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bananaz
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posted May 24, 2019 12:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for bananaz     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have to schedule a c-section and this feels so wrong. I hate this. I hate everything about it. This feels like I'm stepping into fate's territory and this decision shouldn't belong to me. But I can't exactly get out of it.

I basically have 2 days/ times to choose from. 6/28 @ 3pm or 7/2 @ 11 am. Which would you choose? I'm a Pisces with Leo Moon. Sibling is a Leo with a Pisces Moon. Dad is a Sag with a Libra moon. I'm leaning toward 7/2 because sibling also has a Virgo rising, but not sure.

I'll post the charts below, allowing for about 20 min to get the surgery underway. (Times may not end up exact)

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posted May 24, 2019 12:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for bananaz     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
7/2 @ 11:20 ish

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bananaz
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posted May 24, 2019 12:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for bananaz     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
6/28 @ 3:20 ish

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posted May 24, 2019 12:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for solarbry     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Personally, I would go with June 28th. I have a fire sign and a Cancer moon, and even that gets emotionally exhausting at times (being able to notice/soak up everyone’s emotions.) I can’t imagine how a double cancer must feel.

They would have a good emotional connection with their sibling as well. Taurus and Pisces moons get on great.

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posted May 24, 2019 12:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ballerina     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
6-28-2019 numerology
28 is the trusting lamb
Which reduces to 10 the
wheel of fortune then 1
the sun...
..the whole date is 10
reducing to 1 Good stuff

7-2-2019
2 is the moon
The whole year 12 the
sacrifice the victim..
reduces to 3 jupiter..
Not such good stuff...

If it were me, I would
go with 6/28

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posted May 24, 2019 01:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SecretGeek     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by bananaz:
I have to schedule a c-section and this feels so wrong. I hate this. I hate everything about it. This feels like I'm stepping into fate's territory and this decision shouldn't belong to me. But I can't exactly get out of it.

I basically have 2 days/ times to choose from. 6/28 @ 3pm or 7/2 @ 11 am. Which would you choose? I'm a Pisces with Leo Moon. Sibling is a Leo with a Pisces Moon. Dad is a Sag with a Libra moon. I'm leaning toward 7/2 because sibling also has a Virgo rising, but not sure.

I'll post the charts below, allowing for about 20 min to get the surgery underway. (Times may not end up exact)


It's fate whatever you choose, right?

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posted May 24, 2019 01:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ballerina     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
In this case, God is giving
you the choice.
Also, you can use numerology
for their name, giving them
the best vibration...
In the forum, while the soul
slumbers, you shall find the
meanings to the numbers!

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posted May 24, 2019 04:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for bananaz     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you for your replies! Now i'm leaning toward the 28th. I didn't consider how a taurus moon might keep an emotional cancer grounded.

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posted May 25, 2019 03:00 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for vansio     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I second the 6/28 date after much, much deliberation.

Reasons to choose 28:
Jupiter same degree as nodes
Sun Moon Venus Mercury in each element (balanced)
the earlier the birthdate the longer the child will have to develop before the mercury retrograde progression at 9 years old vs 5 years old

On timing of 28th:
Jupiter’s retrograde in 2nd vs 4th
Leo MC
Neptune in 5th vs 7th
Chiron in 6th vs 8th
Mom and siblings’s sun/moon overlay in 5th/10th
Dad’s sun overlay in 2nd with newborn’s emphasis in 9th
Saturn/Pluto in 3rd house vs 5th house

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posted May 25, 2019 07:08 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for bananaz     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by vansio:
I second the 6/28 date after much, much deliberation.

Reasons to choose 28:
Jupiter same degree as nodes
Sun Moon Venus Mercury in each element (balanced)
the earlier the birthdate the longer the child will have to develop before the mercury retrograde progression at 9 years old vs 5 years old

On timing of 28th:
Jupiter’s retrograde in 2nd vs 4th
Leo MC
Neptune in 5th vs 7th
Chiron in 6th vs 8th
Mom and siblings’s sun/moon overlay in 5th/10th
Dad’s sun overlay in 2nd with newborn’s emphasis in 9th
Saturn/Pluto in 3rd house vs 5th house


This is really helpful. Thank you!


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posted May 25, 2019 07:36 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for bananaz     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by SecretGeek:
It's fate whatever you choose, right?

Sometimes I think since universe knows I know about astrology then it's all in perfect order. Then again, it feels like a ton of pressure. Like if I choose the wrong one, it's due to my own lack of insight.

I'm hoping baby will come early and put me out of my misery 🙈

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posted May 25, 2019 10:38 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lalafortunaea     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Here's just some things I see which could help with your decision.


7/2:
11th house placements are an absolute blessing, and yet, a curse. Liquid gains, friends, wishes. There's a feeling of loneliness with placements there, especially the moon. Being utterly different and not able to relate. They may be okay with this. They may have secret longings. Cancer there would give the person absolutely intense feelings but there would be an undertone of constant fear of the self, because cancer feels so deeply, intensely, strongly. Cancer is also the relationship with the mom. This isn't to say the relationship would be bad, either, at all, but it can mean there is some... distance. This person would be very friendly, and likely very social, and venus in the 10th is a nice gift to have.

6/28:

To be quite frank, of the two, this one looks better. Moon in Taurus, 7th house, would indicate less nebulous love life (Neptune was in the other). There's still Cancer, and in the 8th house, so much intensity, but like the first chart (11th house helping to "detach"), in this one, moon is in Taurus, which also has a very stabilizing, pragmatic effect. So that's an interesting lil' theme to be seen. That Jupiter in the 2nd house looks splendid to be honest. It gives great potential to be financially independent, and the practical earthy moon will appreciate this ability to take care of themselves, and, due to cancer, their family too.

It's also funny how here ths 5th house (romance) is pisces with neptune. and the other was 7th (marriage) with pisces/neptune. So here's another theme you've got.

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I have to schedule a c-section and this feels so wrong. I hate this. I hate everything about it. This feels like I'm stepping into fate's territory and this decision shouldn't belong to me. But I can't exactly get out of it.


Mmmm well you could think of it as all god's doing, even the choices you're given. Sometimes even when we think it's all us, it isn't

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posted May 26, 2019 10:44 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for bananaz     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you @ lalafortunaea! You brought up some great points. I asked for the 28th. So now it's just a matter of waiting to see if that's the day or if the universe decides to bring baby early.

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posted May 26, 2019 11:01 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for mirage29     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think that the 28th was the better-choice, Bananaz, as there's a NewMoon Total Eclipse ON July 2nd. That could make for a harder or more-complex life, or birthing (as a medical-event for your body)?

Yes! haha!!! Coax that little baby to come out at JUST THE RIGHT time!!!!

Wishing you the Best Experience!

Congratulations for you, and your family!!!!
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posted May 26, 2019 05:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for HelixID     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
So in case of a c-section you have to choose between two dates but it's also possible that you give birth without c-section?

Could you please post your natal chart and that of the baby's father?

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posted May 28, 2019 05:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for bananaz     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by HelixID:
So in case of a c-section you have to choose between two dates but it's also possible that you give birth without c-section?

Could you please post your natal chart and that of the baby's father?


I have to have a c-section either way, but it's possible to go into labor before the scheduled date.

My chart:

Dad's chart:

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posted May 28, 2019 06:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for teasel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have no idea, but best of luck.

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posted May 29, 2019 04:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for bananaz     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well, I requested the 28th and someone booked it before me 😭 now I have no other option than 7/2

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posted May 29, 2019 06:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for HelixID     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Neither of the dates you mentioned seems likely.
You have a packed H12 with a stellium in Pisces and your Asc ruler Mars is in Sagittarius.
The father is a Sagittarius Sun with a packed H4. His Asc ruler Sun is in Sagittarius.
So mainly the energies of Pisces, Cancer and particularly Sagittarius have to be present in the baby's chart.
I'd go with June 23rd +/- 1 day, Sag Asc.
Asc ruler Jupiter would be in Sag and it would square the mid Pisces Moon and Neptune = Pisces, Cancer, Sagittarius.

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posted May 29, 2019 07:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for athenegoddess     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
7/2 is the best chart.

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posted May 30, 2019 11:26 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for bananaz     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by HelixID:
Neither of the dates you mentioned seems likely.
You have a packed H12 with a stellium in Pisces and your Asc ruler Mars is in Sagittarius.
The father is a Sagittarius Sun with a packed H4. His Asc ruler Sun is in Sagittarius.
So mainly the energies of Pisces, Cancer and particularly Sagittarius have to be present in the baby's chart.
I'd go with June 23rd +/- 1 day, Sag Asc.
Asc ruler Jupiter would be in Sag and it would square the mid Pisces Moon and Neptune = Pisces, Cancer, Sagittarius.

Thanks Helix. I'll let you know if you are right! I was also thinking the 23rd or 24th since my first baby was born during a Pisces moon. She has a crap-ton of Leo in her chart though, 11th house heavy and Jupiter conjunct her Asc.

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posted June 03, 2019 09:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Bump!

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posted June 04, 2019 12:43 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aries23Degrees     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Would love to know what happened. My birth was not a C-section. But it was induced as I was taking too long to get out

I was supposed to be out on the 16th.But I decided to come through on the 21st. My natal Moon opposing(and contra parallel)my Mom's natal Mars, my Uranus conjunct(and parallel)Mom's Sun etc.

I don't think its ever you alone but you and the baby who decide and "collaborate" on the day of birth. Your intentions as well as the baby's intentions merge and then the momentum of that moment encourages the "knowing" that it has to happen NOW.

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posted June 04, 2019 12:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for bananaz     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Would love to know what happened. My birth was not a C-section. But it was induced as I was taking too long to get out

I was supposed to be out on the 16th.But I decided to come through on the 21st. My natal Moon opposing(and contra parallel)my Mom's natal Mars, my Uranus conjunct(and parallel)Mom's Sun etc.

I don't think its ever you alone but you and the baby who decide and "collaborate" on the day of birth. Your intentions as well as the baby's intentions merge and then the momentum of that moment encourages the "knowing" that it has to happen NOW.


Haha! Well, if that's the case, my intentions are that this one will come ASAP! But this baby keeps disagreeing with me.

How do those aspects affect your relationship with your mom? My first baby has her moon conjunct my sun and I feel like she's the love of my life. Hoping to get some good aspects with this little one too.

Turns out neither of these charts may happen. Now the scheduler is saying both are unavailable, so Idk what is going on. Supposed to talk to my dr this week to schedule. Now it may be a completely different chart like Helix mentioned.

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[QOUTE]Originally posted by bananaz:
Haha! Well, if that's the case, my intentions are that this one will come ASAP! But this baby keeps disagreeing with me.

How do those aspects affect your relationship with your mom? My first baby has her moon conjunct my sun and I feel like she's the love of my life. Hoping to get some good aspects with this little one too.

Turns out neither of these charts may happen. Now the scheduler is saying both are unavailable, so Idk what is going on. Supposed to talk to my dr this week to schedule. Now it may be a completely different chart like Helix mentioned. [/QUOTE]

Lol. I knew that things were unlikely to work out that perfectly. Because if they did, where is the magic? Where is the miracle?

The "knowing" I spoke of will not come to you days before or even hours before etc. It will come on that moment when there seems to be cosmic "alignment" you can't explain.

All that you will know is that you are a BIG part of this divine experience.This moment that plants you in the here and now. Wow!!! Childbirth never ceases to amaze me

When I was born, my mother's progressed Moon was in Pisces square transiting Uranus tight(under 1 degree)

Progressed Sun was parallel transiting Sun tight(under 1 degree).

Progressed Saturn square transiting Mars tight(under 1 degree)

Progressed Jupiter parallel transit Jupiter tight(under 1 degree)

Progressed Jupiter parallel transit Mercury tight(under 1 degree)

Progressed Saturn parallel transit Uranus tight(under one degree)

I recall her always telling the story that she had to "release" and not wait and be tense out of anticipation.

When eventually I did show, her progressed Moon was contra-parallel my natal Asc under 1 degree, her natal Uranus was contra-parallel transit Saturn(tightly bear exact) and her progressed N.Node was parallel my Asc when I was born.Talk about "timing" lol.

My relationship with her is quite good. I have Moon in 3rd. So its a relatively "communicative" relationship. And because I am the 1st child she had,it was life altering experience for her.

Natal Pluto/Sun widely square transiting Nodes at my birth. The nodes are important.

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