posted May 31, 2019 09:45 PM            

But oh, this person is always changing moods and getting down and that is honeslty tiring because I feel I'm the only one supporting this person on the down moments but when I'm down, this person never supports me. Also sometimes things get so repetitive with the moods swings and down moments, I'm getting fed up of it.

posted June 01, 2019 01:33 AM            

Cancer Asc ime can be all up in their feelings-making objectivity difficult.So Sun in 1st may add to this tendency to be self-centred and think only for oneself

Where is Pluto? Any aspects to the Moon?And Neptune? Perhaps post the chart?

posted June 01, 2019 02:26 AM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Where is Pluto? Any aspects to the Moon?And Neptune? Perhaps post the chart?

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posted June 01, 2019 04:47 AM            

Jupiter parallel Moon. "Over the top" emotions

Uranus parallel Moon. Changeable moods.Erratic.

Neptune parallel Moon. Hyper-sensitivity

posted June 01, 2019 10:54 AM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Then that's where moodiness comes in.

Jupiter parallel Moon. "Over the top" emotions

Uranus parallel Moon. Changeable moods.Erratic.

Neptune parallel Moon. Hyper-sensitivity

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posted June 01, 2019 12:39 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
I think tinypic.com might help.Register there and then upload chart there...then follow instructions here on how to post chart

I did that once.It was a while back.

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posted June 01, 2019 02:26 PM            

I'd say it doesn't matter who rationalizes it for you, if you're not being supported and if you're feeling drained and uninspired, getting nothing out of this connection, then definitely lose anyone with any placement who makes you feel that way.

Personally, I do think that the Sag influence (especially since it comes from a ruling planet) gives the Cancerian 'depth' some distance. There is a more philosophical approach to emotions, but it isn't always positive. It can be a doomsday mentality sometimes, which is counter-intuitive and doesn't help, but we stick to our guns until we drain ourselves out of it.

Cancer gets stuck in its own loop a lot. Just looping the same program and mindset over and over, but to them it's fresh every day.

posted June 01, 2019 04:05 PM            

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Originally posted by MoonsOfJupiter:

Personally, I do think that the Sag influence (especially since it comes from a ruling planet) gives the Cancerian 'depth' some distance. There is a more philosophical approach to emotions

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I sometimes feel this person has no depth actually... are you capable of having strong and intense feelings with this combination? How does your Cancercian part combines with your Sagittarian part?

Btw, I understand the philosophical part as I myself have some Sag energy in my chart (Venus in Sag, Mars in the 9H, Jupiter in the 1H, Jupiter parallel to Venus and Mercury) but still.

posted June 01, 2019 04:08 PM            

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Originally posted by MoonsOfJupiter:

Cancer gets stuck in its own loop a lot. Just looping the same program and mindset over and over, but to them it's fresh every day.

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posted June 02, 2019 08:58 AM            

to answer your questions:

I have extremely strong and intense feelings. But they're not always freely expressed. Often, they are first filtered through a myriad of thoughts, both deliberate and involuntary, that have over time become strategies for processing these out-of-control emotions.

This can sometimes cause one to feel blocked / numb to their own emotions, which can absolutely give off the impression that I'm cold or indifferent. Or it all comes out rather uninspired and untruthful by the time its expressed, which isn't the intention but I understand why it can happen.

I've done A LOT of work on myself over the years, however, to recognize these tendencies and weed them out. Sounds like this person has that self-healing journey ahead of them. This certainly doesn't mean you need to come along for a really ****** ride.

posted June 02, 2019 09:00 AM            

to answer your questions:

I have extremely strong and intense feelings. But they're not always freely expressed. Often, they are first filtered through a myriad of thoughts, both deliberate and involuntary, that have over time become strategies for processing these out-of-control emotions.

This can sometimes cause one to feel blocked / numb to their own emotions, which can absolutely give off the impression that I'm cold or indifferent. Or it all comes out rather uninspired and untruthful by the time its expressed, which isn't the intention but I understand why it can happen.

I've done A LOT of work on myself over the years, however, to recognize these tendencies and weed them out. Sounds like this person has that self-healing journey ahead of them. This certainly doesn't mean you need to come along for a really ****** ride.

posted June 02, 2019 12:45 PM            

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Originally posted by MoonsOfJupiter:

I think you already know what you need to do. I always say: go where the peace is. If you feel much better and less drained with this person not around, it's really simple (thought not easy): let them go. Even if you found out they had all the depth in the world, it probably wouldn't make much difference at this point.

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posted June 11, 2019 04:35 PM            

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posted July 04, 2019 05:43 PM            

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Originally posted by nezumi-chan:
How can I do to make a Cancer Sun and Rising Sag Moon person go away? How do I bore them? I've already tried but this person doesn't seem to get the signals.

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