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Topic: Choosing baby's fate: Which day is better?
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bananaz Knowflake Posts: 1004 From: Orlando, FL USA Registered: Feb 2015
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posted May 24, 2019 12:03 PM
I have to schedule a c-section and this feels so wrong. I hate this. I hate everything about it. This feels like I'm stepping into fate's territory and this decision shouldn't belong to me. But I can't exactly get out of it. I basically have 2 days/ times to choose from. 6/28 @ 3pm or 7/2 @ 11 am. Which would you choose? I'm a Pisces with Leo Moon. Sibling is a Leo with a Pisces Moon. Dad is a Sag with a Libra moon. I'm leaning toward 7/2 because sibling also has a Virgo rising, but not sure. I'll post the charts below, allowing for about 20 min to get the surgery underway. (Times may not end up exact) IP: Logged |
bananaz Knowflake Posts: 1004 From: Orlando, FL USA Registered: Feb 2015
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posted May 24, 2019 12:04 PM
7/2 @ 11:20 ish IP: Logged |
bananaz Knowflake Posts: 1004 From: Orlando, FL USA Registered: Feb 2015
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posted May 24, 2019 12:05 PM
6/28 @ 3:20 ish IP: Logged |
solarbry Knowflake Posts: 27 From: New York Registered: Aug 2018
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posted May 24, 2019 12:47 PM
Personally, I would go with June 28th. I have a fire sign and a Cancer moon, and even that gets emotionally exhausting at times (being able to notice/soak up everyone’s emotions.) I can’t imagine how a double cancer must feel. They would have a good emotional connection with their sibling as well. Taurus and Pisces moons get on great. IP: Logged |
ballerina Moderator Posts: 1924 From: A Place on Earth Registered: Feb 2014
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posted May 24, 2019 12:57 PM
6-28-2019 numerology 28 is the trusting lamb Which reduces to 10 the wheel of fortune then 1 the sun... ..the whole date is 10 reducing to 1 Good stuff7-2-2019 2 is the moon The whole year 12 the sacrifice the victim.. reduces to 3 jupiter.. Not such good stuff... If it were me, I would go with 6/28 ------------------ All my love, with all my Heart lotusheartone/Emeraldopal IP: Logged |
SecretGeek Knowflake Posts: 1382 From: Dallas Registered: Nov 2013
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posted May 24, 2019 01:03 PM
quote: Originally posted by bananaz: I have to schedule a c-section and this feels so wrong. I hate this. I hate everything about it. This feels like I'm stepping into fate's territory and this decision shouldn't belong to me. But I can't exactly get out of it. I basically have 2 days/ times to choose from. 6/28 @ 3pm or 7/2 @ 11 am. Which would you choose? I'm a Pisces with Leo Moon. Sibling is a Leo with a Pisces Moon. Dad is a Sag with a Libra moon. I'm leaning toward 7/2 because sibling also has a Virgo rising, but not sure. I'll post the charts below, allowing for about 20 min to get the surgery underway. (Times may not end up exact)
It's fate whatever you choose, right?
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ballerina Moderator Posts: 1924 From: A Place on Earth Registered: Feb 2014
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posted May 24, 2019 01:23 PM
In this case, God is giving you the choice. Also, you can use numerology for their name, giving them the best vibration... In the forum, while the soul slumbers, you shall find the meanings to the numbers!------------------ All my love, with all my Heart lotusheartone/Emeraldopal IP: Logged |
bananaz Knowflake Posts: 1004 From: Orlando, FL USA Registered: Feb 2015
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posted May 24, 2019 04:11 PM
Thank you for your replies! Now i'm leaning toward the 28th. I didn't consider how a taurus moon might keep an emotional cancer grounded.IP: Logged |
vansio Knowflake Posts: 246 From: Registered: Dec 2017
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posted May 25, 2019 03:00 AM
I second the 6/28 date after much, much deliberation. Reasons to choose 28: Jupiter same degree as nodes Sun Moon Venus Mercury in each element (balanced) the earlier the birthdate the longer the child will have to develop before the mercury retrograde progression at 9 years old vs 5 years old On timing of 28th: Jupiter’s retrograde in 2nd vs 4th Leo MC Neptune in 5th vs 7th Chiron in 6th vs 8th Mom and siblings’s sun/moon overlay in 5th/10th Dad’s sun overlay in 2nd with newborn’s emphasis in 9th Saturn/Pluto in 3rd house vs 5th house IP: Logged |
bananaz Knowflake Posts: 1004 From: Orlando, FL USA Registered: Feb 2015
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posted May 25, 2019 07:08 AM
quote: Originally posted by vansio: I second the 6/28 date after much, much deliberation. Reasons to choose 28: Jupiter same degree as nodes Sun Moon Venus Mercury in each element (balanced) the earlier the birthdate the longer the child will have to develop before the mercury retrograde progression at 9 years old vs 5 years old On timing of 28th: Jupiter’s retrograde in 2nd vs 4th Leo MC Neptune in 5th vs 7th Chiron in 6th vs 8th Mom and siblings’s sun/moon overlay in 5th/10th Dad’s sun overlay in 2nd with newborn’s emphasis in 9th Saturn/Pluto in 3rd house vs 5th house
This is really helpful. Thank you!
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bananaz Knowflake Posts: 1004 From: Orlando, FL USA Registered: Feb 2015
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posted May 25, 2019 07:36 AM
quote: Originally posted by SecretGeek: It's fate whatever you choose, right?
Sometimes I think since universe knows I know about astrology then it's all in perfect order. Then again, it feels like a ton of pressure. Like if I choose the wrong one, it's due to my own lack of insight. I'm hoping baby will come early and put me out of my misery 🙈 IP: Logged |
Lalafortunaea Knowflake Posts: 1212 From: Registered: Jul 2017
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posted May 25, 2019 10:38 AM
Here's just some things I see which could help with your decision. 7/2: 11th house placements are an absolute blessing, and yet, a curse. Liquid gains, friends, wishes. There's a feeling of loneliness with placements there, especially the moon. Being utterly different and not able to relate. They may be okay with this. They may have secret longings. Cancer there would give the person absolutely intense feelings but there would be an undertone of constant fear of the self, because cancer feels so deeply, intensely, strongly. Cancer is also the relationship with the mom. This isn't to say the relationship would be bad, either, at all, but it can mean there is some... distance. This person would be very friendly, and likely very social, and venus in the 10th is a nice gift to have.
6/28: To be quite frank, of the two, this one looks better. Moon in Taurus, 7th house, would indicate less nebulous love life (Neptune was in the other). There's still Cancer, and in the 8th house, so much intensity, but like the first chart (11th house helping to "detach"), in this one, moon is in Taurus, which also has a very stabilizing, pragmatic effect. So that's an interesting lil' theme to be seen. That Jupiter in the 2nd house looks splendid to be honest. It gives great potential to be financially independent, and the practical earthy moon will appreciate this ability to take care of themselves, and, due to cancer, their family too. It's also funny how here ths 5th house (romance) is pisces with neptune. and the other was 7th (marriage) with pisces/neptune. So here's another theme you've got. quote: I have to schedule a c-section and this feels so wrong. I hate this. I hate everything about it. This feels like I'm stepping into fate's territory and this decision shouldn't belong to me. But I can't exactly get out of it.
Mmmm well you could think of it as all god's doing, even the choices you're given. Sometimes even when we think it's all us, it isn't
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bananaz Knowflake Posts: 1004 From: Orlando, FL USA Registered: Feb 2015
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posted May 26, 2019 10:44 AM
Thank you @ lalafortunaea! You brought up some great points. I asked for the 28th. So now it's just a matter of waiting to see if that's the day or if the universe decides to bring baby early.IP: Logged |
mirage29 Knowflake Posts: 11654 From: us Registered: May 2012
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posted May 26, 2019 11:01 AM
I think that the 28th was the better-choice, Bananaz, as there's a NewMoon Total Eclipse ON July 2nd. That could make for a harder or more-complex life, or birthing (as a medical-event for your body)? Yes! haha!!! Coax that little baby to come out at JUST THE RIGHT time!!!! Wishing you the Best Experience! Congratulations for you, and your family!!!! *fireworks1* IP: Logged |
HelixID Knowflake Posts: 358 From: Registered: Jun 2014
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posted May 26, 2019 05:49 PM
So in case of a c-section you have to choose between two dates but it's also possible that you give birth without c-section?Could you please post your natal chart and that of the baby's father?
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bananaz Knowflake Posts: 1004 From: Orlando, FL USA Registered: Feb 2015
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posted May 28, 2019 05:14 PM
quote: Originally posted by HelixID: So in case of a c-section you have to choose between two dates but it's also possible that you give birth without c-section?Could you please post your natal chart and that of the baby's father?
I have to have a c-section either way, but it's possible to go into labor before the scheduled date. My chart: Dad's chart: IP: Logged |
teasel Knowflake Posts: 12130 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 28, 2019 06:50 PM
I have no idea, but best of luck. IP: Logged |
bananaz Knowflake Posts: 1004 From: Orlando, FL USA Registered: Feb 2015
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posted May 29, 2019 04:58 PM
Well, I requested the 28th and someone booked it before me 😭 now I have no other option than 7/2IP: Logged |
HelixID Knowflake Posts: 358 From: Registered: Jun 2014
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posted May 29, 2019 06:53 PM
Neither of the dates you mentioned seems likely. You have a packed H12 with a stellium in Pisces and your Asc ruler Mars is in Sagittarius. The father is a Sagittarius Sun with a packed H4. His Asc ruler Sun is in Sagittarius. So mainly the energies of Pisces, Cancer and particularly Sagittarius have to be present in the baby's chart. I'd go with June 23rd +/- 1 day, Sag Asc. Asc ruler Jupiter would be in Sag and it would square the mid Pisces Moon and Neptune = Pisces, Cancer, Sagittarius.IP: Logged |
athenegoddess Knowflake Posts: 191 From: us Registered: Sep 2018
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posted May 29, 2019 07:43 PM
7/2 is the best chart.IP: Logged |
bananaz Knowflake Posts: 1004 From: Orlando, FL USA Registered: Feb 2015
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posted May 30, 2019 11:26 AM
quote: Originally posted by HelixID: Neither of the dates you mentioned seems likely. You have a packed H12 with a stellium in Pisces and your Asc ruler Mars is in Sagittarius. The father is a Sagittarius Sun with a packed H4. His Asc ruler Sun is in Sagittarius. So mainly the energies of Pisces, Cancer and particularly Sagittarius have to be present in the baby's chart. I'd go with June 23rd +/- 1 day, Sag Asc. Asc ruler Jupiter would be in Sag and it would square the mid Pisces Moon and Neptune = Pisces, Cancer, Sagittarius.
Thanks Helix. I'll let you know if you are right! I was also thinking the 23rd or 24th since my first baby was born during a Pisces moon. She has a crap-ton of Leo in her chart though, 11th house heavy and Jupiter conjunct her Asc. IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 113216 From: From a galaxy, far, far away... Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 03, 2019 09:35 PM
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Aries23Degrees Knowflake Posts: 7362 From: South Africa Registered: Dec 2012
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posted June 04, 2019 12:43 AM
Would love to know what happened. My birth was not a C-section. But it was induced as I was taking too long to get out I was supposed to be out on the 16th.But I decided to come through on the 21st. My natal Moon opposing(and contra parallel)my Mom's natal Mars, my Uranus conjunct(and parallel)Mom's Sun etc. I don't think its ever you alone but you and the baby who decide and "collaborate" on the day of birth. Your intentions as well as the baby's intentions merge and then the momentum of that moment encourages the "knowing" that it has to happen NOW. IP: Logged |
bananaz Knowflake Posts: 1004 From: Orlando, FL USA Registered: Feb 2015
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posted June 04, 2019 12:59 PM
quote: Originally posted by Aries23Degrees: Would love to know what happened. My birth was not a C-section. But it was induced as I was taking too long to get out I was supposed to be out on the 16th.But I decided to come through on the 21st. My natal Moon opposing(and contra parallel)my Mom's natal Mars, my Uranus conjunct(and parallel)Mom's Sun etc. I don't think its ever you alone but you and the baby who decide and "collaborate" on the day of birth. Your intentions as well as the baby's intentions merge and then the momentum of that moment encourages the "knowing" that it has to happen NOW.
Haha! Well, if that's the case, my intentions are that this one will come ASAP! But this baby keeps disagreeing with me. How do those aspects affect your relationship with your mom? My first baby has her moon conjunct my sun and I feel like she's the love of my life. Hoping to get some good aspects with this little one too. Turns out neither of these charts may happen. Now the scheduler is saying both are unavailable, so Idk what is going on. Supposed to talk to my dr this week to schedule. Now it may be a completely different chart like Helix mentioned. IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees Knowflake Posts: 7362 From: South Africa Registered: Dec 2012
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posted June 04, 2019 03:03 PM
[QOUTE]Originally posted by bananaz: Haha! Well, if that's the case, my intentions are that this one will come ASAP! But this baby keeps disagreeing with me.How do those aspects affect your relationship with your mom? My first baby has her moon conjunct my sun and I feel like she's the love of my life. Hoping to get some good aspects with this little one too. Turns out neither of these charts may happen. Now the scheduler is saying both are unavailable, so Idk what is going on. Supposed to talk to my dr this week to schedule. Now it may be a completely different chart like Helix mentioned. [/QUOTE] Lol. I knew that things were unlikely to work out that perfectly. Because if they did, where is the magic? Where is the miracle? The "knowing" I spoke of will not come to you days before or even hours before etc. It will come on that moment when there seems to be cosmic "alignment" you can't explain. All that you will know is that you are a BIG part of this divine experience.This moment that plants you in the here and now. Wow!!! Childbirth never ceases to amaze me When I was born, my mother's progressed Moon was in Pisces square transiting Uranus tight(under 1 degree) Progressed Sun was parallel transiting Sun tight(under 1 degree). Progressed Saturn square transiting Mars tight(under 1 degree) Progressed Jupiter parallel transit Jupiter tight(under 1 degree) Progressed Jupiter parallel transit Mercury tight(under 1 degree) Progressed Saturn parallel transit Uranus tight(under one degree) I recall her always telling the story that she had to "release" and not wait and be tense out of anticipation. When eventually I did show, her progressed Moon was contra-parallel my natal Asc under 1 degree, her natal Uranus was contra-parallel transit Saturn(tightly bear exact) and her progressed N.Node was parallel my Asc when I was born.Talk about "timing" lol. My relationship with her is quite good. I have Moon in 3rd. So its a relatively "communicative" relationship. And because I am the 1st child she had,it was life altering experience for her. Natal Pluto/Sun widely square transiting Nodes at my birth. The nodes are important. IP: Logged |