posted June 13, 2019 02:51 PM            

Because Venus square natal Saturn lasts only days. Although Venus was very recently in transit square your natal Saturn it has moved out of that aspect.

What you are undergoing is a very challenging process of a hard shift in values as Saturn moves back into square to your natal Venus and Pluto follows in its slow retrograde. Both those planets in recent months (Saturn) and years (Pluto) have been making that aspect. Plus, they are up high in your chart, apparently near the Midheaven, so the transit is even more trying to anything you to accomplish because the reform process also involves your work life/aspirations.

So there's a lot more going on than just Saturn square Venus (or vice versa). I hope understanding a bit of it will put it in perspective. It's not the best time for expecting relationships to work or for dealing with authorities or external decision makers who could affect your life course. This is a collection of transits that urges your values to change in such a way you take control more from the inside rather than creating change by acting outwardly (Venus in Aries). Not a pleasant or easy period of your life, but one that can create toughness and empowerment if you deal with it believing in yourself.

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posted June 13, 2019 03:00 PM            

With Saturn in the energy of Capricorn we're being asked to take responsibility for ourselves, our lives and the shape of the world. This is an opportunity to rise to our souls greatest potential if we are willing to put the necessary work in to do it. This isn't always a lot of fun but the payoff is worth it.

posted June 13, 2019 03:19 PM            

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Originally posted by Kannon McAfee:
Do you mean Saturn in transit square natal Venus?

Because Venus square natal Saturn lasts only days. Although Venus was very recently in transit square your natal Saturn it has moved out of that aspect.

What you are undergoing is a very challenging process of a hard shift in values as Saturn moves back into square to your natal Venus and Pluto follows in its slow retrograde. Both those planets in recent months (Saturn) and years (Pluto) have been making that aspect. Plus, they are up high in your chart, apparently near the Midheaven, so the transit is even more trying to anything you to accomplish because the reform process also involves your work life/aspirations.

So there's a lot more going on than just Saturn square Venus (or vice versa). I hope understanding a bit of it will put it in perspective. It's not the best time for expecting relationships to work or for dealing with authorities or external decision makers who could affect your life course. This is a collection of transits that urges your values to change in such a way you take control more from the inside rather than creating change by acting outwardly (Venus in Aries). Not a pleasant or easy period of your life, but one that can create toughness and empowerment if you deal with it believing in yourself.

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posted June 13, 2019 03:22 PM            

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Originally posted by TrueScorpio:
Venus is love, pleasure and self worth so this transit is calling these issues into question and yeah, Saturn makes us ask some tough questions that are necessary to get our life on the right track. This is the opportunity to ask ourselves are we valuing ourself enough? Are we letting other people and/or the right people love us? It's a time to evaluate and really examine how solid our relationships are.

With Saturn in the energy of Capricorn we're being asked to take responsibility for ourselves, our lives and the shape of the world. This is an opportunity to rise to our souls greatest potential if we are willing to put the necessary work in to do it. This isn't always a lot of fun but the payoff is worth it.

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posted June 13, 2019 06:04 PM            

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Originally posted by TrueScorpio:
My dear taurusprettyrising, please know that the intention behind each word I write is out of sincere hope for your happiness. I'm a Scorpio so that preface is needed before I offer any advice. First things first is you, love. You have no business looking to integrate your life with anyone else until you have built for yourself the life you love and want to live to the fullest. A long line of unavailable men sounds like an indication that you don't have, developed or showing yourself the love you need. We receive the quality of love that we have for ourself BECAUSE we cannot give more than what we've got. It's simple economic theory and water seeks its own level. It's tough but you need a job not disability compensation. Don't allow any label be attached to you that implies you can't or are disable. I have the feeling you are capable of far more than you are even aware of but lack the confidence or faith to put yourself out there and go get it. Does this mean you might have to take a job you don't like - quite possibly. But if you put in your best effort and work hard even in a crappy job it will lead to something better for you, I promise. Life is hard and it's not for quitters. Your'e a Taurus for gods sake so I know you're not a quitter. You may feel beaten down even hopeless but just work toward your goal step-by-step. Hope's a fickle thing thing it only comes when you have faith. Faith is a funny thing too, it only comes when you believe in something and everything around you says "it's hopeless just quit". Today's a new day and it may suck but is's a gift some other poor soul will not be receiving. So get out there and build your life because no one else will do it for you.
With love,
TrueScorpio

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posted June 14, 2019 02:30 AM            

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Originally posted by taurusprettyrising:
I wanna know how I can take responsibility for myself if I'm broqué. :/ That's my toughest question. Plus whatis it about me that attracts so many emotionally unavailable people? Saturn has been weighing that on me heavy lately.

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Well I went through the Saturn-Venus conjunction in 7th in 2014.By far the roughest transit as it was a time where a lot of self doubts surfaced. And I had never FELT so ugly.

What I can say is that it does pass. There are days better than others.It does pass; the forlon nature of it, the pessimism, the feeling of helplessness etc.

It's thought momentum from a while back in culmination really i.e all the negative things you have thought of yourself are clearing out with Saturn transiting Venus. Observe and let it pass. Don't attach yourself to them,they speak not of who you are NOW.

I also had friends distancing themselves from me(more especially in this time) and so that compounded the loneliness. But the saving grace were 3 friends that I had no idea could have my back as much as they did(more especially a new one I made that year).

Indeed, you can start to cull away some associations and seeing them as "disloyal" or superficial. This is a time of being stripped to your bare essentials and if you haven't done any positive work within, it will show.

Listen to spiritually focused things.I listened to a lot of Abraham Hicks around that time and it helped with the intense pain I felt that was crippling tbh.

I don't think my self esteem was "low" per se.But I did feel "unpopular" & "underappreciated/abandoned" by people. It was terrible. So I don't see how others can get married around this transit(Venus/Saturn aspects also speak of "growing up" and taking the next step).

I was most drawn to empathetic people around this time. So I do see the romantic attraction to Moon strong people when Saturn's austere nature takes effect. One tends to need the emotional warmth to thaw dark thought patterns

Be assured it does pass.

posted June 14, 2019 05:15 AM            

What I kept in my mind is that it all shall pass. It feels like hanging on to a boat under very harsh weather but good weather will come.

posted June 14, 2019 08:57 AM            

it's hitting my ascendant/venus/south node in libra and my aries moon, and pluto is around my ic saturn's going to retrograde back to my mars then go back to square everything and hit my ic

some things are good some things aren't, just life i feel like it'll be worthwhile in retrospect at some point like most things are so it's alright

sorry it's been hard for you

you know, while you should do **** to get your life together long term maybe it's not so bad that you have time on your hands where you're alone

people tend to lose touch with themselves when they're stuck in day to day life or caught up in other people

there's probably **** you didn't do because you were caught up in work and other **** that you'd like, people always have hobbies or interests or desires they let slip away

this could be a chance for you to discover something like that and maybe that'd be what you need more than what you're worried about

i've learned saturn and pluto are easier when you don't try to push away from your reality and instead try to work within it

teaches the difference between self imposed boundaries and circumstance

there's good **** in the transit, all about how you look at it

posted June 14, 2019 10:20 AM            

I have venus conjunct mars in the 8th and when transit saturn was squaring that I was working as a case manager at a community mental health center while I was finishing my masters degree in psychology so I was not jobless and I was also completing my master's program that year (venus rules my MC and falls in my 8th so it fits everything I just said).

As for attracting men who only want one thing I don't think that is a transit thing, I think that is a men thing but yes if that is ALL you are attracting then maybe you need to work on your self-worth bc that might say something more about you. I think when we work through our stuff and have a strong self worth we attract better suiters. Since Tr Saturn is hitting your venus then that is an accurate way that transit can impact you, Saturn can be making you feel unattractive and bringing to the surface your insecurities which will not result in you attracting the right suiters. I remember that this transit made me feel unattractive and old so not a great time for me to be in a position of power dating wise and attract the right kind of guy or relationship when feeling like that.

As for karma well he lied to you and you didn't know he was married so you are creating karma by just thinking you deserve it, you are attracting that.

posted June 14, 2019 10:27 AM            

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Originally posted by EmGem:
Hang in there, you’re not alone.
I’m experiencing Saturn/ Pluto opposite my natal Venus...and applying. It’s no fun. It’s pushing people out of my life that no longer serve me but instead it’s demanding I serve myself a big dose of self worth for the first time in my life. I have attracted emotionally unavailable men my whole life. But this transit says no more!!!! I just had my heart broken and I’m still trying to pick up these pieces. They’re everywhere. And it hurts so bad. As much as I want to control what I’m feeling and make it go away, I gotta ride that wave, surrender and feel it to heal it.
So take heart because this will pass ok and you’ll look forward to a new you, having learnt the lessons Saturn and Pluto are feeding you.

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posted June 14, 2019 12:12 PM            

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So I am going through a venus square saturn transit. I have no job anymore (jobless for months) which is so new to me, I always had work until this transit. My love life is stalled. the men approaching me turned out to only be in it for one thing and when they realized I wasn't gonna give it up, they ditched me.
tried getting on disability (I'm deaf in my left ear and severe hearing loss in my right along with tinnitus)
This transit must be super hard because of me being the "other woman" last year, so, karma. (I didn't know I was he hid it well) so dating life is stalled, I can't hang out with friends because I have no money, no jobs are reaching out to me. I have one more interview at a different place but I fear telling them about my disability any time I tell recruiters I get rejected.
http://imgur.com/uma9Hqd <my chart I'm sorry I can't use photobucket

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Since you've had some trouble with joblessness, AND, you have a physical disability (hearing), I see nothing wrong with your applying for benefits and the help this can bring with sources connecting you to Jobs that you might not otherwise know are there.

It's okay to allow these Agencies to work for you. That's what they're there for. NO shame in that. That's what they were created to 'do'.

Do not accept "shame" in being hearing-impaired, and labels like "disabled". It does not infer that you are inferior in any way. Your body needed some help with getting whatever other people receive.

Try not to let your 'outside' (temporary) circumstances "define" your worth as a person.

(I understand adverse Saturn placements. Saturn-rx Scorp OPP Venus natal. And, I can be my own worse enemy as far as judging and criticizing my own self, my own worth -- not going to delineate.)

There are out-of-the-box solutions for using whatever talents you have in order to try to make money.

{If you remove the 's' from http, your imgur will link-- either as a website, or, with using img codes.}

I have a very old chart you had posted once.
You have 3+ Taurus Rising? ..
tUranus has entered your first House now.
Maybe??.. Time to re-invent??

And, in the "mean" time, go apply for the funds and Connections in the region where you live, so you can pay your bills.

In the other meanwhile???... Dream.
What do you want to 'Be'? … then Do.

(music) It's Who You Are (AJ Michalka; TayanitaRose, with American Sign Language, 2015) [3:52] http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CBsgycwlNBE

posted June 14, 2019 07:25 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
I am sorry you are going through a hard time but I would not blame the things you mentioned on Tr Saturn squaring your Venus.

I have venus conjunct mars in the 8th and when transit saturn was squaring that I was working as a case manager at a community mental health center while I was finishing my masters degree in psychology so I was not jobless and I was also completing my master's program that year (venus rules my MC and falls in my 8th so it fits everything I just said).

As for attracting men who only want one thing I don't think that is a transit thing, I think that is a men thing but yes if that is ALL you are attracting then maybe you need to work on your self-worth bc that might say something more about you. I think when we work through our stuff and have a strong self worth we attract better suiters. Since Tr Saturn is hitting your venus then that is an accurate way that transit can impact you, Saturn can be making you feel unattractive and bringing to the surface your insecurities which will not result in you attracting the right suiters. I remember that this transit made me feel unattractive and old so not a great time for me to be in a position of power dating wise and attract the right kind of guy or relationship when feeling like that.

As for karma well he lied to you and you didn't know he was married so you are creating karma by just thinking you deserve it, you are attracting that.

I strongly feel the energy you put out there makes a big difference in what you attract. Saturn hitting your venus is maybe affecting your mindset, making you more insecure and negative. An abundance mindset along with strong self-worth is what helps people attract what they need.

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posted June 14, 2019 07:29 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Well I went through the Saturn-Venus conjunction in 7th in 2014.By far the roughest transit as it was a time where a lot of self doubts surfaced. And I had never FELT so ugly.

What I can say is that it does pass. There are days better than others.It does pass; the forlon nature of it, the pessimism, the feeling of helplessness etc.

It's thought momentum from a while back in culmination really i.e all the negative things you have thought of yourself are clearing out with Saturn transiting Venus. Observe and let it pass. Don't attach yourself to them,they speak not of who you are NOW.

I also had friends distancing themselves from me(more especially in this time) and so that compounded the loneliness. But the saving grace were 3 friends that I had no idea could have my back as much as they did(more especially a new one I made that year).

Indeed, you can start to cull away some associations and seeing them as "disloyal" or superficial. This is a time of being stripped to your bare essentials and if you haven't done any positive work within, it will show.

Listen to spiritually focused things.I listened to a lot of Abraham Hicks around that time and it helped with the intense pain I felt that was crippling tbh.

I don't think my self esteem was "low" per se.But I did feel "unpopular" & "underappreciated/abandoned" by people. It was terrible. So I don't see how others can get married around this transit(Venus/Saturn aspects also speak of "growing up" and taking the next step).

I was most drawn to empathetic people around this time. So I do see the romantic attraction to Moon strong people when Saturn's austere nature takes effect. One tends to need the emotional warmth to thaw dark thought patterns

Be assured it does pass.

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posted June 14, 2019 07:31 PM            

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Originally posted by EmGem:
Hang in there, you’re not alone.
I’m experiencing Saturn/ Pluto opposite my natal Venus...and applying. It’s no fun. It’s pushing people out of my life that no longer serve me but instead it’s demanding I serve myself a big dose of self worth for the first time in my life. I have attracted emotionally unavailable men my whole life. But this transit says no more!!!! I just had my heart broken and I’m still trying to pick up these pieces. They’re everywhere. And it hurts so bad. As much as I want to control what I’m feeling and make it go away, I gotta ride that wave, surrender and feel it to heal it.
So take heart because this will pass ok and you’ll look forward to a new you, having learnt the lessons Saturn and Pluto are feeding you.

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posted June 14, 2019 07:33 PM            

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Originally posted by mirage29:
Since you've had some trouble with joblessness, AND, you have a physical disability (hearing), I see nothing wrong with your applying for benefits and the help this can bring with sources connecting you to Jobs that you might not otherwise know are there.

It's okay to allow these Agencies to work for you. That's what they're there for. NO shame in that. That's what they were created to 'do'.

Do not accept "shame" in being hearing-impaired, and labels like "disabled". It does not infer that you are inferior in any way. Your body needed some help with getting whatever other people receive.

Try not to let your 'outside' (temporary) circumstances "define" your worth as a person.

(I understand adverse Saturn placements. Saturn-rx Scorp OPP Venus natal. And, I can be my own worse enemy as far as judging and criticizing my own self, my own worth -- not going to delineate.)

There are out-of-the-box solutions for using whatever talents you have in order to try to make money.

{If you remove the 's' from http, your imgur will link-- either as a website, or, with using img codes.}

I have a very old chart you had posted once.
You have 3+ Taurus Rising? ..
tUranus has entered your first House now.
Maybe??.. Time to re-invent??

And, in the "mean" time, go apply for the funds and Connections in the region where you live, so you can pay your bills.

In the other meanwhile???... Dream.
What do you want to 'Be'? … then Do.

(music) It's Who You Are (AJ Michalka; TayanitaRose, with American Sign Language, 2015) [3:52] http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CBsgycwlNBE

Have you taken an ASL, Sign Language Class yet?
Can open up some other types of future possibilities for you!

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posted June 14, 2019 07:38 PM            

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Originally posted by mirage29:
Since you've had some trouble with joblessness, AND, you have a physical disability (hearing), I see nothing wrong with your applying for benefits and the help this can bring with sources connecting you to Jobs that you might not otherwise know are there.

It's okay to allow these Agencies to work for you. That's what they're there for. NO shame in that. That's what they were created to 'do'.

Do not accept "shame" in being hearing-impaired, and labels like "disabled". It does not infer that you are inferior in any way. Your body needed some help with getting whatever other people receive.

Try not to let your 'outside' (temporary) circumstances "define" your worth as a person.

(I understand adverse Saturn placements. Saturn-rx Scorp OPP Venus natal. And, I can be my own worse enemy as far as judging and criticizing my own self, my own worth -- not going to delineate.)

There are out-of-the-box solutions for using whatever talents you have in order to try to make money.

{If you remove the 's' from http, your imgur will link-- either as a website, or, with using img codes.}

I have a very old chart you had posted once.
You have 3+ Taurus Rising? ..
tUranus has entered your first House now.
Maybe??.. Time to re-invent??

And, in the "mean" time, go apply for the funds and Connections in the region where you live, so you can pay your bills.

In the other meanwhile???... Dream.
What do you want to 'Be'? … then Do.

(music) It's Who You Are (AJ Michalka; TayanitaRose, with American Sign Language, 2015) [3:52] http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CBsgycwlNBE

Have you taken an ASL, Sign Language Class yet?
Can open up some other types of future possibilities for you!

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posted June 14, 2019 07:52 PM            

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that other chart you're looking at is off maybe 10 minutes, I have a 1st house moon also so you know I'm double sensitive to everything and how ppl react to me!
I hpe everybody sees my appretiation for all the wisdom yall are giving me! ilyasm! <3

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Which of those charts was based off your birth certificate?

The Taurus Rising chart I have is 3+ Taurus.
So, you've changed the ascendant to 4+ Taurus to include your Moon in the 1st House.

Thanks for the correction.
The things I've said about Uranus in your 1st House still applies then-- with extra attention for Ascendant-crossing.

{need to remove the 's' from https to link posts from LL}

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