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Topic: Aspects in a woman’s chart that shows difficulty in blending in the girls club
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AriesLilith
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posted June 10, 2019 04:03 AM
  
Hi guys, what do you think that in a chart can show such potential difficulty in blending in with other women?In my case, I always had some difficulty with men and women because I’m reserved and distant (AC square Saturn). But unlike other women, I have a hard time to naturally blend in and get along with other women. They just seem to easily get along while I feel some sort of barrier. I do enjoy interacting with them thought. I don’t think the barrier is due to any negative feelings towards women, like some women has issues with, in my chart my Moon/Venus/Mercury/BML is conjunct in the 8th house in Aries trine Uranus without hard aspects. Anyone can relate? What are your chart aspects? IP: Logged |
Nadja
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posted June 10, 2019 09:16 AM
I can kind of relate. I get along with pretty much everyone, and my closest friends are women for the most part... But when in casual social settings I tend to find it hard to fit in with the gals. I just tend to have more in common with the guys. I don't have any issues when in one-on-one conversations, I actually prefer women then, it's just when there is a group of women that I feel like I don't belong and can't relate.I have no idea what aspect or placements would account for this sort of thing. I guess something to do with Mars/Venus? 11th house for groups of people? Uranus for not fitting in? Mercury for communication? I have Venus unaspected in Taurus 8th house. Mars conjunct Mercury and Midheaven in Cancer. Nothing much happening with Uranus or 11th house. ------------------
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Dumuzi
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posted June 14, 2019 07:58 AM
what nakshatra does your aries moon end up falling in when you switch to vedic? my fiancee has issues with women and has an aries moon in western, falls into uttara bhadrapada in vedicwomen with uttara bhadrapada supposedly have trouble with women IP: Logged |
anonymidarkness
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posted June 14, 2019 08:25 AM
I smell something Martian, maybe Sun conjunct Mars ??Aries Moons too yeah, they don't get along with any sort of girls, only the ones who can whip it out when it matters, assertive ones, fellow Fire Moons perhaps. Also seen Aqua Moon not getting along with other chicks, it usually fell in Dhanistha nakshatra in Vedic, and it's a Martian nakshatra, can make it a bit battle-oriented i Guess ??? IP: Logged |
Sccs
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posted June 14, 2019 09:32 AM
I can relate very much.I'm a cap moon conjuct Saturn/neptune on one side and Venus on the other
Venus right on my DC opposed to my cancer ASC Mars conj pluto in scorpio H5 MC in aries Stellium in capricorn in H6 I have told myself that its because I was both very venusian and martian with also lots of Cap/Saturn energy that I make girls uncomfortable.
very strange. I barely have any girlfriends and I wish I had IP: Logged |
mirage29
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posted June 14, 2019 11:14 AM
Besides the regular planets and aspects, consider Pallas Athene in that mix. IP: Logged |
AriesLilith
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posted June 14, 2019 12:48 PM
My Nakshatra is Revati. My Mars is in Taurus forming a t-square with Pluto and Jupiter but also grand trine with AC and Neptune.I don't have issues with them as in arousing any negative or competitive energy, I just don't seem to arouse interest in girl bond. I often get along with them but just not in the girl friends club way. The women at my current workplace gets along like friends and hangs out but I didn't blend in, maybe because I'm a mom and I'm more reserved. But it's been this way for so long. Getting along with guys are easy depending on the type of guys. Maybe because I share some of the interests. Then bonding with girls who shares such interests is easier too. IP: Logged |
FireVirgo
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posted June 14, 2019 02:43 PM
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Originally posted by anonymidarkness:
I smell something Martian, maybe Sun conjunct Mars ??Aries Moons too yeah, they don't get along with any sort of girls, only the ones who can whip it out when it matters, assertive ones, fellow Fire Moons perhaps.
Is that what it is? I have an Aries moon and also Mercury conjunct Mars (in Virgo). I get along with girls singularly, but in groups, no thank you. Girls night out or girl’s trips have never been my thing. But put me in a group of guys, and I can hang out & feel comfortable being my blunt ass self & not worry about offending anyone.
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FireVirgo
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posted June 14, 2019 02:44 PM
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Dumuzi
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posted June 14, 2019 03:25 PM
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Originally posted by FireVirgo:
d/p
i never think "double post" when i first read "d/p" @AriesLilith i'm revati too it could be the pluto, my fiancee has heavy pluto/scorpio in her chart on top of the aries moon and with placidus she has a 1st house mars she gets jealousy from women though, and she does have some very feminine interests but not exclusive i tend to get along better with women than men in a lot of settings, at least immediately a lot of men tend to need to get to know me before they realize we get along and have **** in common, whereas women are more likely to immediately warm up to me even though we typically don't have much in common interest wise you being a mom might be part of it, i usually can't relate to people who have kids and i don't know many people without children who feel differently than i do about that IP: Logged |
FireVirgo
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posted June 14, 2019 03:47 PM
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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
i never think "double post" when i first read "d/p"
I know. I even thought about changing it before I posted it. Haha. IP: Logged |
Nadja
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posted June 14, 2019 05:27 PM
quote:
Originally posted by FireVirgo:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by anonymidarkness:
[b]I smell something Martian, maybe Sun conjunct Mars ??Aries Moons too yeah, they don't get along with any sort of girls, only the ones who can whip it out when it matters, assertive ones, fellow Fire Moons perhaps.
Is that what it is? I have an Aries moon and also Mercury conjunct Mars (in Virgo). I get along with girls singularly, but in groups, no thank you. Girls night out or girl’s trips have never been my thing. But put me in a group of guys, and I can hang out & feel comfortable being my blunt ass self & not worry about offending anyone.[/B][/QUOTE]I identify so much with that! Fellow Mar/Mercury here, but in Cancer. No fire Moon though, my Moon is in Virgo. IP: Logged |
diamondbaby
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posted June 14, 2019 07:37 PM
Moon in the 8th house
Venus in the 8th houseMoon and Venus symbolize the feminine archetype, neither of them feel good in the 8th house, just like Moon is in fall and Venus is in detriment in Scorpio (Scorpio is associated with the 8th house). In my opinion Moon/Pluto and Venus/Pluto aspects can point towards difficulties as well. IP: Logged |
kani
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posted June 15, 2019 08:02 AM
It depends on the group but I usually don't get along with girly girls. They annoy me.
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Ami Anne
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posted June 15, 2019 09:36 AM
SAturn in the 11th or 12th.------------------
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FireVirgo
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posted June 15, 2019 05:00 PM
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Originally posted by diamondbaby:
Moon in the 8th house
Venus in the 8th houseMoon and Venus symbolize the feminine archetype, neither of them feel good in the 8th house, just like Moon is in fall and Venus is in detriment in Scorpio (Scorpio is associated with the 8th house). In my opinion Moon/Pluto and Venus/Pluto aspects can point towards difficulties as well.
Sweet. I also have Moon opp. Pluto...and Leo Venus 8H
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Randall
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posted June 21, 2019 10:52 AM
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taurusprettyrising
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posted June 21, 2019 09:46 PM
I have Saturn in the 11th house and I was always super quiet and nerdy at a very young age. But once I kinda grew up I decided to hang out with more girls...BUT... I just get tired of chicks either competing, or just being plain bratty with me or them gossiping about other women they don't like lol my closest friends have been nerdy guys and I don't think there is anything wrong with it. also the girls I want to be friends with (same hobbies) live way too far away.  IP: Logged |
AriesLilith
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posted June 22, 2019 09:59 PM
@Dumuzi thinking about it, I do have better luck with girls who has other interests such as anime and gaming. I also do have feminine interests but got along better with the less typical girls.
With guys, the geek or nerd type is also easier to get along with.I guess that my Aries stellium in the 8th house really doesn’t help lol. IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted June 25, 2019 11:11 PM
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Soulsjourney
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posted June 26, 2019 05:13 AM
Sag Moon, Gemini Ascedent, Mercury opposite Jupiter...too much talking, thinking about non relationship stuff and asking questions, and way to independentThe key to getting along with women is to go along with the group, talk about feelings, and agree. IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted June 29, 2019 10:22 PM
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Originally posted by Soulsjourney:
Sag Moon, Gemini Ascedent, Mercury opposite Jupiter...too much talking, thinking about non relationship stuff and asking questions, and way to independentThe key to getting along with women is to go along with the group, talk about feelings, and agree.
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StubbornVirgo
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posted July 04, 2019 08:51 AM
Moon conjunct Mars and Venus square Mars. It always appears that I'm competing with them, when in actuality I'm comfortably speeding in my own lane. I have no interest in competing with anybody but myself.I'm pretty much doomed to only get along with guys. Also, I've never enjoyed small talk or talking about irrelevant things. If you're talking to me, it has to be direct and on topic or else I lose all interest and zone out. A lot of the women that I have known tend to be spacy, almost ADD like and easily distracted - I do have Gemini Moon, so that could be just what I tend to attract as friends. I'm a tomboy and don't share a lot of common interests with women I know. IP: Logged |
BunnyAria3
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posted July 24, 2019 07:43 AM
- Venus Pluto
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