me around (He has a Sag mercury.) I’m not sure if he does this to just to maintain a sexual relationship, or because he’s interested in me.

I once read somewhere Scorpio venus are hard to get. I realize that now. My Aries venus loves the chase, though.

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Scorpio guys are some the easiest men to read especially someone with multiple Scorpio placements. If they are interested in you, then they will directly ask you out on a date. They will make it crystal clear that they want you. When a man is being wishy washy, then he is just toying with you.

This Scorpio man does not respect you because you keep giving in to this game he's playing. Tell him what YOU are looking for and you want things to be more defined between you. Just say something like," Look, I like you, but I don't know whether we are on the same page. I'm looking for a monogamous relationship. If you just want a platonic friendship, then that's fine with me, but I need to know where you stand. I don't play games. If you want to be my friend, then say so. If you want to date me, then say so. If you just want casual sex, then say so."

He will respect you so much for being direct. Sometimes you have to take charge of the situation. If he isn't freely giving you the answers you are seeking, then ask him directly. Never again let anyone keep you guessing for a month unless you find that enjoyable.

As old fashioned as this may seem, he needs to make his intentions known and you need to make your intentions known. If you want an actual relationship with him, but he only wants casual sex (yes, Scorpio men do engage in casual sex), then things will never work out between you both since you want different things. Stop wasting time at guessing what he wants and just ask him directly.