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Topic: Taurus loyalty?
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WhiteBirds Knowflake Posts: 143 From: Registered: Oct 2018
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posted June 22, 2019 06:23 PM
quote: Originally posted by Electro DGX: I've had lots of experience with Tauruses.One of them is a Taurus sun conj. Saturn exact, with Moon and ASC in Libra (Moon in 12th not conj. ASC). Her Venus is in Gemini in the 9th; she will shower me with "I love you so much you're my best friend, I could never live without you." Though when I am gone she never hits me up, never asks me how things are going, always says she's "busy" even though I'm not a priority to her. I asked her once if we could hang out one day, and she said she was cleaning the garage and would text me back later about it. She never did; in fact, she invited someone else over to spend the night; their car was over at their house that night and the next morning. She'll over-exaggerate minor things and make them seem like "acts of betrayal" but do ****** up things to other people and try to rationalize it. My sister is also a Taurus (8th house Sun) with Venus-Mars in Gemini conjunct. Despite being a Cancer Moon, her relationships with other people tend to be on and off. She just assumed that since her boyfriend in school wasn't texting her that they were "over" while going on to tell me about this "deep **** " she was saying to another guy that she liked. She will obsess over a guy for a long time, only to suddenly drop it and move on to something else in a matter of seconds. Don't think, "Oh she's a Taurus so she's really loyal," it's not always the case. The two Tauruses I mentioned are both Gemini Venus and Aries Mercury as well.
Thank you for sharing your experiences.
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Nine Moderator Posts: 3745 From: The Cusp of Love Registered: May 2009
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posted June 22, 2019 10:19 PM
Taurus is generally loyal, but Gemini planets will put kinks in their reputation.A Taurus - Scorpio moon once said to me that he could never be a sugar-baby because you may get dumped in 10 years.... LOL ... Most marriages don't last that long. IP: Logged |
StubbornVirgo Knowflake Posts: 2609 From: Welcome to Mercury Registered: Jul 2015
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posted June 23, 2019 02:01 PM
I used to be close friends with a Taurus female. She's funny, loud, and generally loyal...as long as you stay on her good side, or so I thought. I paid for her meals many times, helped her out when she was super stressed out, and confided in her. Then I found out from my Cancer friend that the Taurus was sh*t talking me every time my back was turned. I was honestly shocked at just how much terrible stuff she was saying/spreading about me. The funny thing is, I've said many times to her in the past that I would prefer to outright be TOLD that I'm not liked than be gossiped about...and she's never saddled up and just said it. It's like she enjoys the drama too much.She still tries to pretend that we have some sort of a friendship from time to time. I don't confide in her or share anything with her, though. I listen and don't speak because anything you say to her is only ammunition for her to use. I have no idea what her placements are other than her Taurus Sun. I would not blame this type of behavior on Gemini though...I have Gemini Moon conjunct Mars and I don't behave this way. I wouldn't dream of trying to trash the reputation of those I care about. IP: Logged |
hypatia238 Moderator Posts: 11638 From: Mercury novile and parallel Pluto, Pluto septile Southnode Registered: Sep 2014
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posted June 23, 2019 02:29 PM
quote: Originally posted by WhiteBirds: I will summarize the story.I have a friend Taurus for 13 years. A lasting friendship Recently my friend gave me a glimpse that he wanted to get rid of me, because I bothered him. It's something that left me quite shocked. He is a Taurus with moon in Gemini, and he is not too sensitive, at least I like Cancer with moon in Scorpio, yes I notice the lack of sensitivity that he has, but it is not something that really matters to me, because he is a firm stone that is always there But what has happened makes me think that perhaps Taurus is not so loyal ...?
Beautiful, he has been your friend for 13 years, that is the definition of loyalty! A friendship that lasts that long is only possible with commitment and loyalty. He could just be going through something and needs some space, sometimes relationships benefit from taking a break and then you reconnect later again.
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taurusprettyrising Knowflake Posts: 48 From: Saint Louis, MO, United States Registered: Jan 2018
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posted June 23, 2019 05:06 PM
quote: Originally posted by StubbornVirgo: I used to be close friends with a Taurus female. She's funny, loud, and generally loyal...as long as you stay on her good side, or so I thought. I paid for her meals many times, helped her out when she was super stressed out, and confided in her. Then I found out from my Cancer friend that the Taurus was sh*t talking me every time my back was turned. I was honestly shocked at just how much terrible stuff she was saying/spreading about me. The funny thing is, I've said many times to her in the past that I would prefer to outright be TOLD that I'm not liked than be gossiped about...and she's never saddled up and just said it. It's like she enjoys the drama too much.She still tries to pretend that we have some sort of a friendship from time to time. I don't confide in her or share anything with her, though. I listen and don't speak because anything you say to her is only ammunition for her to use. I have no idea what her placements are other than her Taurus Sun. I would not blame this type of behavior on Gemini though...I have Gemini Moon conjunct Mars and I don't behave this way. I wouldn't dream of trying to trash the reputation of those I care about.
DANG. but some taurus sun chicks can be bitter and they enjoy the gossip esp in work places.  IP: Logged |
ithinkimightbewrong Knowflake Posts: 120 From: Registered: Nov 2018
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posted June 23, 2019 06:41 PM
i'm a taurus sunidk what it is in my chart but i know pretty early if there are deal breakers or not, however it takes me quite a long time to come out and say it and break up with the people (i figured this was my 7th house stellium trying to be nice)...one of my ex's i knew from day one that it wouldn't work out, yet it took me over a year to break up with him... IP: Logged |
TrueScorpio Knowflake Posts: 87 From: Registered: Sep 2017
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posted June 24, 2019 11:48 PM
quote: Originally posted by girlwiththerainysoul: Taurus hates clutter.If you mess up the peace in their life, they'll be quick to throw you out of it, no matter how long they have known or been friends with you.
This makes so much sense. Then it wouldn't be a loyalty thing with them it would be interfering with their own comfort and peace of mind which most Taurus (I know) would say is a deal breaker. IP: Logged |
TrueScorpio Knowflake Posts: 87 From: Registered: Sep 2017
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posted June 24, 2019 11:48 PM
quote: Originally posted by girlwiththerainysoul: Taurus hates clutter.If you mess up the peace in their life, they'll be quick to throw you out of it, no matter how long they have known or been friends with you.
This makes so much sense. Then it wouldn't be a loyalty thing with them it would be interfering with their own comfort and peace of mind which most Taurus (I know) would say is a deal breaker. IP: Logged |
Brenda_S Knowflake Posts: 664 From: Registered: Sep 2018
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posted June 25, 2019 05:11 AM
quote: Originally posted by TrueScorpio: This makes so much sense. Then it wouldn't be a loyalty thing with them it would be interfering with their own comfort and peace of mind which most Taurus (I know) would say is a deal breaker.
As a Taurus Sun, I don't find that to be true. Although I like cleanliness, my space is 95% of the time just a mess. Yeah it upsets me when other people are the ones messing up my space, but I can't necessarily say it would be a deal breaker. My Gemini Moon finds clumsiness/erratic energy pretty familiar and actually kinda cute to an extent. So I guess it depends on more than the Sun sign as for the deal breaker part of it... IP: Logged |